Met with my ex earlier this week. Maybe shouldn't have.

[ViShawn]

Because that ish brought a bit of confusion as to why she wanted to meet up.

Basically she broke up with me in 2012 and moved to upstate NY. I was wanting her to move to TX with me when we both lived in Atlanta because I had a job opportunity there.

Nope she broke up with me and moved with an ex of hers that was in NY. Got married, had kids, was still in school, got divorced, now a single mom of two.

Meanwhile the breakup certainly did hurt me a lot, but I did a lot while in Texas and took all that negative energy into positive things. I improved my career a lot, now making six figures when 2011 I was around 45K. I trained MMA for a while and competed. I dated a bit, started a 2 year relationship but we aren't together now. Traveled, learned from my past and stuff. I'm relocating to a city more desirable for me at the beginning of the year in Austin TX. Life is good.

She hits me up out the blue and says she thought about me. This is early Nov so I'm like a bit given she has given me breadcrumbs in the past.

So she is in Atlanta this week. I meet her and her kids...it was spur of the moment. I had drinks at this place her brother bartends. It was really platonic.

She was sexual with me over text, taking to me like old times, saying she was excited to see me. But when we met the two times it was super platonic and very dry, sterile conversations about life. I kissed her once and she was like "I'm not that easy anymore" Which I sort of laughed at. Then she later makes a sexual joke about me giving it to her every day when we were together.

It wasn't totally off. We had laughs and stuff but I just am curious as to why she contacted me. To check up on me? Ego boost? She told me some of her dating follies and it seems between her work and kids it's totally different. She's calmed down too. I wish her the best and I know she has felt guilty about the break up and contacted me more than once but I admit it made me a bit frustrated the past day or two.

 

[ImmaGetJoeClarkArrested]

Because that ish brought a bit of confusion as to why she wanted to meet up.

Basically she broke up with me in 2012 and moved to upstate NY. I was wanting her to move to TX with me when we both lived in Atlanta because I had a job opportunity there.

Nope she broke up with me and moved with an ex of hers that was in NY. Got married, had kids, was still in school, got divorced, now a single mom of two.

Meanwhile the breakup certainly did hurt me a lot, but I did a lot while in Texas and took all that negative energy into positive things. I improved my career a lot, now making six figures when 2011 I was around 45K. I trained MMA for a while and competed. I dated a bit, started a 2 year relationship but we aren't together now. Traveled, learned from my past and stuff. I'm relocating to a city more desirable for me at the beginning of the year in Austin TX. Life is good.

She hits me up out the blue and says she thought about me. This is early Nov so I'm like a bit given she has given me breadcrumbs in the past.

So she is in Atlanta this week. I meet her and her kids...it was spur of the moment. I had drinks at this place her brother bartends. It was really platonic.

She was sexual with me over text, taking to me like old times, saying she was excited to see me. But when we met the two times it was super platonic and very dry, sterile conversations about life. I kissed her once and she was like "I'm not that easy anymore" Which I sort of laughed at. Then she later makes a sexual joke about me giving it to her every day when we were together.

It wasn't totally off. We had laughs and stuff but I just am curious as to why she contacted me. To check up on me? Ego boost? She told me some of her dating follies and it seems between her work and kids it's totally different. She's calmed down too. I wish her the best and I know she has felt guilty about the break up and contacted me more than once but I admit it made me a bit frustrated the past day or two.

Breh you're doing good for yourself...stay away from old shyt....you never know who you'll find next....move forward and prosper

 

[ViShawn]

Breh you're doing good for yourself...stay away from old shyt....you never know who you'll find next....move forward and prosper

Thanks breh just need to rant a little. I know she keeps contacting me thinking "What if I stayed with him?" sort of thing. I have thought about it too in the past among other things. How we could talk for hours about ideas. The freaky sex we had. Some of our arguments and stuff. But nothing motivated me really to contact her other than to think how she's doing or something.

 

[ORDER_66]

Chicks always do this man.. she heard through the grapevine how good you was doing she trying to get back in with you...
Don't fall back into it breh. She looking for you to save her and her two kids keep it moving...

 

[ViShawn]

Chicks always do this man.. she heard through the grapevine how good you was doing she trying to get back in with you...
Don't fall back into it breh. She looking for you to save her and her two kids keep it moving...

Probably haha. She was telling me that she feels like she will be single, rah rah.

But the thing is when I kissed her she was like "I'm not that easy anymore". She definitely changed. I did too like I said no slouch. I was showing pictures from San Francisco, Utah. Told her about some of the cool shyt I did but of course I was still affectionate towards her. Even bought her a little box of gummy bears that were like $10.

I'd still have sex with her but of course part of me thinks she's playing "gatekeeper" more now that she's a mom and wants a provider. But I guess she expects me to simp or something which is why I haven't contacted her since seeing her.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

I had a woman tell me how she'd be better off not speaking to me and that it was a relief to lose contact with me.

Years later she finds out I have a child and she's in my FaceBook inbox talking about how much of a great father she knows I'll be and that we should meet up.

People get curious, thinking what the grass is like on the other side or how things MIGHT have been had they gone differently.

 

[ViShawn]

I had a woman tell me how she'd be better off not speaking to me and that it was a relief to lose contact with me.

Years later she finds out I have a child and she's in my FaceBook inbox talking about how much of a great father she knows I'll be and that we should meet up.

People get curious, thinking what the grass is like on the other side or how things MIGHT have been had they gone differently.

Yeah just weird how she was. This girl said I'd be a great father too. My ex is 26 soon to be 27 and I'm 33 with no kids.

I was sweet to her but it's really because I don't harbor any resentment toward her or anything and I'm pretty removed from the breakup because honestly it made me a better version of myself. Feelings came back a little though I won't lie.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She got you back in your feelings, that was the point


Congrats.. You're about to become a step-dad

 

[ViShawn]

She got you back in your feelings, that was the point


Congrats.. You're about to become a step-dad

Nah nikka...

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

Yeah just weird how she was. This girl said I'd be a great father too. My ex is 26 soon to be 27 and I'm 33 with no kids.

I was sweet to her but it's really because I don't harbor any resentment toward her or anything and I'm pretty removed from the breakup because honestly it made me a better version of myself. Feelings came back a little though I won't lie.

That's a good way to look at it brother. Remain neutral to the whole thing. Who knows, maybe she has become a version of herself worth your time? Doesn't hurt to find out more about her if you do still have feelings. Only get a crack at this life once.

But then again, with your life going the way it is, you could very well find someone new and more suitable so just enjoy the ride man.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nah nikka...

Yeah just weird how she was. This girl said I'd be a great father too. My ex is 26 soon to be 27 and I'm 33 with no kids.

I was sweet to her but it's really because I don't harbor any resentment toward her or anything and I'm pretty removed from the breakup because honestly it made me a better version of myself. Feelings came back a little though I won't lie.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

She planting the seeds for u to start chasing her

So u can ask her for a 2nd chance


So u can be her plan C

Don't fall for it


She didn't want to give up the p*ssy to make u think long term with her again. And not think y'all would be just sporadic fukk buddies

 

[ViShawn]

That's a good way to look at it brother. Remain neutral to the whole thing. Who knows, maybe she has become a version of herself worth your time? Doesn't hurt to find out more about her if you do still have feelings. Only get a crack at this life once.

But then again, with your life going the way it is, you could very well find someone new and more suitable so just enjoy the ride man.

Yeah probably just a more suitable partner. Not hurting for that. She just caught me at a time where I was at home in Atlanta..I've been here for two months and I have been working remotely the past year and I've been here helping with some sick family. Otherwise we'd be off timing.

Okay you got me.

She planting the seeds for u to start chasing her

So u can ask her for a 2nd chance


So u can be her plan C

Don't fall for it


She didn't want to give up the p*ssy to make u think long term with her again. And not think y'all would be just sporadic fukk buddies

Yeah I see where you're getting at.

 

[Beerus]

Because that ish brought a bit of confusion as to why she wanted to meet up.

Basically she broke up with me in 2012 and moved to upstate NY. I was wanting her to move to TX with me when we both lived in Atlanta because I had a job opportunity there.

Nope she broke up with me and moved with an ex of hers that was in NY. Got married, had kids, was still in school, got divorced, now a single mom of two.

Meanwhile the breakup certainly did hurt me a lot, but I did a lot while in Texas and took all that negative energy into positive things. I improved my career a lot, now making six figures when 2011 I was around 45K. I trained MMA for a while and competed. I dated a bit, started a 2 year relationship but we aren't together now. Traveled, learned from my past and stuff. I'm relocating to a city more desirable for me at the beginning of the year in Austin TX. Life is good.

She hits me up out the blue and says she thought about me. This is early Nov so I'm like a bit given she has given me breadcrumbs in the past.

But then I realized she left me when I Loved her and wanted to start a new life with me Texas, so I told her to fukk off and fukk her bytch ass kids and she can go hit her bytch ass baby daddy or the nikka she left me for.

This is how it should've ended.
bytch left you when you were ready to take the next step to go see an ex aka a nikka she was with before you instead of going forward with you.(If its not her ex from before it still don't matter) Went and got kids with that nikka. Now she a single mom tryna holla at you.
nikka what the fukk is wrong with you. She did not love you enough to go with you before. All that bullshyt you wrote afterwards bout meeting her is bullshyt nikka straight bullshyt weak minded shyt what the fukk.
Cut her off now delete her number now.

Holy fukking shyt that story is dissapointing you should've her when she hit you up the fukk you doing. I don't give a fukk about the mind games or none of that you move forward you should have sent her packin

 

[Saiyajin]

why you wasting so much mental energy on this breh