You better tell him to get on viagra or something and stop being scary. But, again you attracted these men who are too scared to get they Ed checked out so that's more on you. I'm willing to bet a real nikka would have already had that shyt figured out.
Also, some of the men you run into might not even have ED. They just might have wanted to see if they could finesse you out of some p*ssy and they succeeded then realized they didn't like you for real. Not too mention trash head and grand canyon p*ssy can be these reason the men you deal with have "ED". You gotta look at yourself first.