My biggest pet peeve with men

[MikelArteta]

Yup the common denominator is gasp you.

Perhaps you're not attracted to the man you should be with. Probably not tall enough.

If you keep attracting the same guys then....you need to switch it up.

 

[Sleepy Walker]

@Marty Kaan how tall are you?

 

[Flay Mayweather]

:thugdahell:

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Y'all wouldn't give the Elliot Rodgers of the world a chance and now you hating on dudes who brag about their conquest?

Is it oochie Wallie or is it one mic

He's right

 

[JLova]

What women should realize is a lot of the successful men you'd like to be with probably got rejected countless times by women when they were younger. So now that they're paid, hit the gym, got the teeth fixed, got their wardrobe tweaked and are attracting the same women that wouldn't give them a shot before...these dudes are trying to get their come-uppance so they don't give a fukk about you or your feelings since you never cared before.

It's a vicious cycle. Dudes aren't dumb. I don't blame em one bit.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Well I guess you better change your avatar to a picture of Vivica Fox after she goes through that breakup in Waiting to Exhale.

You mean Angela Bassett

 

[Fefe]

It's not really who you attract because you're going to attract all kinds of men. It's about noticing the red flags about a nikka early on. Sounds like you talk to these guys and then much later find out who they are. That's not how it should be. Your intuition must suck because I can usually tell after about the first month of knowing them if they're wack or not. I'm not saying be harder/more exclusive with who you give your time to. I'm just saying try to feel people out better. Also, diversify your circle, so you meet different kinds of dudes.

 

[Strapped]

Are the ones that claim to like you a lot and how much they think you're amazing, cute, ambitious etc etc and a load of other bullshyt to get ur attention and once u give them a chance, they fukk it up and wonder why u ignore their calls and texts!!

At least let me know how much of an awkward/@sshole/dipshyt u are the minute I meet u!

And no I am not talking abt men that try to fukk or anything! I am referring to men that brag about themselves, their exes, how many hoes they have and bytch about stupid shyt like a female all during the first damn date! :dafukc:

Why do I constantly attract these types is beyond me

I'm just going to take a break from men brehs.....

(I'm low key hurt/frustrated as fukk right now )

I'm different Marty

 

[mcdivit85]

Well, water always seeks its own level. So, if you're attracting liars, braggards and all kind of punk a## dudes.....then

I mean, have you considered that maybe you could be a punk a## hoe?

Are you qualified and bonafide to receive guidance from a real dude with real tangibles?

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

how long were these top notch dudes fukking with you?

Good question

Peace

 

[skeetsinternal]

Are the ones that claim to like you a lot and how much they think you're amazing, cute, ambitious etc etc and a load of other bullshyt to get ur attention and once u give them a chance, they fukk it up and wonder why u ignore their calls and texts!!

At least let me know how much of an awkward/@sshole/dipshyt u are the minute I meet u!

And no I am not talking abt men that try to fukk or anything! I am referring to men that brag about themselves, their exes, how many hoes they have and bytch about stupid shyt like a female all during the first damn date! :dafukc:

Why do I constantly attract these types is beyond me

I'm just going to take a break from men brehs.....

(I'm low key hurt/frustrated as fukk right now )

You just had all the clues right here and should have heeded the warnings. You fit the mold of all women where they all try to change a nikka despite being aware of dude's shortcomings and faults. You fukkked up by continuing to string this nikka along until you got fed up with his bullshyt. You just mad at yourself ma and not necessarily the a$$hole dude. I hope he got the p*ssy

 

[Guess Who]

Your problem here @Marty Kaan is that you act entitled.

So dude says all the right things to get you out on a date with him and to catch your interest, then you go out and still expect him to cater to you 100%. What role do you play in this? Why do you expect that dude has to do shyt to get you to like him and that you don't have any responsibility in acting in such a way as to make him like you on said date? If that's not the case, that's how you're coming across. You know what some dudes do when they're on a date with a woman they aren't interested in? They start treating them like a homie, as described in your original post.

What are you bringing to the table?

 

[Guess Who]

I suffer from general anxiety disorder, insecure, switch jobs more than I switch draws, I tend to second guess myself, am a quitter.

And you wonder why dudes act awkward around you? People with GAD, commitment issues, and deep insecurities tend to engender awkwardness in others or attract other people with problems. I know cuz, even as a dude, I've been there.

Sounds like you gotta work on yourself a bit before you get back in the game. I hope you do.

 

[iBrowse]

Are the ones that claim to like you a lot and how much they think you're amazing, cute, ambitious etc etc and a load of other bullshyt to get ur attention and once u give them a chance, they fukk it up and wonder why u ignore their calls and texts!!

At least let me know how much of an awkward/@sshole/dipshyt u are the minute I meet u!

And no I am not talking abt men that try to fukk or anything! I am referring to men that brag about themselves, their exes, how many hoes they have and bytch about stupid shyt like a female all during the first damn date! :dafukc:

Why do I constantly attract these types is beyond me

I'm just going to take a break from men brehs.....

(I'm low key hurt/frustrated as fukk right now )

No troll but investigate the bolded then come back here and tell us how you feel.

 

[iBrowse]

You just had all the clues right here and should have heeded the warnings. You fit the mold of all women where they all try to change a nikka despite being aware of dude's shortcomings and faults. You fukkked up by continuing to string this nikka along until you got fed up with his bullshyt. You just mad at yourself ma and not necessarily the @sshole dude. I hope he got the p*ssy

Forgot to make this point...if you were still cool with a dude who talks like this under the pretense of shyt getting better based on what you want him to be, you only need to be mad at yourself.