More Americans than ever have never married: survey
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Ricky Church
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lol. exactly. what's the point in a marriage. who gives a fukk. 
People are waking up , can't expect men to see the divorce rates, alimony payments, custody battles etc. And continue to walk down the aisle like suckers
What's really telling is this -
Dudes just want an actual partner, women out chea looking for business associates
Dudes just want an actual partner, women out chea looking for business associates
78% of women want a partner with a steady job.
80% of those women are probably gold diggers.
80% of those women are probably gold diggers.
Men value love
Women love value
What's really telling is this -
Dudes just want an actual partner, women out chea looking for business associates
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
Hell im on marriage #2
what part of oak cliff are you in
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
Hhp
Did you see the part about blacks?
Black's place more importance than whites on finding a partner with a steady job before marriage and among unmarried young Black's there are 51 employed men for every 100 women.
Remember when I said black women should be happy with a nukka making 12 a hour whose faithful and they tried to throw dirt on me
Black's place more importance than whites on finding a partner with a steady job before marriage and among unmarried young Black's there are 51 employed men for every 100 women.
Remember when I said black women should be happy with a nukka making 12 a hour whose faithful and they tried to throw dirt on me
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"If you go back a generation or two, couols would literally take the plunge together and build up finances and nest eggs together, now it seems to be this attitude to build households up before they get married"
Remember how I said women don't want to build anymore
Get married brehs I continue to be right
Remember how I said women don't want to build anymore
Get married brehs I continue to be right
Some of the comments
his explains why I and the many single 40-something professional women I know can't find a man to marry--there are so many more educated, employed women than men. Worse, the few men with professional jobs are so in demand that they can choose to play the field for many years rather than settle with one woman.
I am a divorce lawyer, and don't necessarily recommend getting married. The divorce and custody laws are in many cases not fair. Anyone who gets married is risking their premarital, separate assets. In some states, alimony is completely out of control. Some states will award lifetime alimony. The Pennsylvania courts recently told one father that he couldn't drive his children even though he had a perfect driving record. In another case, the Pennsylvania courts awarded child support to the mother, even though the father had custody of the child. I've seen this happen twice.
In place of surveys, I'll tell you why many guys my age don't want to marry. Money (parting with their own) and the availability of sex without marriage, a alleged benefit of the feminist movement. I've had two friends end relationships with women who in their words, simply had too many sexual partners previous to the relationship. Their rationale, they didn't want a potential wife of theirs to have had so much sex. Another friend who is very successful financially, yet I admit not without issues of his own related to that, ended a relationship with a woman because she didn't want to work. He works everyday and said he found it an unattractive quality to have a wife who simply lives off of his income. Friends who have married did so because that's what the women in their life wanted. Marriage can be wonderful, but it was designed to civilize society and control behavior. Hollywood turned it into romance. Procreation and love are two different things that society is bent on confusing. More young people are seeing it for what it is, and with a divorce rate at over 50%, I can't say I blame my male friends for their concerns. Who wants to give up half simply because one said "I do". We would be delusional to say the other 50% is living blissfully. Another married friend and father of two is happy to be a dad, but isn't in love with being a husband. This is the secret world of how men see marriage, intimacy, and fatherhood and it's not completely invalid.
Marriage is a legal contract enforced unevenly and unfairly by each state based upon no agreed upon parameters and at the whim of Judges whose opinion can not generally be appealed other than on procedural grounds. Getting Married gives up your rights to your assets, future earnings, and children to the State upon divorce which is a large portion of marriages. It is still an economic arrangement as is clear when the defacto marriage contract is being enforced. Love does not require being married. It is time the "marriage contract" be more explicit and known at the time of marriage - I suspect the marriage rate would decline even more.
his explains why I and the many single 40-something professional women I know can't find a man to marry--there are so many more educated, employed women than men. Worse, the few men with professional jobs are so in demand that they can choose to play the field for many years rather than settle with one woman.
I am a divorce lawyer, and don't necessarily recommend getting married. The divorce and custody laws are in many cases not fair. Anyone who gets married is risking their premarital, separate assets. In some states, alimony is completely out of control. Some states will award lifetime alimony. The Pennsylvania courts recently told one father that he couldn't drive his children even though he had a perfect driving record. In another case, the Pennsylvania courts awarded child support to the mother, even though the father had custody of the child. I've seen this happen twice.
In place of surveys, I'll tell you why many guys my age don't want to marry. Money (parting with their own) and the availability of sex without marriage, a alleged benefit of the feminist movement. I've had two friends end relationships with women who in their words, simply had too many sexual partners previous to the relationship. Their rationale, they didn't want a potential wife of theirs to have had so much sex. Another friend who is very successful financially, yet I admit not without issues of his own related to that, ended a relationship with a woman because she didn't want to work. He works everyday and said he found it an unattractive quality to have a wife who simply lives off of his income. Friends who have married did so because that's what the women in their life wanted. Marriage can be wonderful, but it was designed to civilize society and control behavior. Hollywood turned it into romance. Procreation and love are two different things that society is bent on confusing. More young people are seeing it for what it is, and with a divorce rate at over 50%, I can't say I blame my male friends for their concerns. Who wants to give up half simply because one said "I do". We would be delusional to say the other 50% is living blissfully. Another married friend and father of two is happy to be a dad, but isn't in love with being a husband. This is the secret world of how men see marriage, intimacy, and fatherhood and it's not completely invalid.
Marriage is a legal contract enforced unevenly and unfairly by each state based upon no agreed upon parameters and at the whim of Judges whose opinion can not generally be appealed other than on procedural grounds. Getting Married gives up your rights to your assets, future earnings, and children to the State upon divorce which is a large portion of marriages. It is still an economic arrangement as is clear when the defacto marriage contract is being enforced. Love does not require being married. It is time the "marriage contract" be more explicit and known at the time of marriage - I suspect the marriage rate would decline even more.