Met with my ex earlier this week. Maybe shouldn't have.

[Brock Landers]

Let that bih die breh, she hopped off at her station in life and your train kept going to prosperity...now she's trying to get that quick come up for herself and the kids

 

[WaveGang]

You simping

We ain't meeting old flames unless it's for sex

 

[ⒶⓁⒾⒶⓈ]

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Pics?

 

[benjamin]

 

[Legend]

OP knows exactly what to do... It's just his old feelings that are fighting against the logical decision... We all been there. Two sides tugging at your conscience... On the outset, you know the realistic thing to do would be to never give a broad the time of day after she left you to be with an ex --- who she then had kids with --- before returning to you with another nikka's family package. OP don't got to admit it, but yeah, he got an inner simp. She knows it, too... Cause honestly, if a broad know you don't tolerate that kind of shyt, she ain't gonna bring it to you... She wouldn't have tried OP if she didn't feel like she could have some success dragging him back in. And that's a shame if after all these years, she can still get inside your head... As if ya'll never left each other. For all the changing and soul searching you say you did, how could you allow her to even make you consider about getting back with her? Don't bother denying that rhetoric, cause you already making a thread about it. So you are considering it.

I get it, I know it's hard, cause you might have even loved this chick at some point... And hell, if she didn't get piped by the ex she left you for and had his seeds, then i can't say I would be mad at you if you were willing to give it another go... But the fact that she got dikked down and pregnant by the dude you lost to, and now she's bringing you his responsibilities... Can't co-sign that. You need to rebuke yourself.

 

[aXiom]

Kids... nuff said.

 

[god shamgod]

My ex hit me up random as fukk last week.I hadn't talked to her in like 6-7 months and we're platonic at this point

She was telling me how she got engaged then broke it off,got promoted and is in a relationship with another dude who cakin I was

 

[((ReFleXioN)) EteRNaL]

But the thing is when I kissed her she was like "I'm not that easy anymore". She definitely changed.

dog. she didn't change. it's an act. she see's how much you've grown and wants to make it seem like she's grown as well....hence the "i'm not that easy anymore".....chances are she's the same exact chic as before. and if you get back with her, you'll realize that quick. she obviously knows you and knows your soft spots. just think about if the roles were reversed. if you did her dirty back in the day. left her for somebody else. years go by and you've made no progress in life. you're a single father and fallen on hard times. meanwhile she's making 6 figures and happy. now if you wanted to get back into her life, how would you go about it?.....would you hit her back on the same ignorant shyt you were on before?....would you try to throw her the D as soon as yall met?....hell nah. you're gonna play it cool. be humble. be mature. show her how much you've grown. you gotta convince a woman who's now out of your league that you're worthy of her.


this chic figures if she's gonna land you, it's gonna take a lot more than her old tricks. she has to level herself up so she appears to be on the same plane as you. I mean if she was able to convince you that she changed just cause she said the words "i'm not that easy anymore", then you're already on dangerous ground. slap yourself. I mean just think about it....do you really want to be with a girl who would even utter the words "i'm not easy anymore".....the sad thing is you heard that statement and looked at it as a positive. that statement alone is a huge red flag and should be enough to make you run away as far as possible. if you took her back it's 99.9% chance the shyt ends in disaster. the only reason you'd be doing it is for ego...so you can say you "won" her back....but what did you really win?....a single mother with no aspirations and baby daddy drama??

when you first dated, did you look at her as out of your league?....cause that's the only reason I could see you entertaining this. maybe since you leveled up and she leveled down, you feel that you're more equals now. but you're not. for a guy with your credentials, she's bottom of the barrel. understand this shyt and never hit her up again. and if she hits you up, respectfully reject her. even for a fukk session. it's not worth it. a woman in her position will do whatever it takes to trap you. move the fukk on and never look back.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

My ex hit me up random as fukk last week.I hadn't talked to her in like 6-7 months and we're platonic at this point

She was telling me how she got engaged then broke it off,got promoted and is in a relationship with another dude who cakin I was

She called to shyt on u

 

[Reid2Achieve]

She clearly wants you to chase her. But she wants proper dates and such first, as she doesn't want to just be a fling.

So....your move. Either keep it moving, see what's up with it, or try to finesse your way in to smashing again (could be a big mistake).

 

[Copy Ninja]

She wanted to see if you were still in her pocket

 

[joeychizzle]

It's a trap. Moment your dikk slides in that the cuffs are on.

 

[PewPew]

Its tough op, losing someone you love. Or lovED. But the gentlemen in this thread are right. Trust me im dealing with my past too and its not easy, but you gotta let that chapter close

 

[Jasmine20]

She's a washed up thot with baggage. Leave her in the past where she belongs