Messing With Chicks At Work....Is It Always A Bad Idea?

is it always a bad idea to holla at a chick from work?

  • yes, don't do it brehs

    Votes: 66 39.5%
  • nah; as long as you come correct it's fine

    Votes: 31 18.6%
  • by all means shoot your shot, just don't be surprised if you get metoo'd

    Votes: 23 13.8%
  • i'm not tryna get metoo'd breh

    Votes: 17 10.2%
  • don't shyt where you eat brehs

    Votes: 82 49.1%

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WIA20XX

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Do it lil homie.

First, add as many broads as you can to your FB and IG, whatever y'all rocking.
Next, one by one, knock these broads down.
Then, make one of em IG Official.
Finally, keep hitting those same broads off, cause they want to be side pieces.

I guarantee you will run that joint.

Trust me.
 

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Don’t do it. I just got out a real bad situation with all types of fukked up micro shyt.
 

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Listen and read

If u working a retail/fast food/ warehouse or any other job that’s not a career or long term with benefits, then it’s cool to go after co workers

If u working at your career job with good benefits and good pay, do not even risk it even if she Ashanti or Mya type level …
 

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I'm gonna put it like this..

Whatever mission you go on, make it a solo mission cuz nikkas will gossip and ruin you just as bad as these women will..

Had/have quite a few opportunities that I could maneuver on if I ran the Mahomes no huddle, but I already know nikkas be such haters, they would sabotage and bring the drama to the workfloor...

So I stay in good standing and go about my way when it's time to clock out..

Now if they catch me in traffic(outside), who knows
 
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The risk is real, but it’s not as strictly forbidden as people online make it seem. The workplace is a common place where people meet their husbands/wives. Def not worth the risk if you’re looking just to sow your royal oats, but if you meet someone you think could be a wifey, don’t let her pass you by just cuz you’re scared of it going sideways.
 
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I used to be one of those, “ don’t shyt where you eat” people. Then I realized all those situations people bring up can happen in any relationship :yeshrug: .


Yes they can but rarely do relationship issues intersect with your professional life, which is the crux of the issue
 
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It's fine if you're seeking a serious relationship and yall work away from each other in different departments.

But casual dating/fukking? HELL NO! Lol.

Now if you work a menial job that you plan on leaving soon anyway, go right ahead.:manny:
 
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Sigh

You’re going to get a ton of “don’t sh*t where you eat”, “don’t do it!”, “hell no breh!”, type of hot takes etc etc.

But let me tell you what I’ve learned from my own personal experience.

I’ve worked in about a handful of call centers, at different times throughout my adult life. Yes, literally about 5 different call centers. As is the nature of call centers in the state that I live, they’re mostly Black, and mostly female. And with that dynamic, as a young Black male single with no kids, it’s a literal smorgasbord of pickings when it comes to women. And, you are highly sought after.

So i say all that to say, I used to run through women like Nick Cannon running through prenatal clinics. There were times I was smashing like 3 chicks in the same building, at once. And I have never, ever had a problem. Not no drama, not no “me too” type sh*t, not no baby daddy’s pulling up to the job wanting to fight me, nothing.

So no, messing with chicks at work is NOT “always a bad idea”, from MY experience. I did it for years with nary a hiccup.

My biggest advice would be to choose wisely. I’ve had some of the baddest b*tches I’ve ever seen sending me emails about my d*ck print and wanting to f*ck me and I used to pass on them because I knew they could be trouble. What does “trouble” look like? The trouble ones are the ones who are super hood, or super talkative, or any chick that is friends with everybody in the workplace, or she has a known crazy bf/baby daddy…and just other obvious signs. You just have to use your head, and choose wisely. I literally cannot count how many women coworkers I’ve f*cked back in my call center hopping days. But I can count how many problems I’ve had from it - ZERO.
 
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