Met with my ex earlier this week. Maybe shouldn't have.

[Surreal]

OP gotta listen to that Classic LL track - 6 minutes of pleasure

 

[Jasmine20]

damn jazz, when you start sounding like one of these male coli-ites............you know you've been on this site too damn long.

That gif

And nah I would give the same advice to someone in real life. I guess the "washed up" part was a little harsh. But everything else was spot on

 

[Still Benefited]

Might as well hit her,she gon fukk you like she auditioning for wife now too


I dont know if you built for all that though,you might actually marry her or poke a hole in your own condom

Sounds like she either got old feelings coming back,or more than likely she dont have no other potentials right now,so she looking at the past and you were the first to come to mind....she want to feel love again for the moment,but you definitley not her ideal man....if yall got together she would eventually have a side nikka who is her ideal man,hitting that in your house,just remember that.

 

[Biscayne]

Probably haha. She was telling me that she feels like she will be single, rah rah.

But the thing is when I kissed her she was like "I'm not that easy anymore". She definitely changed. I did too like I said no slouch. I was showing pictures from San Francisco, Utah. Told her about some of the cool shyt I did but of course I was still affectionate towards her. Even bought her a little box of gummy bears that were like $10.

I'd still have sex with her but of course part of me thinks she's playing "gatekeeper" more now that she's a mom and wants a provider. But I guess she expects me to simp or something which is why I haven't contacted her since seeing her.

That part...

You're on the right track...

 

[Lamar Givens]

You should have never responded to her from jump. She clearly needed an ego boost, and being that you had moved on and did well for yourself and gave her the time of day only confirmed her biased opinion that she believes she still has you wrapped under her finger.

The whole statement, "I am not easy like that anymore." Hoe, yes you are!

If you end up getting back with this broad you deserve every bit of suffering that will inevitably come with it.

When you cut a female off, CUT THEM OFF!!!

 

[Real N Quotes]

Breh you're doing good for yourself...stay away from old shyt....you never know who you'll find next....move forward and prosper

Stay away from that Jezebel Maneater breh...let her get prego from another simp and ruin his life

Stay focused and lose her number, trust me!!!!

 

[TRUEST]

lol threadstarter is very excited she hit him up and he's trying to rationalize the irrational. OP, smarten the fucck up..NOW. ok. u sound so gadamn submissive. oooo why is she contacting me. what does she want from me?? knowing deep down, ur just hoping she'll say she wants to get back with u. have some dignity and man the fucck up.

 

[Kaydigi]

Why the fukk are you kissing her for, give her a hearty handshake and keep it moving.

 

[Paradise50]

your ex divorced w/ 2 lil kids and you catching feelings again?



y'all starting 2017 on some fukk shyt

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Block her number and act like she never existed breh.

If you don't, your confused feelings will get you tempted to time travel back down a path that you shouldn't


You already beat the game and traded it in at gamestop. No point in going back to buy it again after other nikkas done scratched it up and returned it too.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Actions speak louder than words.

Now just let the tax payer clean up her stupid decisions.

its hard to say I fukked my life up...I need you in it, its easy to say I miss my friend

and if it was really just catching up with an old friend...the sexual talk in text messages would'nt be happening

there's nothing more attractive than something you don't have

next time she hit em up ...he should hit her with the "maybe you should get back with your BD ...for the kids"

That shyt will crush her soul...

You're more mad about it than I am

nikka a LOT of times I am more vicariously mad FOR yall too, making these dumb mistakes but then again I have the advantage of 3rd party objectivity

if everything in her life was going good, she would not give a damn about you.

preach negro

There would be more honor in owning what she's orchestrating.

I can respect that. Too bad 90% of American women can't even manage that.

Lol, it's okay. I'm a girl so vulnerability is kind of my language. You can PM me instead if you want to.

@SheWantTheD !!!!!! (OP )

 

[GetInTheTruck]

Dead that immediately

 

[Dameon Farrow]

She needed her attention fix.

 

[Kaydigi]

Block her number and act like she never existed breh.

If you don't, your confused feelings will get you tempted to time travel back down a path that you shouldn't


You already beat the game and traded it in at gamestop. No point in going back to buy it again after other nikkas done scratched it up and returned it too.

No need to sugarcoat it with dope metaphors. just say she's been nutted on her face.... done.

That should put it in perspective for the op.

 

[AnotherRoute]

Sometimes people genuinely miss you breh. Think about it. Life is so big and there are so many people in our lives. These people are special because their comprise our experiences on earth- our own little microcosm of human relations. You
Are a Part of her and she is a part of you, no matter how small. She wants to connect with you because you bring some good feelings from
the past to the surface. I can't say that she's gold digging or being wishy washy about her past decisions, but to think that's how she is is way too cynical. Sometimes people just want to see old Friends.

True, but that missing isn't always cut and dry sometimes it is an ego boost, somtimes it is a damn what if. She could be using him to feel better about herself and at the same time draining homeboy. Hell she could want to be with him again

There alot angles to look at this from the best angle is the on that causes the op the least amount of pain.