Met with my ex earlier this week. Maybe shouldn't have.

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StickStickly said:
Sometimes people genuinely miss you breh. Think about it. Life is so big and there are so many people in our lives. These people are special because their comprise our experiences on earth- our own little microcosm of human relations. You
Are a Part of her and she is a part of you, no matter how small. She wants to connect with you because you bring some good feelings from
the past to the surface. I can't say that she's gold digging or being wishy washy about her past decisions, but to think that's how she is is way too cynical. Sometimes people just want to see old Friends.
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You cant treat people any type of way and then come around them when u miss them
 
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StarGirl said:
I know about the perks of experiencing heartbreak. I think it's a great test of the human spirit- but the lesson is lost when the person repeats the mistakes and seeks to pretend it never happened. In the midst of a heartbreak, I once told myself to remember how I felt at that exact moment and to remember it months in the future when he would undoubtedly come back. It's not resentment, it's growth.

The salary of a college girl is hard d*ck and bubble gum. You were in similar company. Glad to hear you figured it out.

Hmm. So you had clearance for no-strings-attached sex back then, but now the price is higher. And she has explicitly mentioned sex. TBQH I think she owes you sex. I say that in a slight joking manner. The respectful thing for her to have done was say the truth. She regrets her decision. But, instead of doing that, she's trying to rekindle a flame. And she's choosing the route of cowardice. There would be more honor in owning what she's orchestrating.

I think it's amazing that you're moving soon. You need a fresh start because you've been Good Will Hunting. Happiness is a fleeting thing- and we can get it from other people-yes. But, the caveat with that is they have the power to remove the happiness when they leave. Money is always rotating. The biggest misconception is that it is scarce. So, you need something of permanency- that doesn't resolve around material things and that is outside of another person.

Meeting up with your ex was beneath you. Not just superficially, but internally. I think the reason you did is because there might need to be a little more healing. You told the 'happily ever after' ex no, but this one gets entertained. We do a lot of damage to one another. Honesty with yourself is the best thing you can give yourself because it's like engine oil checks. Am I good? Do I want to do this? Does this make me feel better? Why am I entertaining this?

Lol, it's okay. I'm a girl so vulnerability is kind of my language. You can PM me instead if you want to.
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Hold on did op just finesse him a girl by complaining about his thotbox X. I'm dead. 2017 anything is possible
 
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that hoe is miserable.
leave her to the wolves.
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StarGirl said:
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That's why I don't post seriously on this site. You guys are weirdos.
@AdvantageSouthpaw don't dap that s***.


Also, @Cat piss martini - I have an update for you. It all worked out.
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Chiiil. Gotta add some levity to the conversation. Also I'm quite handsome or so I'm told :troll:

I owe you a PM though. I had something written out but I was on my phone and I wanted to send you something more coherent.
 
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This thread is simp as fukk. :wow:

Breh, she made her choice now has massive regrets. Like old boy last week talking about how his mom could have been wifed up by a successful producer.

And, it's not like she came at you 6 months later. She got 2 kids and a divorce. She wasn't giving a damn about you for 4 years and you're about to waste your capital on her now? To me this is a character thing, who gives a fukk how guilty she feels now. Lots of people in prison feel guilty after that heist went south.

Get your dikk wet and keep stepping.
 
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bdizzle said:
Never go back to ex's. They're in your past for a reason.
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I worked with a dude his girl was a year or so behind him in college and she started fukking around on him after he was out in the workforce. bytch moved to KC and into the SAME APARTMENT BUILDING trying to get him back, but breh was too #hoh to simp out like that

Ended up with an even badder woman, married with at least 1 kid last I heard. Don't sell out, you never win. You get a woman who thinks you're ultimately a chump
 
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AdvantageSouthpaw said:
Thanks breh just need to rant a little. I know she keeps contacting me thinking "What if I stayed with him?" sort of thing. I have thought about it too in the past among other things. How we could talk for hours about ideas. The freaky sex we had. Some of our arguments and stuff. But nothing motivated me really to contact her other than to think how she's doing or something.
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Exactly right. Don't talk to her again my man. I say this because you're no one's second choice. Do don't even give her some satisfaction.
 
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