Men of the Coli, help me out

[Duke Wy Lin]

They basically saying they want the alpha, which is natural

No it's not because we're not fukkin animals

I bet you the chick who tweeted that shyt has let plenty of bum ass dudes hit.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

This what happens when you don’t get attention in real life. You resort to online fukkry to get the dopamine fix you desire.

 

[invalid]

I see this all the time among my white friend circles. They operate based off an hierarchy. But it’s typically two or three leaders and they’re basically the wealthiest guys in the group or have the most access.

Black guys I don’t really see it as much. If I do it’s younger guys but I think as black men get older things start to level off.

 

[SupaHotIce]

So is this why women always talk behind their friends back? All that passive aggressiveness trying to be the alpha of the pack

 

[maxamusa]

Player 2 Brehs in here STEAMING

 

[Jekyll]

Player 2 Brehs in here STEAMING

Yall be telling on yourselves. You are what you hang around. If there’s a “player 2” around you then you are probably also a “player 2”. Nobody I ever hung out with would be considered a player 2..

 

[LiveFromLondon]

This is what women specifically look for and "yall" in here talking about your life experiences to add this also lines up with all the alpa bs brehs spew here daily but now it might expose "yalls" standing "yall" mad.

 

[Jekyll]

This is what women specifically look for and "yall" in here talking about your life experiences to add this also lines up with all the alpa bs brehs spew here daily but now it might expose "yalls" standing "yall" mad.

Hmm.

Whats there to be mad about again? Look at the replies and quotes in that tweet. Look at this thread. Like 95% of men are rejecting this existing in their relationships.

Women can only look at men through a woman’s lens. And womens social relationships are completely different from men. There’s a reason why men tend to keep life long friendships and women have new friend groups every birthday. Most nikkas on this site spouting that alpha shyt are socially awkward lames with no friends and they get called that on here.

Normal people aren’t out here living in a chain of command or whatever some of you weirdos think. I just made this thread to confirm it…


edit: the quotes keep getting better …but bu bu women look for this

 

[MoveForward]

It’s true and tbh whether you want to admit it or not, there is usually a friend that is the “leader” of a group. Said friend is generally more successful and outgoing than the other guys in the group.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Yall groups of friends have a leader? Even in highschool that shyt was dead

 

[Jekyll]

Yall groups of friends have a leader? Even in highschool that shyt was dead

Alot of these internet people expose their weirdness and be shocked that its weird.

These people don’t have friends, they have people that they tolerate because they probably can’t tolerate themselves and just kick it alone.

 

[Voice of Reason]

twitter is like TheColi for women they just get on there babbling

 

[Sukairain]

Never in my life heard a woman say this… or even a man

But I’m not the “leader” of my friends group either. We all the leaders. I just don’t like making plans and will be down for whatever or will literally do my own thing.

The other night for example, My homie got us in a nice club/lounge for free. I didn’t know nobody that works there so I followed his lead. Eventually, he went to talk to his people and I chilled and wandered alone flirting, conversating, met a few ppl I knew from other spots, etc.

Eventually, he had to ride out and I stayed and went to other spots solo.

Tf is a leader in a group of friends?

I completely agree with you. A group of friends should basically be a democracy. There shouldn't be any leaders or followers. You just do what you want. There's an organiser, sure, the person who put the meet together. That person decides where and when you meet. There might be a host as well if you're at somebody's house, and that person decides what activities you're doing. But that's about it. That isn't leadership

If you've got anyone in your friends group who wants to play the boss man, he should be kicked out and excluded. If you want to be the boss, go to work. Work is the place where there are leaders and followers. Amongst friends, everyone is equal

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

ITS DEFINITELY A THING. THERE IS A LEADER IN THE GROUP USUALLY. HE USUALLY DOESN'T NEED TO DO OR SAY MUCH IN THAT ROLE.

MEN HAVE MAN LAWS THAT GOVERN A LOT OF OUR INTERACTIONS WITH OTHER MEN. YOU'LL SEE WHO THE LEADER IS WHEN WOMEN COME AROUND OR IF THEIR IS A DISPUTE THAT MAN LAW DOESN'T SOLVE.

 

[old pig]

y’all nikkas be so scared of these bytches’ tweets