Mr. Somebody
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My woman is chinese but i dont see many old interracial couples.
Most INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS are just a PHASE
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Zapp Brannigan
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It seems to be pretty bad with white men and black women getting angry at who you date for some reason.
I am trying to get to the bottom of it, but I think I am close to figuring out why.
which is why black women and white men make the perfect couple
Kilgore Trout
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Interesting thought, it might work with my research. I will have to think about it.
But I think its clear as to why it affects white men and black women more than anyone else I think. Ego is a big part of it.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
When you post, I'm interested in your answer.
I know that with white men, a lot of the time it has to do with a superiority complex that comes with racism. They see someone that they see as "undeserving" of a white woman because by having darker skin, you're not worthy to date "their" women.
It can feel like it sucks sometimes to be thought of as "inferior," but being the quintessential optimist, I try to see the silver lining in this. If I'm given the motivation to do really well in life because people see me as someone that really has to prove themselves to be seen as worthy to date anyone in the gene pool, I'll take all the motivational fuel that I can get. There's something particularly satisfying about receiving the begrudging respect of someone who would normally go out of their way to think less of you.
Overcoming that lower part of the brain that motivates hatred and prejudice is hard, so when it gets done it's incredibly satisfying.
@Gator Reloaded I never quoted a statistic...idiot
Plus I said...most interracial relationships...not all.
@phourtay...you hang around musicians and hippie types so they are more open minded than the rest of society.
Nut, you still said "most" as if you conducted a study or something
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it's definitely ego.
black women have been drinking the kool-aid for ages. so they don't understand why black males have a wider variety dating pool over them -- when they believe we're beneath them.
same goes for white males. they see an attractive white woman with a black man and it boggles their mind. why is this "sub human" able to get our women when we're better than them in every conceivable way. it's all ego, bruh.
and check out the IR marriage statistics. black women and white men unions hold like krazy glue.
Fredrick Thuglas
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Fredrick Thuglas
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the increasing rate of mixed and biracial people in america disagrees with you...
The number of INCREASING interracial children does not disprove what I said. You say that as if every one of them were PLANNED children.
Plus, let me reiterate, I said MOST interracial relationships are a phase. Not ALL interracial relationships.
i don't think so..lots of these relationships are from areas where there aren't many black people to begin with. If white girls is all you got to choose from
i don't think thats a phase...where you grew up and who your parents are and where you went to school have HUGE impacts on what you find attractive. Has very little to do with race actually.
Fredrick Thuglas
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Nut, you still said "most" as if you conducted a study or something
shyt pusher, you still said "The Col posters be creating their own statistics" as if I quoted a statistic...the word "most" does not mean a study was conducted...its an opinion.
We in the same city...don't act up nikka.
Nah I don't agree about black women at all, the reason many are angry is because of how they are viewed as a whole in this country. From all the texts I have read black women don't actually have big egos at all. In fact the only group of women I think have lower self esteem in this country is Asian women and even that is debatable.
White Men - Definitely the position of being in power bothers them when a "nice white woman" is dating outside her race. They feel threatened in this situation as subconsciously the question surfaces "What does he have that I don't"
I think the white man/black woman IR marriage statistics show exactly what I am thinking. With white men they are used to being in control and black women now have the security of being with the type of man who is viewed by many to have the most dominant positions in this country. Since white men are still viewed as #1 and black women are usually viewed as #4 at best in mass media it makes for a relationship in where both think they are fulfilling their needs/wants/goals. The white man feels in a greater position of control as they do not have to constantly listen to a white woman worry about her career goals and what she could be accomplishing. Percentages show that minorities generally tend to settle for less when they feel like they have accomplished a bit more or in better positions than their peers. Have you seen many of the women's rights movement these days? What is the pattern? White women in this country are fighting for equal control as the white man and this threatens them, being with a black women does not carry that same threat.
The black woman is happy because the statistics are in her favor that if the white man has a degree in a respectable field can obtain that suburban comfortable lifestyle much easier than a black man can. Thus willing to provide a bit more than they realize when it comes to home duties.
There is much much more here and none of this is really my opinion. I am posting from what I have seen with my own 2 eyes, texts, and thousands of articles I have read. I am not used to typing about this shyt on here. This is a thread that should probably be in Higher Learning.
Fredrick Thuglas
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i don't think so..lots of these relationships are from areas where there aren't many black people to begin with. If white girls is all you got to choose from
you're right. Im speaking more about those with an option to do whatever.
Like if you went to a mixed school, you can be black and date "white, latin, asian, indian, ect." but after that, more than likely you will find a black woman.
My homey used to be a white girl kind when we were in middle school/highschool (maybe college, I kinda lost touch) but now he graduated medical school and married a black woman, (Im proud of him
)Another nikka I went to highschool and college with was swirling all through highschool and 1st year of college. He;s not married but he's in a long term relationship with a black chick...they just had a son.
Both these nikkas gre up in black neighborhoods and went to mixed schools.
Just a thought.