Men of the Coli, help me out

[Marti]

Imagine kicking it with the guy you dating and his friends and he getting sent to the store and slapped on the back of the head .

That’s a huge turn off!

Point me to the leader sir

 

[KneeGrow.]

Some of ya'll get touched by these tweets and it's obvious.

 

[Sex Luthor]

I've never seen or heard this in my entire life. Don't let the internet tell you how to live your life.

 

[The Fade]

Breh, Women are biologically inclined to look fr this stuff.. I remember girls pointing this out in elementary/middle school and the boys would look at them like they had 3 eyes. Boys dont really care about that stuff but girls look for it EARLY. When we grow to be men, its natural for dudes to have hierarchies and its not a big deal... But for women its everything, cuz they make their choices in men based on that shyt..

No dude sits in his friend group and ranks they friends, girls are always aware of this type of stuff tho. They pay attention to how dudes answer each other and stuff. Women are wayyy more social and care about that, dudes can just sit and chill.. Thats why many times if a dude bring his new chick in friend group, shyt changes up quick. Or how when a girl come in a friend group and out of no where all dudes was chilling but then one of the boys try to put down another dude when he never did that shyt before. Women start whispering in they dude ear and next thing you know he acting different..

Girl code is so much more fukked up than Guy code too.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Naturally you put any 5 or so people together then there’s probably going to be one who is more successful or better looking or has the best hands or whatever. I think women see that and automatically think that this person is in charge or running shyt but to men it don’t work like that. Basically women friend groups suffer from the Beyonce syndrome and they can’t understand ours.

real shyt. especially the bolded. that tweet was basically projection.

In a girl’s friend group (let’s say it’s 5 of them) there’s prolly 2 chubby ones; they at the bottom. one that’s ok; she got the best personality…and then it’s the top two prettiest ones who are getting the most attention.

I’ve noticed pretty girls don’t hang around too many other pretty girls; too much competition for attention. They need to stand out. That’s why they encourage their fat friend to keep eating and say bs like “girl u look good”.

 

[Tair]

I don't have friends where there is a "leader" of the group.

If a hierarchy breaks out, I'm out.

I follow my own lead so to speak, and will happily ride alone if need be. But if my friend suggests a new spot, etc..., or teaches me a few things, that doesn't mean he leads me in the sense that I am below him. He is helping me just as I would help him. That is how most guy groups operate.

The idiot bird in the OP wouldn't understand that as she only understands toxicity.

My ex tried some toxic shyt like saying, "you need to lead more", not understanding how I operate or what I consider important and unimportant which is why she's my ex. I don't believe in "alpha/beta" either. Depending on certain contexts, and as alluded to before, we all have our strengths and weaknesses, and those of us that don't allow shallow pride to get in the way of our growth end up learning a lot more than other people and doing better in life.

 

[VelourSocks]

having a leader of your friend group is insane

grown people don't even think like this

 

[Billy Ocean]

Breh, Women are biologically inclined to look fr this stuff.. I remember girls pointing this out in elementary/middle school and the boys would look at them like they had 3 eyes. Boys dont really care about that stuff but girls look for it EARLY. When we grow to be men, its natural for dudes to have hierarchies and its not a big deal... But for women its everything, cuz they make their choices in men based on that shyt..

No dude sits in his friend group and ranks they friends, girls are always aware of this type of stuff tho. They pay attention to how dudes answer each other and stuff. Women are wayyy more social and care about that, dudes can just sit and chill.. Thats why many times if a dude bring his new chick in friend group, shyt changes up quick. Or how when a girl come in a friend group and out of no where all dudes was chilling but then one of the boys try to put down another dude when he never did that shyt before. Women start whispering in they dude ear and next thing you know he acting different..

Let the God give y'all Coli nikkas one piece of advice: if you got a "friend" who starts trying to be fake tough, disrespectful or putting other dudes around y'all down when bytches is around: cut that nikka off ASAP. That nikka a clown and got jealous, female tendencies. He bound to do some fukk shyt to you.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Imagine kicking it with the guy you dating and his friends and he getting sent to the store and slapped on the back of the head .

That’s a huge turn off!

Point me to the leader sir

Where do yall live where these is “friends”

 

[Remote]

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Stop listening to these birds.

A group of men operate like a pack of roaming male lions.

They basically saying they want the alpha, which is natural

Both of these kinda true. I think if the power dynamics are about even and people respect the dude it's good enough. If the dude is one way with his gf and is all of a sudden meek and quiet with his friends I could see how that is troublesome.

 

[Jasonmask]

Look up to

I don’t look up to or follow nobody like that. My nikkas know I’ll do my own thing group or not.

I’m not the most VOCAL but I’m not like that in general. I’ll chill at the bar while my nikkas crowd surf, will be off to the side while they get busy, and if they need me (whether to be a wingman, or a fight about to happen, etc.) they know I’ll be there. It’s happened before. And vice versa

Idk about other dudes, But I’m too old to be looking up to nikkas my age. It has never been like this with any of my close friends. If a chick thinks any of them are a “leader” and not me, idgaf actually. No hate coming from me towards them in any shape. I just don’t hear normal people talk like that in my circles

I’ve seen it on two occasions. One was a mixed group mainly white my boy was the leader of his friend group. He told me one time when we was out how it can be embarrassing that they treat him like a god. Other time was in the hood all nikkas one was Marty he was like 3rd in command roddy was 2nd and this dude Jack was the leader. Crazy part about that was roddy was the strongest and most active but they all respected Jack because he was the one who had the ideas. They all acknowledged him as the leader and brains of the clique. He wouldn’t even be around most of the time either.

 

[Nymbus]

Everyone can't be the Goku, sometimes the squad needs a dependable Krillin

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Everyone can't be the Goku, sometimes the squad needs a dependable Krillin

idk, I’ve always been on my Piccolo shyt.

Maybe when we was kids or something but I can’t even say all that. We all was competitive with each other. Iron sharpens iron

 

[LuuqMaan]

The death of most men with high blood pressure is due to listening to the opinions of bird babble.