Men of the coli, how does this video make you feel?
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quote lame movies brehs
effeminate men?
It's just letting men and boys know its alright to be themselves. You have to be all macho all time, thats all breh. Aint no one telling them not to be responsibly and hold themselves accountable for their actions. That's pushing effeminate men breh.
Men arent being judged based on principles anymore, its all about false feelings and actions that lead to mental break downs and violence.
No, it's a feminist push on men, it's clearly playing the position that gender roles are negative and men should be more like women and open about their feelings, when showing weakness from an evolutionary standpoint is hard coded into our brains as a no-no. Men struggle with feelings because it's a new cotdamn concept, you're trying to erase millions of years worth of evolution in a 30 year span. shyt, ask a young kid about his feelings, he'll tell you happy, hungry, excited but the second they're down they themselves won't let you know if they are sad. Anyone that has nephews or a son will know that asking even a young boy how they're feeling will be met with resistance if they're sad, even if you aren't on some "man up" shyt with them.
And violence is mostly a bi-product of poverty, not feelings and repressed emotions
No, it's a feminist push on men, it's clearly playing the position that gender roles are negative and men should be more like women and open about their feelings, when showing weakness from an evolutionary standpoint is hard coded into our brains as a no-no. Men struggle with feelings because it's a new cotdamn concept, you're trying to erase millions of years worth of evolution in a 30 year span. shyt, ask a young kid about his feelings, he'll tell you happy, hungry, excited but the second they're down they themselves won't let you know if they are sad. Anyone that has nephews or a son will know that asking even a young boy how they're feeling will be met with resistance if they're sad, even if you aren't on some "man up" shyt with them.
And violence is mostly a bi-product of poverty, not feelings and repressed emotions
Feminist don't give a fukk about us breh, seriously I can not that stress that enough. If some of them had it their way we would be cattle. That resistance is created from insecurity that's presented to them by everyday shyt. Violence isnt just a bi product of poverty, think about all the middle class whites thats been running around shooting up places. Imagine if these men had a chance to talk to someone about their feelings or was able to fully expression them, more lives could have been save.
Fine example when a kid i was mentoring lost a friend two days ago and didnt wanna come home and his mother contacted me. I found him at his friends house and met him on his way out to handle payback. Homie had the burner on him and was ready to use it, I had to take him to ihop so we can talk and eat, he didnt cry when he found out he friend passed, he was just pure rage and hatred.
After 3 hours of explaining to him the first of step recovery is acceptance and told him how many friends i lost and how I got over them (which I didnt really) He finally cried, 16 years old and was always told not to cry. I had to play grief counselor for 3 hours so he wouldnt go out there and make someone else family suffer. Us black men have it more rough than another other races when it comes to finding true man hood due to some many outside influence from self destructive cultures. Pseudo masculinity aka the mean mug, step on my shoes and youre dead, just doing shyt to other people because we can.
Most of black youth are depressed due to poverty and violence is a bi product I agree with that but what if we can let this young men know its alright to expressed feelings other than anger? False faces rule the world friend, just because someone is happy on the outside doesnt mean their ok on the inside. All this video tells us is its ok to expressed basic human feelings without being worried of being judged as weak.
I delt with it all from my own experience and all I can say is its nothing with having a heart. Were not fukking robots
Nintendough
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@Willstyles Breh, seriously. You gotta step away from the feminism, its not healthy for a man to pander to that rubbish. Men don't do these 3 hour recovery discussions. Stop letting these confused females make their confusion your confusion. I told you a while back that going to those feminist meetings weren't good for you or any other man. I know you wanna do the right thing but you're extending yourself into territories that aren't natural for you.
Don't make me feel shyt
I do what i want and live my life the way i want to.
This video is for dudes who always want to live up to a perception that society tell them how to live
U WANT TO BE A MAN - DO THE fukk WHAT U WANT INSTEAD OF FOLLOWING OTHERS
I do what i want and live my life the way i want to.
This video is for dudes who always want to live up to a perception that society tell them how to live
U WANT TO BE A MAN - DO THE fukk WHAT U WANT INSTEAD OF FOLLOWING OTHERS
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Bruh what's going on with you?
newworldafro
DeeperThanRapBiggerThanHH
Probably ..... no doubt its important for men/boys to be able to express their pain and frustation, and without guidance, beyond just "Man Up"..... things can go haywire, if you have multiple men/boys with similar issues congregating and bumping heads........... WITH THAT SAID ....this is a low key way to sale
more pharmaceuticals to "CORRECT" natural human emotions .......... 
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nothing wrong with being told to be a man or grow up
i see my 4 year old nephew do some things that make me go you need to stop living with your mother and grandmother and stay with your other family (we got 5 males in the fam home)
cant let these boys grow up and be sissys, im forcing the boys to watch some old wwe shyt from my time. they gon learn
i see my 4 year old nephew do some things that make me go
you need to stop living with your mother and grandmother and stay with your other family (we got 5 males in the fam home) cant let these boys grow up and be sissys, im forcing the boys to watch some old wwe shyt from my time. they gon learn
I cried... Think its time to talk about our struggles in society friends
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that part cracked me up
but I understand how it feels to be told to be a certain kind of strong instead of just being yourself. I remember I was outside taking pics of flowers and drawing sunsets and plants. My dad told me to stop being a punk and play sports. Which I did like doing but it wasnt my passion like photography was. As time progress I stop doing what made me happy and ending becoming some guy that's supposed to be all of these things but myself. Which is why I ended up developing anger issues and thought it was ok to drop nikkas on their face 24/7.
I didnt wanna be apart of that world, which is why I was often shunned by most of the boys in my elementary school but I didnt care. I just wanted to be myself, now I don't even know what happened to that lil guy, all I see now is a brolic urban violence vet with ptsd and depression from losing 15 friends, family and associates over the passed 10 years.
I feel ths post. I'm dealing with anger issues still to this day from grade school to college. Sadly, I think they'll never go away.
It's hard to explain...it's probably why some days I'm in love with the world and other days I seriously just want to punch everyone I see in the face...repeatedly. I could never get like that though...but then again, I had a unique upbringing.
Being force to be something you don't wanna be is traumatic and creates suppressed feelings. Growing up, I didnt wanna fight constantly, I'm a quiet introverted person what was forced to run with the opposite of my character. I mean a lot of adults will say thats stupid but at the same time being a child, being accepted is everything to them. Got to a point I had to become a goon just for respect and I regret doing that.
All the guys wanna bring up feminism but at the end of the day this is our struggle, they have nothing to do with it. We need to address this more to young men.
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I was pretty much coerced into an environment where it was either play sports or be seen as a lame. Even though I was bad at it and was on the bench over 75% of the time, I played sports in grade school and high school. Personally, I just wanted to chill, read comic books, play video games, draw, and do me. There's a trap of masculinity (that's even worse in the black community) I feel where if you're not into sports or any of this "hypermasculine" BS (created from a fatherless generation) others will tend to see them as "weak" or "soft".
I got into a lot of fights when I was younger too. Spent alot of time being picked on and agitated by others. It was just nature...I stood up for myself and fought back rather than take their abuse.
At the end of the day, there needs to be more acceptance of those who think and do outside the box.
I agree.
People are basing manhood on all this superficial shyt and not the key factors like responsibility and accountability. Personally I don't care how you dress, who you love or how you live long as you have those two qualities you have my respect.
