Little more to bring a good partner than being a good person but for the most part looks good
Men's Looks Matters More Than Women Admit, Study Shows
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Little more to bring a good partner than being a good person but for the most part looks good
Ur right about men being too one-dimensional. Plus women are more emotional and u gotta have the right approach, attitude and energy. Some things like energy, vibe and frequencies u cant really control.Women only want extra good looking men when the man has nothing else to offer.
Of course you don't know this but women having no problem dating men who are not the best looking if they have other things going for themselves. A woman would much rather have an average looking baller over a gorgeous guy with an average income.
Men on the other hand focus primarily on looks. I don't care how good looking you think you are, let a baller walk into the room and any chick you was trying to holla at will face palm yo ass to get to him like i use to do you back in the day.
Women look for value and weight it out. You'll never understand. Men are too Black and White. It more of a scaled system of attractiveness that goes beyond physicality.
Threads like these remind me most people are far less advanced mentally speaking as well as goals/objectives wise. I'm not tooting my own horn or shading the average breh/brehette. But since 5th grade I've been well aware that my spouse has to be a good, well rounded, down to earth person or I'd end up even more unhappy than I was/am. Simultaneously I was aware that is increasingly difficult to find in attractive women. Statistically speaking if given the opportunity with no repercussion I'd fukk 30-40% of women. That's a large chunk, but I'd only date 15% or less. (Limiting myself to the U.S. of course). While attractiveness is cool in the short term, I always knew a women's person(ality), her morals, her knowledge, her wit would keep me coming back. A base level of attraction is need but it's a low threshold to clear, the personality is much tougher.
Someone who is well favored and gifted things with or without their effort early in life generally ends up being an incomplete person at best or a flat out piece of shyt at worst, unless high quality guidance/parenting/reinforcement is given. This "someone" is the majority of attractive people. As a man who's a 6.5/7 I would never date a dime because I can't relate to their journey and would probably find them vapid. Moreover I'd have to do far more to appease them because society would tell them I really don't deserve them. I've always thought men on or below my level that strive for that struggle were just shortsided/simple minded. This is until I realized this is how most people think until they approach late 20s/30s. That's why I've wanted a spouse before my late 20s/elevated status/finances so I could count on the genuine attraction to me.
If #Uglygang has nothing else they must have clarity because they can easily see the nature of people and move accordingly as opposed to moderately attractive to attractive people who seemingly are cloaked in ignorance towards true human nature.
Just my 2 cents
Someone who is well favored and gifted things with or without their effort early in life generally ends up being an incomplete person at best or a flat out piece of shyt at worst, unless high quality guidance/parenting/reinforcement is given. This "someone" is the majority of attractive people. As a man who's a 6.5/7 I would never date a dime because I can't relate to their journey and would probably find them vapid. Moreover I'd have to do far more to appease them because society would tell them I really don't deserve them. I've always thought men on or below my level that strive for that struggle were just shortsided/simple minded. This is until I realized this is how most people think until they approach late 20s/30s. That's why I've wanted a spouse before my late 20s/elevated status/finances so I could count on the genuine attraction to me.
If #Uglygang has nothing else they must have clarity because they can easily see the nature of people and move accordingly as opposed to moderately attractive to attractive people who seemingly are cloaked in ignorance towards true human nature.
Just my 2 cents
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That’s true and not true for everyone. Like my original point people are humans regardless of gender. People’s choice in a mate differ.Women only want extra good looking men when the man has nothing else to offer.
Of course you don't know this but women having no problem dating men who are not the best looking if they have other things going for themselves. A woman would much rather have an average looking baller over a gorgeous guy with an average income.
Men on the other hand focus primarily on looks. I don't care how good looking you think you are, let a baller walk into the room and any chick you was trying to holla at will face palm yo ass to get to him like i use to do you back in the day.
Women look for value and weight it out. You'll never understand. Men are too Black and White. It more of a scaled system of attractiveness that goes beyond physicality.
If what you are saying is true there’d be a huge disparity in men and women that are in relationships because men refuse to deal with women that don’t go beyond their desires.
Women literally chase the pretty boys, popular dudes, guys with status.. all vanity things. But men are the ones that care about looks more than women?
Women just realize that looks don’t necessarily mean stability. So they compromise on that for stability... later on in life.
Men find the average women to be attractive whereas women don’t find the average man to be attractive. We literally get with anything, I see women of all shapes boo’d up everyday.
And what was black and white about my comment? Women aren’t a monolith and men aren’t either. Sure the mass majority of people will be influenced by their surroundings, economy, media etc but people are still individuals at the end of the day.
Most men feel that they have to find their partner attractive. Women feel the same way, especially in 2020 when women can take care of themselves. A woman who disregards her mans looks is because she sees him as a provider.
But guess what? She’s still going to lust after men she finds attractive, shyts nature.
Men don’t have to date down in terms of looks for stability because we are the bearers of that.
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SheWantTheD
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How are men too one dimensional? In what way? With all the world has to offer, different languages, cultures, ideaologies, interests, passions how can you label an entire gender has too one dimensional?
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Looks matter to an extent. Women don't want men that they're intimidated by in the looks department either. That sometimes gets mixed up with women valuing personality. Women dates based on their insecurities.
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False. At least in the sense that you can't force yourself to like someone. If you aint feeling them, you just aint feeling them. All that happens is you wind up hurting them. Believe me, I've tried. Out of the three girls I've dated, I had no feelings towards any of them. I gave them a shot to see if anything would happen, but I couldn't commit because I had no real interest. People can have good qualities, but that doesn't mean you feel any passion towards them. I always found myself thinking about women I'd rather be with. And not because of their looks. I'm talking girls that I just clicked with better, but could never date for whatever reason (i.e distance, she was dating someone else, or she was gay). Then there's been girls who like me, but I just want to fukk and kim. So us getting together would only be counterproductive.
But if you meant that feelings can potentially change over time, then yeah. But that's pretty unlikely. You'd still have to have at least a little bit of initial interest. Otherwise the relationship just feels like a chore.
What i said was a generalized statement but it has some truth. Us men tend to focus on looks way more and we (myself included) have made mistakes with focusing too much on looks. Yes all men aren't the same but we are more one-dimensional than women. U can look at some of the posts on here and see that.
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Yup younger women emphasize on looks more than older ones
Fashion models are lusted after rich celebrities and rich men love them