Social proofing through the women at work. You generally have to be good looking, but it works if the women in your co-workers social circles are attracted to "ugly sexy" or "medium ugly" men.
Socialize with your female co-workers friends or colleagues(WHO DON'T WORK IN HER DEPARTMENT UNLESS YOU WANT OFFICE DRAMA) and chose from the "I need some dikk tonight" friends that are with all of you that night. The social proofing comes from the fact that you are already validated by your female co-workers that you are attractive and/or interesting because women like men who are attractive & interesting to other women AND they typically don't hang out with you unless you're a family member or a very old friend.
Choose a cute, dikk hungry friend for the night, then eat.
