Men that wait until their late 20's or 30s to be in a serious relationship/settle down
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I wouldnt do anything with a young 22 but have sex and thats it. They will regret you taking their youth later on and leave your ancient dikk dry when you can on longer pull women. Have fun while it last.
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
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lol you dweebs still believe in marriage? smh
mcdivit85
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I am satisfied. I feel no person, in the 21st century frame work we're in, should get married before 25 years old at the minimum. But ideally for men, I don't think they should get married before 30. Men need to be leaders of their household. That only happens when he is financially established and can provide guidance and a level of foundation. That generally takes time to acquire.
You can't be "the man" of the house if you can't even take care of yourself. And dudes tend to need that first half of their 20s to get to that point.
Plus, I think dudes need to date around and live alone for several years before they get married. Too many dudes go from living at home with mom to living with their girlfriend. Or only live with roommates.
Peace
You can't be "the man" of the house if you can't even take care of yourself. And dudes tend to need that first half of their 20s to get to that point.
Plus, I think dudes need to date around and live alone for several years before they get married. Too many dudes go from living at home with mom to living with their girlfriend. Or only live with roommates.
Peace
When you say live alone for several years is that hard to do since we are social creatures? Do you or did you live alone in the past?
1 other person
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I have been living solely by myself for the past 8 years. No live in girl or room mates, just me.
You can do without the social interaction?
mcdivit85
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Yea I lived alone for several years after living with a roommate for several years. I enjoyed living alone. And living alone doesn't mean being by yourself all the time. You do the same things you would if you lived with others. You just have your own space and have complete control over it.
Now, I live with my fiance. But I'm glad I had that time to myself because I was able to experience living with a friend, living alone and living with a woman. So, I don't feel cramped or like I missed something.
Some people underestimate living alone for some reason. Most young people I know enjoy it more than living with roommates. I did.
Peace
The older I get, the more I seem to be encountering mentally ill women. 
ok gotcha. Man, I'm so behind. 31 and live with my mother and have never lived on my own before. Once I get a job I'm saving as much as I can to get my own place. How much money do I need to save at minimum before I can afford my own place?
the bossman
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I been living with roommates past 6 years and just copped my first home 2 months ago. The feeling of dancing naked in my kitchen at 2am and giving no fukks is incredible. I gotta enjoy this solo living for AT LEAST a year before I'd consider having a chick I'm serious ith move in.
mcdivit85
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Yea, you need to love out asap. Depends on where you live. You would need to save what you need for first, last and security. After that, I would keep a couple grand on tap for any emergencies.
Peace
1 other person
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I dont know your situation. But when I started living on my own I took out student loans to get me started. Never finished school, just did it for the loan money. I was down on my luck and didnt have any money at the time. Dont know if this is helpful.
richaveli83
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I'm 32 and will be 33 in a few weeks. Been in my career for the past five years and make good money, no children, have my own place and live alone, nice car, and planning on buying a house next year. I'm looking to settle down but it's hard to find a woman who has some sense and has her stuff together. Women around my age or little older have a lot of baggage and women in their early 20's aren't looking to settle down. I want children but I don't want to just impregnate any woman but finding a quality woman with little to no baggage younger than 30 is hard nowadays.
Logically speaking you should be getting better women or a better woman, because you yourself should be a more attractive person at that point (if you do it right. If you're 30 in the same spot you were in when you were 20 then 
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