Men of the Coli, help me out

[RaspberryFitted]

I remember a thread on here where OP asked if he got bytched on a double date for the dude taking leadership amongst the group..

Not on my “get back in the kitchen” shyt, but women really should learn to shut up and letting things play out.

 

[Zime]

My friendship circle isn’t even that big for me to worry about this shyt


This is more of a women problem

 

[Jasonmask]

They basically saying they want the alpha, which is natural

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Never in my life heard a woman say this… or even a man

But I’m not the “leader” of my friends group either. We all the leaders. I just don’t like making plans and will be down for whatever or will literally do my own thing.

The other night for example, My homie got us in a nice club/lounge for free. I didn’t know nobody that works there so I followed his lead. Eventually, he went to talk to his people and I chilled and wandered alone flirting, conversating, met a few ppl I knew from other spots, etc.

Eventually, he had to ride out and I stayed and went to other spots solo.

Tf is a leader in a group of friends?

 

[Jekyll]

Never in my life heard a woman say this… or even a man

But I’m not the “leader” of my friends group either. We all the leaders. I just don’t like making plans and will be down for whatever or will literally do my own thing.

The other night for example, My homie got us in a nice club/lounge for free. I didn’t know nobody that works there so I followed his lead. Eventually, he went to talk to his people and I chilled and wandered alone flirting, conversating, met a few ppl I knew from other spots, etc.

Eventually, he had to ride out and I stayed and went to other spots solo.

Tf is a leader in a group of friends?

Yeah this is how it goes in my experience.

Naturally you put any 5 or so people together then there’s probably going to be one who is more successful or better looking or has the best hands or whatever. I think women see that and automatically think that this person is in charge or running shyt but to men it don’t work like that. Basically women friend groups suffer from the Beyonce syndrome and they can’t understand ours.

 

[africngiant]

My friendship circle isn’t even that big for me to worry about this shyt


This is more of a women problem

we on some big 3 shyt over here

while the rest of my “friends” are in my family lol

 

[Jasonmask]

Never in my life heard a woman say this… or even a man

But I’m not the “leader” of my friends group either. We all the leaders. I just don’t like making plans and will be down for whatever or will literally do my own thing.

The other night for example, My homie got us in a nice club/lounge for free. I didn’t know nobody that works there so I followed his lead. Eventually, he went to talk to his people and I chilled and wandered alone flirting, conversating, met a few ppl I knew from other spots, etc.

Eventually, he had to ride out and I stayed and went to other spots solo.

Tf is a leader in a group of friends?

The one every one looks up to. Whether it’s because they got the most clout, fukk the most hoes, pull the baddest, got the most money etc. I’ve seen it before. Honestly if I’m not the leader in my friend group I’ll be the gambit/omega red type in the group.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Friend groups don't need leaders if everyone is on the same wavelength

Especially if everyone is content with themselves

 

[Jekyll]

The one every one looks up to. Whether it’s because they got the most clout, fukk the most hoes, pull the baddest, got the most money etc. I’ve seen it before. Honestly if I’m not the leader in my friend group I’ll be the gambit/omega red type in the group.

I can’t imagine looking up to any of my ppl. nikkas know I’ll slap the shyt out of them or roast they ass if they get wrong. And they’ll do the same to me. I don’t see how a friendship can work with a leader. Like are yall just trying to hang on to this super amazing nikka or do you actually build yourself up to match him.

 

[Peachstate]

Please stop listening to these baby birds.

 

[Jasonmask]

I can’t imagine looking up to any of my ppl. nikkas know I’ll slap the shyt out of them or roast they ass if they get wrong. And they’ll do the same to me. I don’t see how a friendship can work with a leader. Like are yall just trying to hang on to this super amazing nikka or do you actually build yourself up to match him.

I’m like you breh like I said if I wasn’t the leader I’d just be somebody in the clique who would be around on the regular but clearly had other ties and shyt going on and I wasn’t looking up to nobody and would check the balance. But yeah as the leader they just leech off you until you fall off

 

[O.T.I.S.]

The one every one looks up to. Whether it’s because they got the most clout, fukk the most hoes, pull the baddest, got the most money etc. I’ve seen it before. Honestly if I’m not the leader in my friend group I’ll be the gambit/omega red type in the group.

Look up to

I don’t look up to or follow nobody like that. My nikkas know I’ll do my own thing group or not.

I’m not the most VOCAL but I’m not like that in general. I’ll chill at the bar while my nikkas crowd surf, will be off to the side while they get busy, and if they need me (whether to be a wingman, or a fight about to happen, etc.) they know I’ll be there. It’s happened before. And vice versa

Idk about other dudes, But I’m too old to be looking up to nikkas my age. It has never been like this with any of my close friends. If a chick thinks any of them are a “leader” and not me, idgaf actually. No hate coming from me towards them in any shape. I just don’t hear normal people talk like that in my circles

 

[SNG]

Hoe babble shyt. I swear some of these birds be trolling the fukk out of nikkaz. Weed carrier nikkaz in a group get fukked all the time.

 

[Henri Christophe]

Women wanna be with crime bosses, warlords, generals, kings & CEOs.

In real life tho - men just be chillin

We never disrespect or treat our friends like "the little bro"

We are brothers and we respect each other as such.

 

[Henri Christophe]

Weed carrier nikkaz in a group get fukked all the time.

Facts.... Most women have zero access to the real boss nikkas.

Most women only have access to low-level peon nikkas.

Look at their baby daddies.... loser ass nikkas