Morethan1 getcho behind in here! :ufdup:
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T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable
My Wallabies attract bowlegged b1tches
Damn nikka it took you THAT long to give a response?? .
some of us have lives..something you're worthless ass wouldnt know shyt bout
Bet your stank azz camped out waiting for a response too
U got me all wrong..i dont want u hoes to leave..makes no difference to me whether you're here or not.Yall dudes or trannies as far as im concerned,feel free to do whatever u like.
Cut all that yapping cause we all know u aint built like that.Post whatever u want,just watch who u fukking with.Aint no telling what length these nikkas on here will go to put u out there.
Do what that Bokeem looking ho bella has done,put me on ignore and enjoy your stay.
Matter of fact list all your friends from the other site and i will do it for ya..its a win-win
Trying too hard
go eat out your mother on her bloodiest day fakkit
Christabella
Rookie
So after morethan1 infiltrated our lady camp over there at LHCF in an attempt to solicit new members to this site, I've heard a lot of jokes about our "hair forum" and a lot of comments about black women being weaved up, wigged up and how we must all be bald to need a forum like that.
So since I have a tiny bit of free time this afternoon, I thought I'd touch on that issue a bit. I think it's sad that BW have come to be known for weaves/wigs and short broken off damaged hair.
Everyone laughs about it but nobody really looks at the ugly truth behind black hair care.
Hair is supposed to be a woman's crown. It can be sexy and alluring or it can be unhealthy and ridiculous looking.
I joined LHCF just to have the opportunity to network and chitchat with that many black women all in once place. You don't find that very often anywhere. As we get older, it's not easy to make friendships with other women. Unless you join an association, rec leagues, etc. friendships tend to be confined to those you already knew and those you meet at work or church.
Anyway, what I learned when I got to LHCF were some pretty interesting truths.
What it all comes down to is that through centuries of slavery, assimilation, media imagery, etc. many BW have fried, died, and covered their and have no clue how to take care of their own hair properly. It's not so funny when an adult BW realizes that she has never even seen or does not even remember her own hair texture because she was "relaxed" by her parents as a child. Some continue to relax their hair because they prefer the flexibility of not dealing with tightly coiled hair. Others do know their own texture but prefer to relax because they just prefer the look of straighter hair.
A lot of the women that are on that board are natural or transitioning to natural. I think this is great that BW finally feel comfortable enough to start embracing the hair they were born with instead of trying to fry it into submission in order to achieve that anglo appearance we think men in general prefer.
There have been a lot of fallacies that have come about concerning black hair care. For a long time we were taught by parents, media, men, etc. that our hair is ugly and should not be shown to anybody unless it's been straightened. It's caused a complex for some women who would rather wear an atrocious lace front or awful weave rather than don their own natural hair.
For a long time women who were relaxed actually thought it was a good idea to relax their hair every 6 weeks and also to re-relax hair that had already been processed. The overlapping and excessive chemicals would cause irreversible damage. We've all seen those women with the receding hairline caused by chemicals and breakage in the back leaving it uneven and just well...ugly.
Women also believed that water was there enemy and "grease" was their friend. Actually a lot of BW still think that. It's sad. As a result, some BW thought it was okay to only wash their hair once every few weeks and cover their hair with "grease" resulting in that nasty stink hair smell. BW don't or didn't realize that you could wash your hair every few days or even every day (I do it because I have been doing insanity for 6 months and NOT washing my hair is not an option) and hair will still grow and be healthy and look good (and not use any grease on your scalp at all). A lot of black women just have really struggled with hair care and what they need to do to take care of either their natural hair or chemically straightened hair so that it does not fall out or shed badly.
We are at a disadvantage because our society in general has never really embraced our hair. Generally, it is seen as inappropriate in some work places (crazy, I know) and not as sexy as straight flowing hair.
I thank God, having been raised by my father, that he was never willing to allow me to put chemicals in my hair so that I actually learned to love my hair texture and take care of it whether natural or relaxed. There are a lot of women on that board that are trying to teach each other and pass along what they learned because a lot of BW just don't know any better.
So instead of laughing about it (and yes it is sometimes funny) when you see a black woman with a bad weave, we could encourage each other to take a more healthy and cleaner approach to taking care of our hair and to look very stylish and sexy while doing so.
So since I have a tiny bit of free time this afternoon, I thought I'd touch on that issue a bit. I think it's sad that BW have come to be known for weaves/wigs and short broken off damaged hair.
Everyone laughs about it but nobody really looks at the ugly truth behind black hair care.
Hair is supposed to be a woman's crown. It can be sexy and alluring or it can be unhealthy and ridiculous looking.
I joined LHCF just to have the opportunity to network and chitchat with that many black women all in once place. You don't find that very often anywhere. As we get older, it's not easy to make friendships with other women. Unless you join an association, rec leagues, etc. friendships tend to be confined to those you already knew and those you meet at work or church.
Anyway, what I learned when I got to LHCF were some pretty interesting truths.
What it all comes down to is that through centuries of slavery, assimilation, media imagery, etc. many BW have fried, died, and covered their and have no clue how to take care of their own hair properly. It's not so funny when an adult BW realizes that she has never even seen or does not even remember her own hair texture because she was "relaxed" by her parents as a child. Some continue to relax their hair because they prefer the flexibility of not dealing with tightly coiled hair. Others do know their own texture but prefer to relax because they just prefer the look of straighter hair.
A lot of the women that are on that board are natural or transitioning to natural. I think this is great that BW finally feel comfortable enough to start embracing the hair they were born with instead of trying to fry it into submission in order to achieve that anglo appearance we think men in general prefer.
There have been a lot of fallacies that have come about concerning black hair care. For a long time we were taught by parents, media, men, etc. that our hair is ugly and should not be shown to anybody unless it's been straightened. It's caused a complex for some women who would rather wear an atrocious lace front or awful weave rather than don their own natural hair.
For a long time women who were relaxed actually thought it was a good idea to relax their hair every 6 weeks and also to re-relax hair that had already been processed. The overlapping and excessive chemicals would cause irreversible damage. We've all seen those women with the receding hairline caused by chemicals and breakage in the back leaving it uneven and just well...ugly.
Women also believed that water was there enemy and "grease" was their friend. Actually a lot of BW still think that. It's sad. As a result, some BW thought it was okay to only wash their hair once every few weeks and cover their hair with "grease" resulting in that nasty stink hair smell. BW don't or didn't realize that you could wash your hair every few days or even every day (I do it because I have been doing insanity for 6 months and NOT washing my hair is not an option) and hair will still grow and be healthy and look good (and not use any grease on your scalp at all). A lot of black women just have really struggled with hair care and what they need to do to take care of either their natural hair or chemically straightened hair so that it does not fall out or shed badly.
We are at a disadvantage because our society in general has never really embraced our hair. Generally, it is seen as inappropriate in some work places (crazy, I know) and not as sexy as straight flowing hair.
I thank God, having been raised by my father, that he was never willing to allow me to put chemicals in my hair so that I actually learned to love my hair texture and take care of it whether natural or relaxed. There are a lot of women on that board that are trying to teach each other and pass along what they learned because a lot of BW just don't know any better.
So instead of laughing about it (and yes it is sometimes funny) when you see a black woman with a bad weave, we could encourage each other to take a more healthy and cleaner approach to taking care of our hair and to look very stylish and sexy while doing so.
Sierra Mist
Banned
I'm happy we have new ladies on here. The dudes are wack as fukk on here. Why do all the girls who post now post a lot of gifs? My lane. 
T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable
My Wallabies attract bowlegged b1tches
Nobody reading that clusterfukk of paragraphs bytch
u done lost your mind
u done lost your mind
I'm happy we have new ladies on here. The dudes are wack as fukk on here. Why do all the girls who post now post a lot of gifs? My lane.
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
Illuminatos
#OVOXO
So after morethan1 infiltrated our lady camp over there at LHCF in an attempt to solicit new members to this site, I've heard a lot of jokes about our "hair forum" and a lot of comments about black women being weaved up, wigged up and how we must all be bald to need a forum like that.
So since I have a tiny bit of free time this afternoon, I thought I'd touch on that issue a bit. I think it's sad that BW have come to be known for weaves/wigs and short broken off damaged hair.
Everyone laughs about it but nobody really looks at the ugly truth behind black hair care.
Hair is supposed to be a woman's crown. It can be sexy and alluring or it can be unhealthy and ridiculous looking.
I joined LHCF just to have the opportunity to network and chitchat with that many black women all in once place. You don't find that very often anywhere. As we get older, it's not easy to make friendships with other women. Unless you join an association, rec leagues, etc. friendships tend to be confined to those you already knew and those you meet at work or church.
Anyway, what I learned when I got to LHCF were some pretty interesting truths.
What it all comes down to is that through centuries of slavery, assimilation, media imagery, etc. many BW have fried, died, and covered their and have no clue how to take care of their own hair properly. It's not so funny when an adult BW realizes that she has never even seen or does not even remember her own hair texture because she was "relaxed" by her parents as a child. Some continue to relax their hair because they prefer the flexibility of not dealing with tightly coiled hair. Others do know their own texture but prefer to relax because they just prefer the look of straighter hair.
A lot of the women that are on that board are natural or transitioning to natural. I think this is great that BW finally feel comfortable enough to start embracing the hair they were born with instead of trying to fry it into submission in order to achieve that anglo appearance we think men in general prefer.
There have been a lot of fallacies that have come about concerning black hair care. For a long time we were taught by parents, media, men, etc. that our hair is ugly and should not be shown to anybody unless it's been straightened. It's caused a complex for some women who would rather wear an atrocious lace front or awful weave rather than don their own natural hair.
For a long time women who were relaxed actually thought it was a good idea to relax their hair every 6 weeks and also to re-relax hair that had already been processed. The overlapping and excessive chemicals would cause irreversible damage. We've all seen those women with the receding hairline caused by chemicals and breakage in the back leaving it uneven and just well...ugly.
Women also believed that water was there enemy and "grease" was their friend. Actually a lot of BW still think that. It's sad. As a result, some BW thought it was okay to only wash their hair once every few weeks and cover their hair with "grease" resulting in that nasty stink hair smell. BW don't or didn't realize that you could wash your hair every few days or even every day (I do it because I have been doing insanity for 6 months and NOT washing my hair is not an option) and hair will still grow and be healthy and look good (and not use any grease on your scalp at all). A lot of black women just have really struggled with hair care and what they need to do to take care of either their natural hair or chemically straightened hair so that it does not fall out or shed badly.
We are at a disadvantage because our society in general has never really embraced our hair. Generally, it is seen as inappropriate in some work places (crazy, I know) and not as sexy as straight flowing hair.
I thank God, having been raised by my father, that he was never willing to allow me to put chemicals in my hair so that I actually learned to love my hair texture and take care of it whether natural or relaxed. There are a lot of women on that board that are trying to teach each other and pass along what they learned because a lot of BW just don't know any better.
So instead of laughing about it (and yes it is sometimes funny) when you see a black woman with a bad weave, we could encourage each other to take a more healthy and cleaner approach to taking care of our hair and to look very stylish and sexy while doing so.
You gonna have to throw a couple smilies in there or shorten that shyt up if you want someone to actually read that.
So after morethan1 infiltrated our lady camp over there at LHCF in an attempt to solicit new members to this site, I've heard a lot of jokes about our "hair forum" and a lot of comments about black women being weaved up, wigged up and how we must all be bald to need a forum like that.
So since I have a tiny bit of free time this afternoon, I thought I'd touch on that issue a bit. I think it's sad that BW have come to be known for weaves/wigs and short broken off damaged hair.
Everyone laughs about it but nobody really looks at the ugly truth behind black hair care.
Hair is supposed to be a woman's crown. It can be sexy and alluring or it can be unhealthy and ridiculous looking.
I joined LHCF just to have the opportunity to network and chitchat with that many black women all in once place. You don't find that very often anywhere. As we get older, it's not easy to make friendships with other women. Unless you join an association, rec leagues, etc. friendships tend to be confined to those you already knew and those you meet at work or church.
Anyway, what I learned when I got to LHCF were some pretty interesting truths.
What it all comes down to is that through centuries of slavery, assimilation, media imagery, etc. many BW have fried, died, and covered their and have no clue how to take care of their own hair properly. It's not so funny when an adult BW realizes that she has never even seen or does not even remember her own hair texture because she was "relaxed" by her parents as a child. Some continue to relax their hair because they prefer the flexibility of not dealing with tightly coiled hair. Others do know their own texture but prefer to relax because they just prefer the look of straighter hair.
A lot of the women that are on that board are natural or transitioning to natural. I think this is great that BW finally feel comfortable enough to start embracing the hair they were born with instead of trying to fry it into submission in order to achieve that anglo appearance we think men in general prefer.
There have been a lot of fallacies that have come about concerning black hair care. For a long time we were taught by parents, media, men, etc. that our hair is ugly and should not be shown to anybody unless it's been straightened. It's caused a complex for some women who would rather wear an atrocious lace front or awful weave rather than don their own natural hair.
For a long time women who were relaxed actually thought it was a good idea to relax their hair every 6 weeks and also to re-relax hair that had already been processed. The overlapping and excessive chemicals would cause irreversible damage. We've all seen those women with the receding hairline caused by chemicals and breakage in the back leaving it uneven and just well...ugly.
Women also believed that water was there enemy and "grease" was their friend. Actually a lot of BW still think that. It's sad. As a result, some BW thought it was okay to only wash their hair once every few weeks and cover their hair with "grease" resulting in that nasty stink hair smell. BW don't or didn't realize that you could wash your hair every few days or even every day (I do it because I have been doing insanity for 6 months and NOT washing my hair is not an option) and hair will still grow and be healthy and look good (and not use any grease on your scalp at all). A lot of black women just have really struggled with hair care and what they need to do to take care of either their natural hair or chemically straightened hair so that it does not fall out or shed badly.
We are at a disadvantage because our society in general has never really embraced our hair. Generally, it is seen as inappropriate in some work places (crazy, I know) and not as sexy as straight flowing hair.
I thank God, having been raised by my father, that he was never willing to allow me to put chemicals in my hair so that I actually learned to love my hair texture and take care of it whether natural or relaxed. There are a lot of women on that board that are trying to teach each other and pass along what they learned because a lot of BW just don't know any better.
So instead of laughing about it (and yes it is sometimes funny) when you see a black woman with a bad weave, we could encourage each other to take a more healthy and cleaner approach to taking care of our hair and to look very stylish and sexy while doing so.
Sierra Mist
Banned
Broke Wave
The GOAT
L's up for the coli 
How we getting sonned by some bougie ass self important hoes from a fukking hair care forum
How we getting sonned by some bougie ass self important hoes from a fukking hair care forum
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
L's up for the coli
How we getting sonned by some bougie ass self important hoes from a fukking hair care forum
Don't do it!
T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable
My Wallabies attract bowlegged b1tches
L's up for the coli
How we getting sonned by some bougie ass self important hoes from a fukking hair care forum
dont call them hoes breh..unless u want an infraction
being hostile towards these delicate,bald,weave wearing flowers is against forums rules..
