Dude ain't shyt. No other way to slice it.
Reading this story (and a few of the replies) made me think of a long conversation I had with an elderly man several years ago:
Told me that men generally leave the women that supported them during the struggle...said she is live reminder of his past struggles/failures that he doesn't want a constant reminder of.
Told me not to bet on a man's potential, not to invest in his journey to success more than he is, and not to struggle with him.
I said that's why you should do everything from the heart.
He just looked at me for a few seconds, shook his head, patted my hand, then pointed at me.
Hmmm.
Reading this story (and a few of the replies) made me think of a long conversation I had with an elderly man several years ago:
Told me that men generally leave the women that supported them during the struggle...said she is live reminder of his past struggles/failures that he doesn't want a constant reminder of.
Told me not to bet on a man's potential, not to invest in his journey to success more than he is, and not to struggle with him.
I said that's why you should do everything from the heart.
He just looked at me for a few seconds, shook his head, patted my hand, then pointed at me.
Hmmm
So he is repeating history then.
I heard that too and saw it happen to "down" ass women. That's why I will never go all out for a man.Reading this story (and a few of the replies) made me think of a long conversation I had with an elderly man several years ago:
Told me that men generally leave the women that supported them during the struggle...said she is live reminder of his past struggles/failures that he doesn't want a constant reminder of.
Told me not to bet on a man's potential, not to invest in his journey to success more than he is, and not to struggle with him.
I said that's why you should do everything from the heart.
He just looked at me for a few seconds, shook his head, patted my hand, then pointed at me.
Hmmm
Honestly if you want to do things for your man from the heart, that's good, but you should also worry about your own success and your own ability to live well if/when the relationship ends. At the end of the day don't sacrifice everything you have going for you and stack all your chips on a man because you can't force someone to be loyal to you.
I know a girl who was dating/engaged to a guy all through med school and residency, and when he became a doctor she was like ''babe we can finally schedule the wedding right?'' He told her he had to ''rethink the relationship,'' ''didn't feel the same anymore,'' dumped her ass and got a better looking woman much younger than her. And that isn't even uncommon.
...I always had a feeling dude was kinda pathetic but I felt sorry for him being who he was and carrying a legendary namesake..now 
AlI was a piece of shyt?
He may seem pathetic but dude could have done much worse way back..Dude pulls this...while his father's passing is still fresh in the minds of everyone
