Men's Looks Matters More Than Women Admit, Study Shows

[homiedontplaydat]

Handsome gang checking in

 

[Shadow King]

I still disagree call it just being 36 yrs and seeing a lot of shyt . For instance my last relationship that last 5yrs and some changes ...I approached her . No "signals" no nothing . The game is more ... Nuanced than men realize . I've had a good mix happen to me.

I'm agreeing to disagree.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I tried telling some of you nikkas . Mentor is on point as usual

 

[Bledswole]

A word on overweight guys, from an overweight guy. It's not necessarily your looks holding you back. It's the pre-conceived notions that women have about you and your own self-esteem that can lower your dating opportunities. Women have a lot of negative views of overweight men that you have to prove wrong, and you will be given an opportunity to do so eventually. They think you have higher estrogen (I've already done the research, it's not true) and overall, they think you're not as strong or manly as the thinner guys. This is because they saw low self-esteem overweight guys being made fun of in middle/high school and not doing anything about it. Now I'm one of those guys that got made fun of, tried to roast back, and failed. I didn't know it at the time, but this lowered my chances with women immensely. As I got older, I stopped playing the dozens, and decided if someone tries to roast/humiliate me, I'm putting hands on them, and you should too. You can't let people get away with disrespecting you.

So online dating is going to be harder for overweight guys, because women don't see you in a social environment and how people are responding to you. They still think it's high school rules, but many overweight guys are no longer allowing people to humiliate them. Basically, just going outside and not getting roasted to hell will start making them see you differently. Just that alone. Women are not stupid. They can see if something has changed, even if just a little bit.

Boy I would make fat jokes about you and dare you to touch me,roll yo fat ass right on up

 

[Cobalt Sire]

Boy I would make fat jokes about you and dare you to touch me,roll yo fat ass right on up

No you wouldn't. I'm like a Hafthor or Kane Kong. No one fukks with me, and you ain't no exception. I'm going to the boxing gym again soon, and I'd be happy to invite you to the gym to talk your shyt.

 

[Bledswole]

No you wouldn't. I'm like a Hafthor or Kane Kong. No one fukks with me, and you ain't no exception. I'm going to the boxing gym again soon, and I'd be happy to invite you to the gym to talk your shyt.

Boy you a bytch fukk outta here

 

[Bigblackted4]

Speak for yourself on this . I haven't been on a date since I was 28. Y'all are funny I never seen nikkas mention celebrity men and they validation they get from women Soo much . Again I don't care about what another man did or didn't do to get a women . What's not mentioned is that a lot of these men are simps also. If women go full "heaux" for brehs they can't lock down ...be a man that women can't lock down . At my age I dont do dates unless we've slept together that's me thoe. You nikkas thought process is fukked . Women take rejection on the back end ...like when a women cheat on a nikka or the guy she want do want her like that or the nikkas she dealing with has no ambition but can fukk good . Women take rejection they just don't take like men. When I speak I talking about everyday men that deal with everyday women NOT celebrity men and women that not the norm. Just like men hunt sex some if not most women hunt love and many of them don't know how to get it cause they rarely want to hold up they end of the bargain. I don't speak the language of envy of wanting the validation of another man . If a man is a celebrity of some sort you just assume that he gets women and leave it at that . The internet has messed a lot of and women .

Amen

 

[Music Fiend]

I mean isnt that biological.

don't we all want attractive partners? Seems pretty obvious that the first thing to do in the dating market is make yourself as attractive as possible...

 

[Bigblackted4]

Problem is y’all think looks are just face. Looks are body style swag height. Looks= Physical Appearance not just face

 

[King]

Problem is y’all think looks are just face. Looks are body style swag height. Looks= Physical Appearance not just face

A huge part of “looks” is confidence as well. Women can sense that when a man walks into a room.

The only difference with a really handsome/tall dude is that they get the benefit of the doubt of confidence being put on them without having earned it.

A breh who doesn’t have that has to show it before getting it.

 

[Bigblackted4]

A huge part of “looks” is confidence as well. Women can sense that when a man walks into a room.

The only difference with a really handsome/tall dude is that they get the benefit of the doubt of confidence being put on them without having earned it.

A breh who doesn’t have that has to show it before getting it.

Agreed with confidence

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

What a surprise

Up next water is wet

For the millionth time water IS NOT wet!!!!!!

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

A huge part of “looks” is confidence as well. Women can sense that when a man walks into a room.

The only difference with a really handsome/tall dude is that they get the benefit of the doubt of confidence being put on them without having earned it.

A breh who doesn’t have that has to show it before getting it.

Good points.

Short brehs gotta walk a fine line between being confident and getting that Napoleon Complex label. Tall brehs don't really have to project....women project their own feelings onto them and assume they're X, Y and Z.

Most dudes cab find a good broad if they figure out their own level.

If you're a 5'10" 300 lb breh with an average face and a high pitched voice, you can't be chasing after the ex-model turned medical school student. Find your lane and then start plugging away.

 

[King]

If you're a 5'10" 300 lb breh with an average face and a high pitched voice, you can't be chasing after the ex-model turned medical school student. Find your lane and then start plugging away.

Wrong.

 

[Shadow King]

A huge part of “looks” is confidence as well. Women can sense that when a man walks into a room.

The only difference with a really handsome/tall dude is that they get the benefit of the doubt of confidence being put on them without having earned it.

A breh who doesn’t have that has to show it before getting it.

Confidence is not looks. Y'all making shyt up now.