Imagine a woman ....
Working a messy gossipy Call Center job making 15$/hr
Dating a Player/Hustler/Rapper on and off
2 Happy Hours during the workweek
Meeting and getting to know new dudes all the time (most deadends)
2 All Nighters at clubs and afterhours spot every weekend
Horrible Drinking and Eating habits
5 hours of sleep
Never exercising
In debt, but booking vacations with a her friends to All Star Weekend, Miami and Essence Fest.
She's owes everyone in her family and talks shyt about them on social media
A few years of that will burn anyone. Just think about it. A lot of women been in the dating game way before men. A lot of them were dating Hustlers and older men in High School. 15, 16, 17. So at 30, they already have been dating almost 15 years. And they all have stories of how they bad their exs are.
At 30, when the new generation of fine 21 years old enter the clubs and happy hour scene and take all the attention. These women have to retire. That's when you start hearing the "Finding Myself" quotes. "Love the woman I've becoming." "I know my worth" All that Mary J Blige shyt. Mix in some Derrick Jaxn and Feminism, it's pretty much a wrap for her.
I'm not trying to clown them, but this is reality for a lot of woman, It's sad.
Working a messy gossipy Call Center job making 15$/hr
Dating a Player/Hustler/Rapper on and off
2 Happy Hours during the workweek
Meeting and getting to know new dudes all the time (most deadends)
2 All Nighters at clubs and afterhours spot every weekend
Horrible Drinking and Eating habits
5 hours of sleep
Never exercising
In debt, but booking vacations with a her friends to All Star Weekend, Miami and Essence Fest.
She's owes everyone in her family and talks shyt about them on social media
A few years of that will burn anyone. Just think about it. A lot of women been in the dating game way before men. A lot of them were dating Hustlers and older men in High School. 15, 16, 17. So at 30, they already have been dating almost 15 years. And they all have stories of how they bad their exs are.
At 30, when the new generation of fine 21 years old enter the clubs and happy hour scene and take all the attention. These women have to retire. That's when you start hearing the "Finding Myself" quotes. "Love the woman I've becoming." "I know my worth" All that Mary J Blige shyt. Mix in some Derrick Jaxn and Feminism, it's pretty much a wrap for her.
I'm not trying to clown them, but this is reality for a lot of woman, It's sad.
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that is life they chose... women pick the men who they be with not the other way around...
