Most important lesson life has taught you so far?

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1. Be confident and comfortable telling people no.

2. Give less fukks each day about things that don't bring value.

3. Kids are overrated. It's ok to say you don't want to be a parent. Better to be honest, than set an innocent life up for failure.

4. Find a hobby that pays you.

5. Cardio and calisthenics are the fountains of youth.
 

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Never take your anger out on someone who had nothing to do with it. Especially when it’s people who have always genuinely been in your corner. It‘s one of the most cowardly acts a person can commit.
 

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life is all about action everything gets better if you keep moving/working*

So true. There are underlying principles in life that keep you headed where you're directed.

Its why winners always win and losers find something to justify their position by blame shifting onto anything but them as they long ago shirked responsibility in order to take the easy way out and say they ain't where they should be because of she, him, they or them. Look at dem pronouns go!

May be construed as aggressive content by some but it reflects the actual harsh realities of life if you're willing to call it how it is and do something about it because its all on you at the end, beginning and middle.


Realizing this at any position is a win and denying it is like handing yourself a perpetual motion L.
 

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The odd two things that I live by now. The first I learned this year, which is to establish boundaries with people. No matter who they are, you have to establish boundaries with people and you can’t expect them to have boundaries even if they are adults, if you have not set them. The other is, be aware of the imprint that you’re leaving on your fellow human being. We are all leaving imprints on each other whether we are interacting for five seconds, five minutes, five days, or five years. Genuinely wish the best for your fellow human being, as you wish for yourself.
 

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The odd two things that I live by now. The first I learned this year, which is to establish boundaries with people. No matter who they are, you have to establish boundaries with people and you can’t expect them to have boundaries even if they are adults, if you have not set them. The other is, be aware of the imprint that you’re leaving on your fellow human being. We are all leaving imprints on each other whether we are interacting for five seconds, five minutes, five days, or five years. Genuinely wish the best for your fellow human being, as you wish for yourself.
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Genuinely wish the best for your fellow human being, as you wish for yourself.

This is so true. I once prevented someone from offing their on switch with a simple throwaway comment that actually ended up meaning a lot more than I said and it changed their entire frame of mind so they decided to ride out their decision. The moment passed and they were exceedingly grateful they didn't do something stupid over something pointless and it was a powerful lesson on how much power words have.

The way I see it is that we never truly interact with another person but our perception of them and extrapolating on this I genuinely believe other people are simply projections of my Self and thus facets of me, embodied. If someone irritates on the outside its because there is something on the inside you're not hearing so it speaks via another lips.

May sound metaphysic but once you've experienced the effect first hand it will totally change your perception of the Game and how to play it because you are another me therefore everyone I meet teaches me more about my Self by my reaction to them and the frequency of our interaction.
 

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Don't indulge the things that don't bring light. It is ok to know and understand them so that you spot them, but don't let it be your diet.

Trust does not always mean fully giving all you are and all you know to someone else. Know who you're dealing with and trust them with what they can be trusted with. If your wife is amazing with everything but finances, give her all the love she can handle and a Rush Card lol

Build bridges and do your part to keep it sturdy, but don't be afraid to burn it if the wrong transports are coming across.

Always show family love. Sometimes it may be in a form of distancing for each of you to grow. Love don't look green 💚 nahmean. Let's get it together cuz I can't give it forever.

Journal your life. You'd be surprised how often you find the same lessons.
 

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Life will always humble you, so stay humble.

The key to success/greatness is about thinking smart (think, plan & execute) - not breaking your back & overworking yourself. And get as much sleep as you can to keep your brain fresh 24/7.

Timing is everything - so don’t watch others, always work at your own place.

Failure is success in progress. And sometimes you have Ls to get the W. So always persevere.

Family is everything.
 

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This is so true. I once prevented someone from offing their on switch with a simple throwaway comment that actually ended up meaning a lot more than I said and it changed their entire frame of mind so they decided to ride out their decision. The moment passed and they were exceedingly grateful they didn't do something stupid over something pointless and it was a powerful lesson on how much power words have.

The way I see it is that we never truly interact with another person but our perception of them and extrapolating on this I genuinely believe other people are simply projections of my Self and thus facets of me, embodied. If someone irritates on the outside its because there is something on the inside you're not hearing so it speaks via another lips.

May sound metaphysic but once you've experienced the effect first hand it will totally change your perception of the Game and how to play it because you are another me therefore everyone I meet teaches me more about my Self by my reaction to them and the frequency of our interaction.
Daaaaamn! Thank YOU for the lesson. I’ll always carry that with me, salute!
 
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