Mother To Son: "Gay Ass Biitch"

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Black women lowkey significantly more homophobic than Black men.... That's why it's so frustrating when the ones y'all call "Shea butters" and Black LGBT's go at straight black men necks about us being so anti-gay. But there is no way to address the hypocrisy without contining intra-gender Black warfare.

But from my experience...a Black woman(for the most part) only tolerates Gay or sus Black men and transsexuals if they do cosmetics or willing to play body guard/hitman in beefs...

I got a gay cousin who does hair and all the females in the fam love him until he actually started charging for services or show up late then "it's sissy that punk this" Studs even be calling Black gay men "fags" As far as America goes at least I say as a whole straight Black men treat gays in our race with more tolerance than straight men of other races. Imo
Why turn this into a bw vs bm. Because say you’re right, (and others may argue differently since bw tend to have gay bm friends at a much much higher ratio than straight bm and between the two straight bw are more likely then straight bm to stan and defend them) what does that have to do with op?

If you saw your child dancing like a girl would you sit there on some “I don’t have no problem with this, that’s only bw that do” or are you going to nip that shyt in the bud?

Let’s keep it buck neither bm or bw for the most part are happily embracing or wanting a child of there’s to be gay.

as for the op, the mom shouldn’t have been playing that music with either of her kids in the room to listen. That’s the first issue. The second is calling him a bytch and swearing at him. All she had to do was correct him by firmly saying “NO! That is for girls. That is how girls dance. Not boys.you are a boy. Don’t dance like that again..”
 
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Y’all applaud this until he gets older and is on the DL, then you’re foaming at the mouth talking about “if nikkas is gay, just come out the closet and stop affecting our women.” You can’t have it both ways. You can’t “beat” the gay out of anybody, you can just force them to suppress it psychologically.
 

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Y’all applaud this until he gets older and is on the DL, then you’re foaming at the mouth talking about “if nikkas is gay, just come out the closet and stop affecting our women.” You can’t have it both ways. You can’t “beat” the gay out of anybody, you can just force them to suppress it psychologically.
Do you have a kid? This boy looks to be 3 or 4.

he’s too young to say whether he is or not. I have a friend who used to have music videos playing all the time and her son would copy off what he saw. He’s now much older and very straight. I’ve seen little kids do all kind of shyt at that age.

If he was a little older I would say you have a point but he’s too young to say he’s gay from that short clip where he was mimicking what he saw. I think it’s just as problematic to diagnose a kids sexuality at that age and just go with it on some if he thinks he’s a girl, if he likes boys... nah he’s 3 or 4 you don’t know what he like yet.
 

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She's the mother and the father I guess.

But a better mother wouldnt have her daughter watching that trash.

Don't want the son to be sweet but she's robbing the girl of some childhood exposing her to hyper sexuality so young. Expose her to something educational so she can dream bigger then thotting
 
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Wrong language and handling, but right notion. That sweet potato behavior should not be encouraged in young men

Still, she shouldnt be playing these ho jams in front of her son in the first place.This is how a lot of these young boys turn sassy. There is no male presence or a weak male presence and lil man emulates momma and sisters
 

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I shouldn’t laugh but :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:

I'll just say I understand her concern and she was right to correct him but she was a little extra w/ it lmao

some posters on thecoli needed this to happen to them :troll:

imagine watching twerk videos around your child daughter then being shocked she gay
 
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