Moving your kids away from family is the most selfish thing a parent can do

[BrothaZay]

That’s it. No long think piece or none of that.

Raising your kids in a new place where they have nobody is selfish as hell.

Of course there’s exceptions like military or if you move to a GOAT city like Los Angeles then I can’t blame you

 

[semicko82]

That’s it. No long think piece or none of that.

Raising your kids in a new place where they have nobody is selfish as hell.

Of course there’s exceptions like military or if you move to a GOAT city like Los Angeles then I can’t blame you

Yea I went through a similar situation when I was a kid.
You spot on

 

[Thanos]

Unfortunately people move to places where they can get better opportunity and supposive better living conditions.

 

[TheGooniestGoon]

That’s life

 

[MaxBundles]

I understand the sediment but there are many factors. For example, if you and all your family live in the hood and you have an opportunity to leave, to me, it should be fukk all that, we out.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

It’s actually the best thing makes you learn how to stand up for yourself and how to navigate alone at an early age especially if you don’t have siblings to grow up with

 

[ADK]

I was in a new state every 2 years up until age 12. It did fukk w me looking back but my dad was military and it beats the small poverty town I was born in.

 

[DreadBrown]

Totally agree

Me and bm1 moved back home when she got pregnant so our kids would be the *insert distant city* cousins

 

[Michael's Black Son]

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

fukk all that me and my entire extended family all lived up in the northeast, and my parents moved me and my brother down to Atlanta cause they had a better chance at good jobs.

I was 6 and it changed my life for the better I had a great childhood and being in Atlanta after I graduated was a big reason I got a start in my industry.

Move where you give your family the best chance to prosper

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Don’t nobody care what some damn kids think. You’ll get over it and make new friends, and hopefully grandma and grandpa ain’t total pieces of shyt and can afford to fly out a couple times a year. Shyt if they’re really pressed go spend summers with them. Be their problem.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Kids will adapt.

fukk that.

 

[CrimsonTider]

This is actually true af

But most of the time the move is for better opportunities

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

You go where the money is.

True if you have the means to live anywhere you want...but it's just the reality now