Most important lesson life has taught you so far?

[Complexion]

Mine is that when people show you who the are, believe them.

Masks always slip. Always. Thing is if you're invested in the concept they present you miss that which smiles and is a villain beneath which is the really real. Very valuable insight as not all possess the honor they profess in your presence and its quite amazing the lengths some will go to to get you to believe their deception on the surface that lacks all depth and becomes Self evident when battle tested and you gotta go for delf.

Break bread with the fam. Whats the most important lesson life has taught you so far?

 

[Roger king]

There is nothing like family who you can trust and turn to and confide in

 

[Swirv]

I don’t have control

 

[UpAndComing]

Man plans, God laughs

The person who is successful in life is the one who is the most Antifragile

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

Peace of mind is the soil that love, creativity, compassion and confidence grow in. In order to have success you HAVE TO remove the things that disturb that peace and in order to remain happy you have to preserve that peace.

 

[Spades Of Aces]

Live life like there is no tomorrow because tomorrow isn’t promised to anyone…

 

[Spence]

For most of us Blacks it’s going to take time to find success. I didn’t start making real money until age 36 and moved into our McMansion this year at age 37. Don’t think that you have to have every single thing in place in your mid 20’s to be successfully and just continue to build.

 

[semicko82]

Friends and family come and go. It happens don't get upset about it

 

[semicko82]

You don't have to tell people about things going on in your life.
It's nice to confide in people, but at the same time you never know how people will use personal information against you

 

[Malik1time]

revenge will destroy your life...dont do it..from experinces it will consume you for the worst

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

If someone wants to exit your life let them. Don’t fight it. Don’t fight for them. Just continue. Things have a way of sorting itself out.

 

[876MJ]

mind your business
do not fukk with peoples money
always have a contingency plan
exercise daily
no one will love you more than your parents
start planing for your retirement in your 20s
invest (in yourself)
greed will get you caught up (quit while your ahead)
be kind to people ( until they give you a reason not to be)

 

[Amo Husserl]

Say enough.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Pay off your biggest debts early(sacrificing short term for the long term benifit).

Have patience with everything, let it unfold you’ll be surprised how things can work out.

Dont be afraid cut off people who don’t add to your life for the best.

Take care of your mental health be ok with seeking out therapy.

Be ok with being alone learn what’s your likes and dislikes.

Support everyone’s dreams always be encouraging. Takes no effort to share positive words.

Travel domestic and international.

Plenty more but some.

 

[semicko82]

revenge will destroy your life...dont do it..from experinces it will consume you for the worst

This is one that gets me a lot
I have to let some of these grudges go