More Black men are exercising their options and it bothers women

[WesCrook]

Whenever I talk to women who bring up "available good men or thereof", I give them the reason why...and they ain't trying to hear it.

The immediate rebuttal is something like "y'all just want some easy thots" "you can't handle a real woman"...as if we're some primitive creatures who settle for the low-hanging fruit.

Fact is, Black men, especially productive Black men have more options than ever before and don't put women and sex on a pedestal. Sure, there are simps out there, but not as many as people make it out to be.

More brothers are dumping/ghosting women, rotating them, or are just content with being single with the occasional smash.

When I go out, I've noticed something that's been occurring lately. Guys go out in together in small groups and have a good time amongst ourselves. We aren't overtly trying to holla at random women as if it's a primary goal. Sure, we'll scope some pieces walking by and give a ....but that's pretty much it.

We (at least the people I know, and from observation) have a good idea of how a lot of these women are...believing they are the ultimate prize and expecting you to jump through hoops for them. Now, we are like . Why go through the hassle and superficial shyt? You have YOURSELF to fall back on....with options.

 

[010101]

sus*

 

[Cadillac]

we have had like 4 variations of this thread in the past week.

anyways, IMO there are more "good black men" than the women realize, its just they have such tunnel vision of what they deem as "good black men" when there are more they just have no interest in them.

some of the brothas who are deemed "good" by them are not trynna settle. and others who are, get ignored.

 

[ALMIGHTY GOD]

this wont go well op, this forum isnt mature enough for this.

just the other day nikkas was choosing p*ssy over supreme ultimate power

alot of black men are lost

 

[Nikki_04]

Yea men preferring the company of...men. Nothing weird about that.

But I get what you are saying, you have standards and won't settle down with just any woman, but until you find her you don't really take women seriously or stress over impressing them.

Women are becoming the same way...we're gonna be like Japan soon.

we have had like 4 variations of this thread in the past week.

anyways, IMO there are more "good black men" than the women realize, its just they have such tunnel vision of what they deem as "good black men" when there are more they just have no interest in them.

some of the brothas who are deemed "good" by them are not trynna settle. and others who are, get ignored.

The issue with this is the fact that what is considered a "good man" or "good woman" is usually subjective. What you consider good qualities in a person may not be as important or deemed "good" to the next person. So you can't fault someone for not having interest in a person YOU consider "good."

I also think some people think more highly of themselves than they really are. Too many people think they are "good" when really they have multiple screws loose with sociopathic tendencies.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

So basically, everyone has high standards, yet can't find someone.

 

[The Fade]

i just want money

this dating out obsession getting corny, from both genders

 

[stave]

I think OP is saying being pressed over a simple piece of ass to the point of distraction is a flaw to most women.

But most women are simply pieces of ass bc they have nothing else of value to offer... or demonstrate capacity for in a way that suits you long-term, so there is no point investing

You smash and go about your business. You chalk up losses and keep moving. None of it is a big deal bc it is all largely irrelevant.

I agree

have no clue why this would be considered odd

and women are free to do the same

I encourage it

stop wasting people's time with fake feelings and obligation of commitment ideals you don't really want from thrm

 

[invalid]

Black men have more options than ever before and don't put women and sex on a pedestal.

This is being a bit disengenuious don’t you think? You ain’t a real nikka if everything you do ain’t about getting the next nut.

There are 8 threads right now on the first page of TLR alone about pu$$y.

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

Is Op a bytch or a nikka speaking for other nikkas?

 

[Ol’Otis]

sus*

yea...the title threw me off

 

[Reece]

As a black man all you have to do is:

- Make it to late 20s/30s
- Be in good shape/health
- Have a good job/savings/money
- Have a house/apartment
- Have a car

That's it.

 

[the bossman]

So basically, everyone has high standards, yet can't find someone.

Basically.

 

[SheWantTheD]

How can women shame "thots" when they fukking on the first night? May not be every guy they date but it's more than a couple.

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

we have had like 4 variations of this thread in the past week.

anyways, IMO there are more "good black men" than the women realize, its just they have such tunnel vision of what they deem as "good black men" when there are more they just have no interest in them.

some of the brothas who are deemed "good" by them are not trynna settle. and others who are, get ignored.

I remember having a convo with a chick and we both came to the conclusion that there's an equal amount of good black men and women but that they often miss each other due to bad decision making and people selfishly getting with good people when they know they ain't shyt and then turning those good people into ain't shyt people due to trauma and bullshyt.