Men that wait until their late 20's or 30s to be in a serious relationship/settle down

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Pickings get slim AS shyt the older you get
Meeting a chick while you in your 30s ? :why:
She either going have kids or baggage. Unless she a doctor where she was in school for 8 yrs getting your career together ain't no excuse for ppl in their 30 so miss me with that
Single chick in her 30s probably have some flaw, trust me. The good ones get wifed up before 30

You gotta at least MEET the chick before 30, y'all don't gotta be serious but at least have her in the wings and know what she doing
I'm in my early 30s and married. I met my wife as a "friend" when she was 18. I lived with my gf then and was just cool with my wife. Fast forward 5 yrs we both single and we start dating. She 23 I'm in my late 20s. I basically knew everything about her at that point despite us just starting to officially date. 5 YEARS AFTR THAT I propose. So I didn't "settle down" until my 30s but I been knew my wife for damn near a decade. My wife was locked up WAY before she was 30. The bytches I was just meeting in they 30s were washed as shyt. No comparison

Anecdotal evidence. Truth is the longer you wait as a male and the more assets/knowledge you gain. The more choice you have...

This world is a big place


The sad part is discovering with age that women only see you as a utility for them.
 

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In a time where marriage is delayed due to education and career, you couldn't be more incorrect and uninformed.

But what do I know? I was just a 30+ single woman with no kids.
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I stand by my original statement:mjgrin:

Atleast you will be saving a lot of cats lives being that your home will be infested with them when you're lonely and miserable :pachaha:
 

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Things started to move pretty fast for me when i met my girl. My girl and I met during my first of master (3 years ago), i was 23 and were living with my mom, she was 31 and already independent and established financially, our lifestyles were completely different, i had to make some adjustements. We started dating and months after, she want to settle down with me, i said why not, my decision was pretty rush but i didn't regret that because it's a great experience and fulfillment, i matured so much since i moved with my girl. Secondly, I finally left my momma basement to buy a home with my name on it,:yeshrug: this was an other factor for me wanting to settle. Next year, we've plan to married and baby should be soon. From experience, there's some many benefits to be in a serious relationship with someone vs chasing hoes, mentally and physically you'll be more healthy and way more happy, you need balance in your personal life if you want to be successful.

It was a good pick for me because she was ready to settle and i was craving to leave and go far away from my home. I want to start new and i couldn't do it because i was tight financially, it was a good timing, i couldn't say no. Now, i'm in better position to plan my future, i owe her that.

:whew: this is a disaster waiting to happen in the next 5 years . Holla at us with the update breh. Once you get your career established and your money up on a few years you will be miserable
 

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How many men like this end up with good quality woman? If you're one of these types how is it working for you?
To be 100, not good. Hoes your age have kids, know what they want, and have inflated egos.

Young chicks are that, young! So, unless you found the rawest 20 year old who is mature beyond her age, all you want to do is fukk her. I'm late 20s and I don't have the patience plus working 10 hour days, trying to finish a film and start on a new feature script, a man wants to get to the point. I thought I had my son's mom but it didn't work out.
 

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:whew: this is a disaster waiting to happen in the next 5 years . Holla at us with the update breh. Once you get your career established and your money up on a few years you will be miserable
In so many ways, he said she's his sugar mama and he's the sugar baby.

In the words of Khia, Get Money bytch!
 

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I'm in my mid 30's now, I havent met anyone worth settling for. I'm not even looking nor am I caring anyways...:martin: I'm focusing on building my empire and my business... I wish I started earlier when I was young I would have been rich by now...
 

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If you're late 20s early 30s you should be dating early to mid 20 women. I met my GF when I was 28 and she was 23
Probably my issue too. I tried to deal with women my age but we'd clash because I need to be worshiped and needs to be the baddest.

Its all steps. My GOD showed me the vision. I have to save, save, save and get an Audi A5. I'm looking at no later than April if I wanna drop at least $10k. They're not as expensive as I thought.
 

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Probably my issue too. I tried to deal with women my age but we'd clash because I need to be worshiped and needs to be the baddest.

Its all steps. My GOD showed me the vision. I have to save, save, save and get an Audi A5. I'm looking at no later than April if I wanna drop at least $10k. They're not as expensive as I thought.

I feel you breh... I want that new mustang lowest I seen is $18K :mjcry:
 
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