Men of the Coli, help me out

[Originalman]

These weirdos post anything. What the fukk does that mean he isn't the leader of his friends. His friends don't need a leader.

At the end of the day what matters is if dude can LEAD his own life and make decisions to better himself.

These no having boyfriend weirdos ain't a leader in they own lives which is the reason they stay on twitter posting dumb shyt.

 

[LeaveMyHairLineAlone]

Exist?
Then why make a whole list

 

[Alvin]

This semi popular tweet is a reoccurring theme that I always hear from women, yet literally have never seen it…




Like have yall nikkas ever seen this shyt in something thats not like an organized gang or some shyt? Like it’s obvious that someone like Jprince is the huncho of the rap alot mob or whatever but I literally have never seen leaders in random friend groups.

My take is that women are projecting their insecure ass secretly competitive relationships onto men. Men in my experience usually won’t keep a weak link around in the first place. The thought of the store runner nikka that constantly gets bullied but still somehow comes around to kick it makes no sense to me at all as a man.

Thoughts?

this is my first time hearing this in real or social media.

 

[Sauce Mane]

 

[Guile]

Imagine kicking it with the guy you dating and his friends and he getting sent to the store and slapped on the back of the head .

That’s a huge turn off!

Point me to the leader sir

Seems you've experienced this.

Anyway, this hapoens in very juvenile groups or grouos where a leader is needed to get things done efficiently (military, workplace). Casual friend groups are much more lose and communal.

 

[old pig]

Imagine kicking it with the guy you dating and his friends and he getting sent to the store and slapped on the back of the head .

That’s a huge turn off!

Point me to the leader sir

stop dating teenagers

 

[Alvin]

When you meet her friend group and she not the baddest<<<<<<

yeah this a good counter

 

[Marti]

stop dating teenagers

This was a 24 year old man . I was 23 at the time .

 

[Alvin]

I’ve seen it on two occasions. One was a mixed group mainly white my boy was the leader of his friend group. He told me one time when we was out how it can be embarrassing that they treat him like a god. Other time was in the hood all nikkas one was Marty he was like 3rd in command roddy was 2nd and this dude Jack was the leader. Crazy part about that was roddy was the strongest and most active but they all respected Jack because he was the one who had the ideas. They all acknowledged him as the leader and brains of the clique. He wouldn’t even be around most of the time either.

so I don't get it, basically when y'all were out, those two would make decisions (where to eat, what we doing) I mean y'all are hanging out, you ask what people want to do but it's not like your making orders and they have to follow. Women really think like that?!

 

[Alvin]

so from what I am taking from this, is that women think whenever men hang out, 1 man (the leader/alpha) is the one who told everyone to be there, what to order to eat or drink and to take orders from him? I mean I think everyone "leads" if they are the ones who are planning something or have done it before but that doesn't make them the defacto head huncho everyone confides to and follows.

 

[Alvin]

clearly not everything applies to everybody. but there are some groups where one person is the leader depending on the activity. like a guy who can get into VIP in all the clubs and get his friends in. That's the leader there. a guy who is a manager that gives friends job referrals, that's the leader there. but those same people may have another circle of friends who are "jus chillin playing video games" where no one needs to be a leader. these are some examples i've seen....common sense shyt

how are those two examples leaders though? It's another thing if someone gets their friends into VIP, tells them what we (me) are ordering and what women they can bring into VIP. What you said is someone just has connections, you can do whatever in the club, you just now have the option to be in VIP. Same with job referral, is your friend working for you? If not then it's just that a referral, if I refer someone and we are of the same level then I wouldn't call myself the leader.

 

[Uncle Trill]

At this point I'm purposely doing whatever it is they don't like so they will f off and leave me alone.

 

[skyrunner1]

how are those two examples leaders though? It's another thing if someone gets their friends into VIP, tells them what we (me) are ordering and what women they can bring into VIP. What you said is someone just has connections, you can do whatever in the club, you just now have the option to be in VIP. Same with job referral, is your friend working for you? If not then it's just that a referral, if I refer someone and we are of the same level then I wouldn't call myself the leader.

Thats just how women look at it breh, they taking their friend group dynamics and then try to make decision choices on dudes in same way even tho dudes dont really operate in that dynamic. Look at the examples used, going out choices, who wears certain clothes first (like most dudes dont even care about clothes like that) thats is literally something women do, men dont even care about this stuff.

 

[maxamusa]

Yall be telling on yourselves. You are what you hang around. If there’s a “player 2” around you then you are probably also a “player 2”. Nobody I ever hung out with would be considered a player 2..

My mom blessed me with an official playstation; so 2 player 2s doesn't make any damn sense. You or anybody else was never player 1 in my house. Matter of fact if you even tried to pick up that controller you would have been deaded from the rotation and be doing snack runs.

BIG FACTS

 

[Jekyll]

My mom blessed me with an official playstation; so 2 player 2s doesn't make any damn sense. You or anybody else was never player 1 in my house. Matter of fact if you even tried to pick up that controller you would have been deaded from the rotation and be doing snack runs.

BIG FACTS

nikka you got me fukked up. I’ll come lay everybody down and take everything in yo bytch ass house. fukk you talkin bout nikka