Men should not have to pay for the wedding ring

[JLova]

The problem is women already have in their mind what kind of wedding they want, what kind of ring, what kind of dress, etc... before they even meet a guy. I've met single women who had scrapbooks of rings and dresses. That's all types of fukked up.

 

[Diondon]

17mths

Goddamn. What happened?

 

[pickles]

I thought all the nikkas on here made over 100,000 and had a gaggle of IT certificates.
You aint going to drop a couple of stacks for your fine ass PAWG?

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Why is it even a gift in the first place? This is the mentality that I don't get.

you're the one proposing to her. So you're giving her the ring. Why is she paying for something that you are giving her?

 

[JLova]

This again?

It's real simple...spend what you can reasonably afford. If she don't like it, she ain't the one for you, period. Y'all act like spending more than $1,000 on a woman who you supposedly want to spend the rest of your life with is going to set you back for years and years. That's broke knee grow talk and I know Coli knee grows make that guap...right?

Right?

I just find it funny how there are these calculations on how much you should spend. I've heard 3 months salary to 1 month. It's downright retarded.

 

[Rawtid]

I'm sorry but you are going to rationalize this. Its literally putting a price on "love" and then people wonder why half of marriages turn to utter shyt. Just because I don't want to spend thousands on a ring I'm automatically going to blow it on bullshyt? gtfoh with that straw man argumetn my nikka.

No it's not. You're participating in a tradition and you don't have to participate if you want to. if you don't want to buy your spouse a ring, then don't but don't knock others that do or pretend they are taking some financial hit by spending money on something THEY consider importantant.

 

[Rawtid]

I just find it funny how there are these calculations on how much you should spend. I've heard 3 months salary to 1 month. It's downright retarded.

It's really up to the couple. They should get something they can afford.

 

[JLova]

you're the one proposing to her. So you're giving her the ring. Why is she paying for something that you are giving her?

Oh so NOW yall wanna be traditional...hmm?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Goddamn. What happened?

Goddamn. What happened?

Shyt felt like I was in prison so I pulled the plug

 

[JLova]

It's really up to the couple. They should get something they can afford.

I agree with this.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Oh so NOW yall wanna be traditional...hmm?

 

[GoldenGlove]

I spend 5k on ring
17k on the wedding
FML

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[Diondon]

Shyt felt like I was in prison so I pulled the plug

 

[posterchild336]

I just find it funny how there are these calculations on how much you should spend. I've heard 3 months salary to 1 month. It's downright retarded.

this is a marketing tool to spend...stop looking into that...if $500 is your budget spend $500

 

[Diondon]

Why you taking your girl ring shopping with you in the first place? Her ass don't need to know how much you spent. Just take what I give you.