I don't mess with the actual movement, but the premise is fine with me.
If it was socially well adjusted dudes that chose to focus on careers/interesting hobbies/community service/business instead of chasing chicks, but still open to deal with an attractive woman showing cooperation, then it would make sense.
But it ends up manifesting into socially inept guys that have no lives and hate women.
I agree with the concept of not judging a man on his "success" with women, but I also think it's lame to completely give up on women as well. If you are tired of the rat race, just focus on self, and pick and choose your spots if the opportunities arise.