Merry Christmas I found out my girl been cheatin :russ:

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It always leads to the same path.

Chicks follow the same script just different characters.

Maybe simp was a harsh word, :ehh:

But this happaned to me early this year, chick got distant I already knew what was up, six whole months passed without word then bam!

That bold is a serious issue with the average male. Speaking from experience, I refused to believe the same thing would happen to me. I dont think that's being a simp IMO, that just comes with the territory of being a man :manny:

Look at all the relationships right now with chicks with serious red flags and guys just chalking it up because "that same shyt ain't happening to me, I got my shyt together" mentality.
 

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I will admit flat out that this is an L for me. No way around it. But I can learn something from this. We can build on this.

So, basically this broad is in the midst of getting out of a long term relationship and I was the shoulder to cry on. She starts comin on to me with little shyt here and there and eventually we hang out and that's how it began. I should have known right there that something ain't right about this girl, she was kind of awkward but I was attracted to her and we got along pretty good. I should have never went into a relationship with her just getting out of a long one but long story short, she starts getting distant so I know something's up. Then she slipped up and told on herself to someone who is cool with someone I'm cool with so now I'm positive. I give her an opportunity to tell me, we had a chat about a month or so ago and I didn't buy a word she was sayin. For the last month I started talkin to someone else myself and I kept her around also. Basically I was telling her :duck: to see if she'd eventually be straight and today she broke down and told me. I thought it was her ex she went back to but it was some other dude. Another shoulder to cry on. :ehh: :manny:

I told her I have some shyt to "think about" and I had a family function. I haven't told her that I'm seeing someone else yet. Maybe I should drop the news but I kind of enjoy fukking with her. :patrice:
Either way, I took a huge L but I'm trying to save some face :merchant::mjcry:






Listen to young spitta; he'll put you on game:leostare:. But, she just gotten out of a long relationship and she jumped into another relationship. I don't know how old she is; but she did not have a change to get her hoeness out. That's what she's doing right now. Mostly all women do that when they are in a long term relationship when they were young; they fell that they missed out on having fun so they breakup; so they can hop from dikk to dikk. I learned that from hoes from around the way.
 
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now that i think about it...the xmas eve shyt would probably piss me off more if i was in your situation, seeing as though u knew or were pretty sure. if youre going to respond..text her at 12:00 AM on New Years Day and say hey happy new years. she'll say somethin nice then swerve and say you were fukkin another bytch too. then never talk to her again.
 

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Cut her off and keep it pushing. You keep on dealing with her, and them emotions of yours will still be tethered to her and the worst thing is she ends up pregnant.
 

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Sometimes I wonder if these threads are made for certain posters in mind. I'm not saying they are cookiecutter or generic, but there seems to be a corny formula that attracts like minded specific posters.

Son, we get it. bytchea aren't shyt. You're like Jordan from the post.
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf have you considered meeting a decent muslim woman? These thots got a young breh seriously considering going down the traditional path :to:

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I'm just focusing on me and not putting my effort into no woman, malcolm x said it best


"As a young minister I wouldn’t have considered it possible for me to love any woman. I had too much experience that women were only tricky, deceitful, untrustworthy flesh. I had seen too many men ruined or tied down, or in some other way messed up by women. Women talk too much, and to tell a woman not to talk too much, would be like telling Jesse James not to carry a gun, or telling a hen not to cackle. Can you imagine Jesse James without a gun, or a hen that didn’t cackle, and for anyone in leadership or position as I am. The worst thing in the world that a man could have, is the wrong woman. Samson was destroyed by the woman that slept in his arms. It had been 10 years since I thought anything about a woman or a mistress, and as a minister now I was thinking even less about getting a wife------"

aint no betty reinscarf out there for me so I'm :kony:

I've had women tell me everything in the book, done everything in the book that I push nothing past a woman anymore nothing
 
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