Messing With Chicks At Work....Is It Always A Bad Idea?

[kaldurahm]

My only thing is 95 percent of coli brehs who say "don't do it" or don't shyt where you eat are undesirable to most of not all women on their job so there is no choice in the matter. Or they have social anxiety or zero game so they wouldn't holler at a coworker anyway.

Some dudes can pull it off for sure, and I think If you have good intentions it might be worth giving a shot... But ehhh.

The risk/reward is very high, I'd say ideally you'd land a genuine relationship. Even if you manage to have sex, things can get real messy if things don't work out. When I did it, I was a little peeved for a week or two that it didn't work, but afterwards I was cool cause I was talking to other women and shyt. For months, things were very messy and by then I already forgotten/didn't care anymore. A big reason why I left a job honestly.

 

[Roid Jones]

It's not worth it, yeah women at work may look nice, got that big booty, be friendly, skin soft as hell, damn she smells nice oh yeah you gone mess with one of them

 

[NapKingCole]

Always a bad idea while you both work there. If 1 has real potential to be more than a fling I say build a solid foundation but keep it professional until either one of you leave. After that go all in.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

It has never ended well in the history of everything.
Now if both of you really want something serious and you both work in different departments of the company, then yes it has a shot, but even then it's not worth it.

9/10 both people at some point will want two different things and one usually gets their feelings hurt. And once emotions are involved you might as well start packing it up because it's downhill from there.

There are millions of women who don't work for your company. Fish there.

 

[Arizax2]

It's always a bad idea /thread

 

[Waldo Geraldo Faldo]

It all depends, if you trying to be Hugh Hefner at the job site, then no.

But if you just trying to kick it with a singular female, why not

 

[Rekkapryde]

Sigh

You’re going to get a ton of “don’t sh*t where you eat”, “don’t do it!”, “hell no breh!”, type of hot takes etc etc.

But let me tell you what I’ve learned from my own personal experience.

I’ve worked in about a handful of call centers, at different times throughout my adult life. Yes, literally about 5 different call centers. As is the nature of call centers in the state that I live, they’re mostly Black, and mostly female. And with that dynamic, as a young Black male single with no kids, it’s a literal smorgasbord of pickings when it comes to women. And, you are highly sought after.

So i say all that to say, I used to run through women like Nick Cannon running through prenatal clinics. There were times I was smashing like 3 chicks in the same building, at once. And I have never, ever had a problem. Not no drama, not no “me too” type sh*t, not no baby daddy’s pulling up to the job wanting to fight me, nothing.

So no, messing with chicks at work is NOT “always a bad idea”, from MY experience. I did it for years with nary a hiccup.

My biggest advice would be to choose wisely. I’ve had some of the baddest b*tches I’ve ever seen sending me emails about my d*ck print and wanting to f*ck me and I used to pass on them because I knew they could be trouble. What does “trouble” look like? The trouble ones are the ones who are super hood, or super talkative, or any chick that is friends with everybody in the workplace, or she has a known crazy bf/baby daddy…and just other obvious signs. You just have to use your head, and choose wisely. I literally cannot count how many women coworkers I’ve f*cked back in my call center hopping days. But I can count how many problems I’ve had from it - ZERO.

Call Centers are the Garden Of Eden of work fukkin

 

[god shamgod]

These “smash co workers” threads be hilarious , I’ve seen co workers who are in relationships/married cuz they met at the job. Y’all be talking bout sexual harassment FOH ain’t no female gonna say you sexually harassed her if she’s feelin you. Y’all either never smashed a chick at your job or are creeps/ugly

 

[Actually6Foot3]

When I was doing bullshyt jobs like amusement parks an retail it's all a go. Youre young, probably living at home and these are starter jobs.


If this is late innoife an my career. Unless I was getting EXTREME choosing signal to the point of her basically telling me come get this best believe I'm making NO moves. And even then is the small reward o some exciting office box nor important than losing your job? You're the man. You will always shoulder mor of the blame. Particularly if youre in a senior position.

 

[MikelArteta]

you can easily go from I love you, to she's in the office showing text messages how you keep texting her after she dumped you and suddenly you're fired

 

[DamienWayne]

only if u don't mind leaving at a moments notice , if u NEED the job then don't

 

[MikelArteta]

you can easily go from I love you, to she's in the office showing text messages how you keep texting her after she dumped you and suddenly you're fired

 

[MJ Truth]

It really just depends on your job, your position, her position and your career trajectory. You simply have to judge if you can afford to lose the job you have, which is the worst case scenario.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

It’s not an issue as long as the other person doesn’t make it one or some jealous loser boss or coworker doesn’t make it one. Also, TJ Holmes should sue ABC/Disney for discrimination.

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

He's still gonna do it.... Hell, op may have asked after the fact... Do what you do as long as you can handle the aftermath... I shat where I ate at every job I've worked. But, I'm not a 6cert nicca....