Men who are "inexperienced".....

[TheArchitect]

Inexperienced men tend to miss or not understand the nonverbal cues and reactions

Can you dine at the y properly? That will be adequate for like 75% of women, just hope the one you want isn't in the other 25% or will work with you.

Funny you say that, because I've been told I'm a bit oblivious as well when it comes to women. Like, I don't always pick up on when I'm actually being flirted with.

Nah, I've dined before actually. Luckily my last gf claimed she didnt like it anyway, so I never tried it with her. I don't think I could just dine on just anyone though. Basically, you'd have to be a BAAAAAD mufukka to have my face down there...

 

[Rawtid]

its a pic me as my avi

Oh. I don't have avis turned on. I'm sure you're handsome.

 

[Corrado Soprano Jr]

Oh. I don't have avis turned on. I'm sure you're handsome.

thank you

 

[PimpHandStrong]

@TheArchitect

Be straight up with your sexual experience bruh. Its the best way to go, trust me. Now you don't have to broadcast to every chick you meet but if its comes up and yall are somewhat serious then let her know.

I have a VERY low body count (4) and I'm 28. I'm picky and I don't just stick my joint anywhere. It helps being up front because sex is all about communication. I feel like most people just think sex is supposed to be perfect every time and the first time with someone its supposed to amazing when (like others have said) you have to learn each others body and what yall like. The more time yall talk about it the most comfortable it should be.

Communication + comfort level + fun(creativity) = great sex

 

[miranda]

Funny you say that, because I've been told I'm a bit oblivious as well when it comes to women. Like, I don't always pick up on when I'm actually being flirted with.

Nah, I've dined before actually. Luckily my last gf claimed she didnt like it anyway, so I never tried it with her. I don't think I could just dine on just anyone though. Basically, you'd have to be a BAAAAAD mufukka to have my face down there...

By nonverbal cues I'm referring to during sex, not flirting.
Changes in breathing, tensing parts of her body, moving closer to you or away, distinguishing the look of pain from " that feels so good it hurts". A lot of women aren't comfortable verbally requesting what they really want but their body's reaction can tell you.

And you say luckily like it's a good thing. If you aren't willing to eat pusci you won't be sexually pleasing most women. Majority of women can only orgasm from oral. Are you trying to have a relationship or just 1 nighters?

 

[Elle Driver]

hmmmm....maybe I should be honest about my sexual expereince, as opposed to what others have told me....

Why not? The only women who have a problem with it are birds. What's the big deal if you're inexperienced, especially in this day and age? Most experienced nikkas you can't go near without a Hazmat suit on.

 

[TheArchitect]

By nonverbal cues I'm referring to during sex, not flirting.
Changes in breathing, tensing parts of her body, moving closer to you or away, distinguishing the look of pain from " that feels so good it hurts". A lot of women aren't comfortable verbally requesting what they really want but their body's reaction can tell you.

And you say luckily like it's a good thing. If you aren't willing to eat pusci you won't be sexually pleasing most women. Majority of women can only orgasm from oral. Are you trying to have a relationship or just 1 nighters?

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Oh, gotcha. I'm pretty sure I could do that, with the proper experience.

Hahaha, it simply doesn't really look appealing is all. I know I'll wind up doing it sooner or later...I mean, I wouldn't mind dating someone, but if my plan works out, I won't be around in the next couple years or so. So I don't know if it'd be worth it to build something long-term...

 

[PlainSight]

Yes, and it was cool cause we were both inexperienced so we learned from each other. I was like 21, he was 31 (I tend to like older men ). My advice is be willing to learn and open up, don't be afraid, and get comfortable. I'm not that experienced myself, nor is my spouse. He's actually only been with women he's been in a committed relationship with. It's been great. Personally, I've always gravitated towards those types because they tend to be on my wave length, and they are slow to warm like me. Some nymphos find it actually really attractive to be honest, they think its cute and wanna turn em out and corrupt em.

That's exactly how I lost my virginity

 

[PlainSight]

Very true. Basically, I'm trying to avoid THIS situation in the future....

Me: Yeah girl, I'ma put it onnnn ya. Hope you got homeowners insurance, cause I'm tearing them walls up tonight! They comin DOOOOWWWWN.... (knowing damn well I'm frontin)

5 minutes later....

Me: Ahh damn girl, that never happens, my bad...

Girl: Whateverrrr, just gtfo, I gotta be at work in a few hours......

Do you edge? If so, you'll know everything about when you're ready to pop, how you can pace yourself and all sorts. And don't focus on not cumming, otherwise you'll cum .

 

[TheArchitect]

Do you edge? If so, you'll know everything about when you're ready to pop, how you can pace yourself and all sorts. And don't focus on not cumming, otherwise you'll cum .

Edge?

 

[PlainSight]

Edge?

Edging is when you masturbate and bring yourself near to the brink (or edge, if you will) of orgasm/ejaculation but instead of pressing ahead and cumming, you stop and then work your way back to the edge again and again till you cum. Basically, not only will you have more control over when you cum as you'll be well acquainted with how soon you can get to ejaculation, but your orgasms will also be a bit better too.

Learning to edge helped me not to cum too early when I lost my V. I am also pretty inexperienced when it comes to sex other than a 10 month period of extreme activity so I can understand where you're coming from when it comes to worrying about it. The other thing you wanna do is focus entirely on her and/or how good you both feel. That way, you're not stuck in your head about how you're doing. Do that, she won't even notice how inexperienced you are.

And definitely eat. For a lot of women, that's a cheat code to her orgasm breh.

Don't worry too much about inexperience. I used to be paranoid as fukk about it, but then I stopped giving a fukk about it and now it's no big deal. Some girls really will find it endearing.

 

[Taadow]

I think you should teach your partner what you want anyway. Doesn't matter how many they have been with. Who wants one size fits all sex?

...you say this...and yet, you don't wanna lick an a$$hole. Hmm.

 

[Rawtid]

...you say this...and yet, you don't wanna lick an a$$hole. Hmm.

I won't piss, get pissed, shyt, or shyt on someone either. There is still plenty of fun to be had sexually outside of being "extreme". If you want a bytch to lick your ass, I'm not the one but if you want to fukk in the car or behind a building outside, I'll see what I can do.

 

[wet landscapes]

I wouldn't mind. I would actually prefer that since I'm a virgin. I think it'll be cute lol

two virgins sounds horrible to me lol
both of you would just be like the whole time

 

[PlainSight]

...you say this...and yet, you don't wanna lick an a$$hole. Hmm.

Everyone has hard limits