People kill me with the "You don't choose who you fall in love with", YES YOU DO, you choose the type of women you talk to, you choose the environment and events you want to attend or be around (black club/events vs white club/events), you choose to deal with who you feel comfortable with, stop using that excuse, no one falls in love when they just see someone, you fall in lust. You fall in love with who you CHOOSE to get to know. How many times have we seen dudes say i'm attracted to blah blah blah type, but I could smash this chick, well you are essentially choosing on how you deal with a women and how far you go with them. Love is not magic.