Please stop the generalizations, I use to split bills with previous boyfriends all the time. I respected and followed 2 out of 3 of them.
Most Ambitious INDEPENDENT Career Women are RABID FEMINIST but Smart Enough to DISQUISE IT.
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Women who are not interested in the man thats talking to her at that moment says "she's focused on her career" as an out.
That same woman will do a 180 for a man she's interested in the following week.
Granted there are women who are true to that saying and can be difficult once in a relationship.
You basically have to have solid morals for yourself as a man and whatever female fits into that mold as a mate will eventually come forward.
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It can go either way. All we know is some couple don't work out and some do. There are plenty couples who put their incomes together and have gotten along great and have everything they want in life.
If a $300k salary woman doesn't want a man below her, if she doesn't respect men below her, that's purely her preference. It makes things harder on her, not us.
What does "modern feminism" have to do with it? You're not even talking about women who subscribe to any public movement, you created a whole thread to bytch about crypto-feminists or some shyt who don't even rep that shyt but haven't given you the energy you wanted.
Your public profile says "Get Married Brehs" and "Hard On Hoes", but you're whining and bytching that successful women aren't treating you with the respect you think you deserve. Then you started passing out judgments of who would make a good wife. Anyone with a brain needed about 2 seconds to see where the problem originated.
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I hear D.C. women are highly educated and tough to date.
Not sure how true it is.
If that's the case, how hard is it to just leave em alone? Switch cities? Why are we complaining about women that has no effect on us in any regard?
Scustin Bieburr
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If you go down that line, you'll eventually end up not wanting ANY woman. No matter what you're taking a gamble.
Commit to a woman who requires you to tell her what to do and will be your cook and maid? She'll grow to resent you and then file for divorce. Because she hasn't been working in the workforce, she'll be entitled to your money to keep the standard of living your income gave her when yall were together.
Commit to a career woman? She'll resent you for not making as much or more money than her, thus forcing her to have to work full time instead of just laying back and working part time or doing a job she enjoys but pays less.
If youre a man you will take the risk and deal with the consequences. Trust your gut, and trust your values. Look for someone who shares your values on how money should be spent, children raised, house chores completed, etc. If there is no mutual love and respect it just won't work. You roll the dice with your mental health with every relationship you enter.
Commit to a woman who requires you to tell her what to do and will be your cook and maid? She'll grow to resent you and then file for divorce. Because she hasn't been working in the workforce, she'll be entitled to your money to keep the standard of living your income gave her when yall were together.
Commit to a career woman? She'll resent you for not making as much or more money than her, thus forcing her to have to work full time instead of just laying back and working part time or doing a job she enjoys but pays less.
If youre a man you will take the risk and deal with the consequences. Trust your gut, and trust your values. Look for someone who shares your values on how money should be spent, children raised, house chores completed, etc. If there is no mutual love and respect it just won't work. You roll the dice with your mental health with every relationship you enter.
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This all it boils down to in my eyes. Dudes stressing and complaining so much. It's like the nerds complain about women wanting thugs. I'm like, "if that's their preference, don't try to change it."
Do men have a biological clock and just get desperate to settle down?I don't worry about what women want and don't care.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Honestly I think at the root of it is envy. Those dudes hate that the street nikka can get women just being who he is. The street nikka couldn't care less what women want out of him and they still come to him. Those salty dudes wish that could be them. I understand the anger, but sometimes that's just how shyt be. No point raising your blood pressure over itThis all it boils down to in my eyes. Dudes stressing and complaining so much. It's like the nerds complain about women wanting thugs. I'm like, "if that's their preference, don't try to change it."
I don't worry about what women want and don't care.
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Honestly I think at the root of it is envy. Those dudes hate that the street nikka can get women just being who he is. The street nikka couldn't care less what women want out of him and they still come to him. Those salty dudes wish that could be them. I understand the anger, but sometimes that's just how shyt be. No point raising your blood pressure over it
But the op said career women don't want to split bills and want a guy that makes more than her.
Regardless, dudes just need to sit back and be patient and stop worrying about what other folks do. A lot of them women sound broken and I don't want anything to do with them.
I hear D.C. women are highly educated and tough to date.
If that's the case, how hard is it to just leave em alone? Switch cities? Why are we complaining about women that has no effect on us in any regard?
Ive heard that they're cut throat about them politics out there. Men and women alike. Relationships are stepping stones for them towards their goals. If you can't bring them closer to their goals, you're useless to them.
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Sounds like OP can't make the cut. About a week ago he made a thread about some woman asking if he thought he was high value.
That said, I void myself of any toxicity.
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I love you, you know.
Man who cares, get the p and keep it moving.
