My advice to men who are ok dealing with a lady who has a child

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I've never had issues with dealing with women who have kids. As a matter of fact... I used to prefer it
Probably because i started fukking with them early in life :manny:
I was probably 22 when i started fukking these two chicks. They were both 25 with 2 kids each. Personally at the time i thought it was a good thing they had kids. See, when women have kids, their priority is their kids so they dont cling onto you every minute of every day. They dont need to hear from youevery day. Their time is sacred and they barely have tome to hang out so when they do get some free time away from their kids they do NOT WASTE YOUR TIME OR THEIRS. They just come through, get the dikk, have a good time, and keep it moving because with children, they dont know when they'll have another opportunity to have a baby sitter or family watch their kids for free again while they go get some clandestine dikk. None of that "i need to be in a relationship to fukk" shyt. They need dikk and they need it in a hurry before they have to go back home and play mommy again.
One thing you have to understand about women with children is that time away from their kids is very scarce and therefore valuable to them. If you use that to your advantage you'll be eating good off some of them sexy single moms
 
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Everyone's experience is different with this. I once dealt with a chick that had two baby daddies and one of them was cool but the other one was something else. He was one of those type of nikkaz that wouldn't let the chick move on and left a bad taste in my mouth when it comes to single moms. It can be unnecessary drama that a single guy doesn't need if the baby daddy is a fukk nikka.
 

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I've never had issues with dealing with women who have kids. As a matter of fact... I used to prefer it
Probably because i started fukking with them early in life :manny:
I was probably 22 when i started fukking these two chicks. They were both 25 with 2 kids each. Personally at the time i thought it was a good thing they had kids. See, when women have kids, their priority is their kids so they dont cling onto you every minute of every day. They dont need to hear from youevery day. Their time is sacred and they barely have tome to hang out so when they do get some free time away from their kids they do NOT WASTE YOUR TIME OR THEIRS. They just come through, have a good time, get the dikk and keep it moving because with children, they dont know when they'll have another opportunity to have a baby sitter or family watch their kids for free again while they go get some clandestine dikk.
One thing you have to understand about women with children is that time away from their kids is very scarce and therefore valuable to them. If you use that to your advantage you'll be eating good off some of them sexy single moms

Very good point about time.
 

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Everyone's experience is different with this. I once dealt with a chick that had two baby daddies and one of them was cool but the other one was something else. He was one of those type of nikkaz that wouldn't let the chick move on and left a bad taste in my mouth when it comes to single moms. It can be unnecessary drama that a single guy doesn't need if the baby daddy is a fukk nikka.

Thank you and repped. This is one of the points I’m talking about.

All the toxic situations go out the window when the father is a good dad and knows how to move on and handle his duties.
 

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Depending on you and her mindset it can lead to that.

And yes a great relationship with his or her father is probably less trouble for you.
If you plan on being involved with a female long term period with children, depending on the age, and the kids living situation, you will be playing some form of an authoritative figure aka step daddy, if you cohabitate with your woman and she has full custody of the child.

And whats wrong being an positive influence in a childs life when being involved with the mother, if she decides to have you around the child while you are dating?

No diss, you sounding kinda crass about having to be responsible aka a step daddy when you decide to date a woman with children, breh.

edit: :russell:
 

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I’m dating a single mother as we speak. But it’s not for everybody. It works for us becuz we both got divorced close to each other and have daughters the exact same age. Both of our exes are very active in their lives. Honestly if I wasn’t a parent I prolly couldn’t do it tho. It helps that she only has one child
 

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You can tell a lot about what kind of spouse a single mother would be by watching how effectively she raises her child.

I'd honestly be a little concerned if her son has a better bond with his dad than he does with her. I could see it if the 12 year old was a daughter.
 

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This started off a bit dumb. I listened up to about the 0:45 mark and gave up. This clown makes a lot of assumptions.
He assumes that you always make more than her and she therefore needs you to SAVE her. WRONG.
Some of the single mothers i've dated made more than me. Hell one of them has her own construction company and property management company and i wanted her to give me her IT contract fpr her company.
 

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Don't do it. I dated a chick who's baby daddy was in another state and that shyt still didn't work out. Single mothers really are the low-hanging fruit in the dating world (Tell my momma I said sorry. :lolbron:)

Didn't OP just say make sure the bond is strong?

Did you read the post?
 
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This started off a bit dumb. I listened up to about the 0:45 mark and gave up. This clown makes a lot of assumptions.
He assumes that you always make more than her and she therefore needs you to SAVE her. WRONG.
Some of the single mothers i've dated made more than me. Hell one of them has her own construction company and property management company and i wanted her to give me her IT contract fpr her company.



Well common sense say not ALL women but a good majority of them thoe ....listen befor you cut it off both videos make great points
 

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28 isn't old b. You could exclude single moms if you wanted to, you just don't see any issues with it. Probably never really did.
 
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