Messing With Chicks At Work....Is It Always A Bad Idea?

is it always a bad idea to holla at a chick from work?

  • yes, don't do it brehs

    Votes: 66 39.5%
  • nah; as long as you come correct it's fine

    Votes: 31 18.6%
  • by all means shoot your shot, just don't be surprised if you get metoo'd

    Votes: 23 13.8%
  • i'm not tryna get metoo'd breh

    Votes: 17 10.2%
  • don't shyt where you eat brehs

    Votes: 82 49.1%

  • Total voters
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DonRe

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Yes its always a bad choice. However, its also how much you value every other party involved. Do care about the chick? Your boss? Your coworkers? If no, then get it poppin.
 

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I've dated two girls at my previous work with zero drama

first one went abroad, and I'm still friends with the other
 
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We never hear Coli ladies perspectives on this:

@bourgeoisie tall freak @Boujee Bonita Braxton @Passionate1! @LadyJ2 @CarmelBarbie @Gloxina @Nicole0416_718_929_646212 @dora_da_destroyer @HarlemHottie and whoever else, how do you guys feel on this topic?

Personally, I've done it alot. I work alot, it's the easiest place to meet and bond with women. None have been keepers, so there's that. But they haven't all been messy, there's women I dealt with at work and there was no drama at all...

i usually just go to work and work.... maybe to a fault cuz people probably think im stuck up. but ever since i been in my real career, my first job the boss was sexist and only hired women so no to that, and then the jobs i had after that have been work from home lol. but now that i think about it, i never worked with anybody that caught my eye like that. 🤷‍♀️
 

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We never hear Coli ladies perspectives on this:

@bourgeoisie tall freak @Boujee Bonita Braxton @Passionate1! @LadyJ2 @CarmelBarbie @Gloxina @Nicole0416_718_929_646212 @dora_da_destroyer @HarlemHottie and whoever else, how do you guys feel on this topic?

Personally, I've done it alot. I work alot, it's the easiest place to meet and bond with women. None have been keepers, so there's that. But they haven't all been messy, there's women I dealt with at work and there was no drama at all...
Dating at work is a damn horrible idea. I posted about this before in the past - let me find what I said.
 

Nicole0416_718_929_646212

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We never hear Coli ladies perspectives on this:

@bourgeoisie tall freak @Boujee Bonita Braxton @Passionate1! @LadyJ2 @CarmelBarbie @Gloxina @Nicole0416_718_929_646212 @dora_da_destroyer @HarlemHottie and whoever else, how do you guys feel on this topic?

Personally, I've done it alot. I work alot, it's the easiest place to meet and bond with women. None have been keepers, so there's that. But they haven't all been messy, there's women I dealt with at work and there was no drama at all...

Never works...one of you will take it more serious than it is which always leads to awkwardness. In my younger days, I was casually dating a dude at the office. Saw him talking to other women in the office, even if it was just him interacting with them on a professional level; I got jealous. And same with him when I would deal with men. Leads to being irresponsible, extra stress and distractions from work even when things were going fine w/ us. Never ends well either. Broke it off and i ended up finding a different job.
 
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