Men's Looks Matters More Than Women Admit, Study Shows

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Youseenmywork said:
LETS COOK .....some of yall anit going like this...


I want be a man that's say that looks don't matter to women but its not the main ingredient . If you think your looks as a man will make your life better or easier your NOT look at the WHOLE picture . Now that Im 36 I can say women themselves are not suppose to be more than 20/25 percent of a mans life if that . With me personally its about 20 percent. The 80 percent of who your or who you want to be should be the main focus . A thinking black man/male will always be attractive to any way women and not just black women. See black men are raised reared and trained to seek the validation of women and most black men don't put that much energy into the image and thought about what type of man you want to be what makes you proud or what would make you proud when its all said and done. The man you have worked on all your life should carry more weight than what women finds you attractive or whatever else women are talking about. It would do a lot of men to just tune women out but pay attention to they actions.

The reason why I don't respect the "Ugly Gang" nikkas is because it promotes a woe as me type of energy it like nikkas feel sorry for themselves or hate life cause that may not be as attractive as the need man. My grandmother taught many things and this is one of them. "If you want to be something great in this world or be a man you can be proud of look out at the world and see if somebody is achieving what you want to achieve . Do what they do but with your personality aim to take your potential as a man as high as it can go" . The same men that screaming ugly gang how many are hitting the weight room consistently? How many are improving career wise ? How many of them have good fashion sense ? How many of them have a health diet ? How many take care of they hygiene ?(teeth whited, skin regiment) ? What men and not just ugly gang to don't realize is its not about the women its about you. In fact if you are a black man the last thing you should be seeking is female love and validation. The funny thing the older you get you realize women don't need our love and validation either (this is another topic for another day) . I don't require or need female love and validation now if I was to sit here and say there wasn't a time in my life that I wanted those things I would be a lying ass nikka . Some men still want these things. These days these debates about what type of women you want or what women should be into or why women act a certain way with one guy but is another way with a different man just don't interest me cause I know the answers and how Im gong to go about it. they are point less discussions really. The main problem with a lot of you ugly nikkas is your all analysis ..and no action.

Most you ugly nikkas and men just period don't want to admit that you looking for validation cause then you look like a whole clown . What many of you don't understand is that women can say what they want and they control the sex aspect of things but men control the relationship or monogamous aspect of things . They age really they peaks when looking at biology is 25 yr old . Their window to be on top of the game is a lot shorter than a mans . For instance I didn't feel out till I as 30 (late bloomer I know ) . Women by 30 usually want some form of clarity about many areas of they life . A man is like a new man at 30 it odd and hard to describe the FEELING. You nikkas need to admit that you hopeless romantics and need to admit that to yourselves as other areas of life you NEED to improve. One of the the things I tell young men that ask me for advice when it comes to women is if you making less that 50,000 a year you don't need to be worried about women it the last thing you need worried about . The next thing is women are women and there is nothing you can do about that but understand they human to . They like sex just as much as men do if not more that's why some of these women walking around with no panties on and all types of other shyt. the answers you ugly nikkas are looking for is inside of you but your doing what women do which is lie to yourself and them go out in the world and look for he conformation about you r lie all the while trying to get others to believe that lie. Some of you have said it to yourself so much that your self esteem has deteriorated which is your fault. Women gon be women they gon say shyt like "I only deal with me that is 6ft or taller" or " A man has to make 75k after taxes and above for me to deal with him" . etc. STOP taking things so serious and stop taking rejection SO PERSONALLY it not about you . Some of you nikkas the way you come off it anit the outside that women dont like ...its the intenally shyt they dont want to fukk with. Focus on you ...you are the problem . Th e woe as me attitude anit the way . You should always talk to women when you want to it a skill just like any other and you have to put work in on it .






Put the work in on ... YOURSELF
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You said some good shyt, but you forgot one key thing.....



















it’s dudes who don’t have to put in no type of time and effort to pull women in their prime meanwhile by the time you have self improved you just end up with scraps
 
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Definitely true.

Having said that, men can overcome looks to a point. Since we initiate contact with women far more than they do with us, a good salesman can....."sell himself" so to speak if he's got game.

The flip side is that really attractive men will have a decent number of encounters where the woman basically puts the puzzy on a platter. Average guys might pull lots of women with hard work, nice clothes, a good career and game.....but a good looking dude will have a fine azz broad staring him down and damn near inviting him to bed.

Men are much more open minded when it comes to looks. We will approach AND smash a 5 without a second thought. Women aren't going to approach any man (excluding rich/famous brehs) unless he damn near makes her moist just by his presence. Ain't too many men that can do that.
 
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semicko82 said:
You said some good shyt, but you forgot one key thing.....



















it’s dudes who don’t have to put in no type of time and effort to pull women in their prime meanwhile by the time you have self improved you just end up with scraps
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Why as a man do I care about what type effort or lack thereof that another man went threw to get women ? Of a women breaks my any of my principal or boundaries she is gone anyway . What your saying is from an ego prespective . Which is why most men are behind the 8ball when it comes to women. I will say some y'all need to figure what you want from the relationship area of your life . The whole body count issue I'll tackle that another day ...
 
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Youseenmywork said:
Why as a man do I care about what type effort or lack thereof that another man went threw to get women ? Of a women breaks my any of my principal or boundaries she is gone anyway . What your saying is from an ego prespective . Which is why most men are behind the 8ball when it comes to women. I will say some y'all need to figure what you want from the relationship area of your life . The whole body count issue I'll tackle that another day ...
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Me personally I don’t want a relationship, but oh well :yeshrug:
 
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Youseenmywork said:
Why as a man do I care about what type effort or lack thereof that another man went threw to get women ? Of a women breaks my any of my principal or boundaries she is gone anyway . What your saying is from an ego prespective . Which is why most men are behind the 8ball when it comes to women. I will say some y'all need to figure what you want from the relationship area of your life . The whole body count issue I'll tackle that another day ...
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U dropping gems fam

Don't worry bout how the last dude got her or how fast he did

Everyone not the same or gonna get treated the same

Folks need to realize that
 
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Youseenmywork said:
Why as a man do I care about what type effort or lack thereof that another man went threw to get women ? Of a women breaks my any of my principal or boundaries she is gone anyway . What your saying is from an ego prespective . Which is why most men are behind the 8ball when it comes to women. I will say some y'all need to figure what you want from the relationship area of your life . The whole body count issue I'll tackle that another day ...
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Also society put us men behind the 8 ball, but if we speak up we get labeled women haters or whatever. You put too much effort in a game that’s rigged against you. That’s not woe is me, that’s reality.
 
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IsThatBrothaMouzone? said:
Definitely true.

Having said that, men can overcome looks to a point. Since we initiate contact with women far more than they do with us, a good salesman can....."sell himself" so to speak if he's got game.

The flip side is that really attractive men will have a decent number of encounters where the woman basically puts the puzzy on a platter. Average guys might pull lots of women with hard work, nice clothes, a good career and game.....but a good looking dude will have a fine azz broad staring him down and damn near inviting him to bed.

Men are much more open minded when it comes to looks. We will approach AND smash a 5 without a second thought. Women aren't going to approach any man (excluding rich/famous brehs) unless he damn near makes her moist just by his presence. Ain't too many men that can do that.
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Like I said to the other breh its EGO thoe . I'm not smashing a 5 I would just rather not have sex and I know that's not the popular thing to say but that just me . Like I said in the post above build a world for yourself away from women that you can be proud of . The rest of what you talk about is women's delusion when it comes to a man it's very few men that are the complete package . That's why going forward it will be landfills of women stuck in they delusions . I don't worry about why a women chooses a particular man because I have seen enough of these choices back fire . Men's ability to get with a women and create happiness makes men better to me personally(even thoe it more to it ) . Most women can get dikk but is all women getting the dikk they want ...I say no . A man is suppose to be good at getting women ...a women is suppose to be good at keeping a high valued man . It a seems like a lot of men are just as delusional when it comes to women .
 
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