Most people men and women wouldn’t be able to handle having an attractive spouse.

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People who have never dated at that level have no idea how much jealous it breeds. People intentionally try to break your relationship up. It's just like winning the lottery. People will come for you and yours. Some people can handle it, a lot of people can't.
That’s what I’m tryna tell these fools. Having a trophy is stressful. You gotta damn near keep the relationship a secret for it to work :sadcam:
 

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That’s what I’m tryna tell these fools. Having a trophy is stressful. You gotta damn near keep the relationship a secret for it to work :sadcam:
People who think they'll get a 10 on their arm and everyone will salute them are delusional. It really is like walking through the hood flashing all your cash lol. No one wishes you well. They want the cash for themselves and some are willing to do foul shyt to get it. Sometimes it doesn't matter how loyal your person is, if there's enough people trying to cause problems, then it's not worth the stress.
 
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I think this only applies to how women identify a potential love interest. They’re less likely to marry a “hot” guy than they are one whose looks are unremarkable, because of a nagging fear that a “hot” guy will cheat on them.

Men don’t usually think like this, since they encounter greater difficulty finding a companion than women do.

This is why you’re more likely to see a beautiful woman with an average-looking guy than one considered “hot.”

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I think this only applies to how women identify a potential love interest. They’re less likely to marry a “hot” guy than they are one whose looks are unremarkable, because of a nagging fear that a “hot” guy will cheat on them.

Men don’t usually think like this, since they encounter greater difficulty finding a companion than women do.

This is why you’re more likely to see a beautiful woman with an average-looking guy than one considered “hot.”

:francis:
Yeah you definitely right. That’s why when dudes be like you need 6 figure and 6 feet to bag a baddie I be crying. A girl will always have her guard up with you if you a 6 foot tall black man with no kids and a pocketful of money :blessed::myman:
 
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Not really Brodie. Especially not these days. Women don’t need a man to provide no more. What woman rich, successful, popular and beautiful is going to want to be bogged down with marriage and kids? It’s more or less an even playing field these days for both sexes :yeshrug:
On your initial premise, you are right when you generalize the statement. Most people have a scarcity mindset and/or do not want to compete long-term.

On this one point breh, however you are wrong. Let's think about it - rich (most are not), successful (relative and I'll argue the standards are lower for women (I don't like that - however it is what it is), popular (relative), beautiful (not worth a grain of salt anymore - surgeries and other enhancements (ie. bras, shapewear, makeup, hair) diluted this one.

Most women don't make enough and/or have investments to divest themselves from men. Please don't let the mainstream media color your glasses telling you otherwise. We are in the background helping in one fashion or another. Some clear examples are social services which men who pay majority of taxes contribute, or protection (military, police, firefighters, doctors, etc).
 

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People who have never dated at that level have no idea how much jealous it breeds. People intentionally try to break your relationship up. It's just like winning the lottery. People will come for you and yours. Some people can handle it, a lot of people can't.
I realized what it was when some guys randomly started dirtymacking someone we knew. I was like “Why are all of y’all telling me all this shyt about who he dates, etc when NO ONE said anything in the past”? Oh, because the most successful dude in the circle started looking my way so all the dudes making less than him started getting in my ear.

I was so hurt that they would be that petty and try to change my mind about him. That’s when I learned men gossip as much as women, if not more.
 

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Nah most women are invisible to the average man. Why you think they wear slutty clothes,make up and push up bras? Cause without that most dudes wouldn’t notice.

The average man is invisible too unless he drives a nice car, rich, tall, famous, or well liked? :yeshrug:
but they got that 99+ on tinder
 

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Imagine having someone who can leave you at any second and cheat on you at a whim :mjgrin:

Most of y’all nikkas already insecure as it is. So imagine that times 10 when you got a bad birch on your arm.

Y’all nikkas would go insane :russ:

That’s what Kevin samuels was tryna tell these females too. That they couldn’t handle having a rich nikka and to be satisfied with what they had

Facts, it's a fantasy that people want but the reality is different, I've heard women IRL complain about the attention their partner gets, I 've seen dudes get super aggy when out with their girl.
 

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meh… I’m dating a fukking dime right now and she is the most insecure person I’ve ever met…..

If she is this insecure, maybe that means I’m the dime :wow:
Nah. You don’t know what it’s like walking through life with people always commenting on your looks and literally ONLY being concerned about what you look like, what you’re wearing, who you’re dating, who wants to date you, etc. It breeds insecurity because she can’t blend into the crowd and disappear even if she tried.
 
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