My coworker found out his boo cheated and committed that...

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I hate these stories. How low can a persons self esteem be that they commit suicide or drink themselves to death.

My homeboy is just like this :snoop: ive had to go pick him up from the river so many times with him balling his eyes out cos his girl threatened to leave. Saying his gonna end it all and jump. I had to pick him up at 4am once when she called me. :snoop:

This dude was FINE before he met her now he is a fuvking wreck.

Can someone with experience explain what causes some women to have this effect on men?! :dahell: @Malta

This dude has been getting chicks all our life and wasnt like this now he is a crying mess. Always a wreck if she threatens to leave.

I just don't get these dudes...just why??
 

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:wow: damn. RIP to him. i know that pain but u gotta be strong enough to turn that negative into a positive. some people just aren't.
 
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I'm fukking dead :laff:
 

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Pretty sad. Seeing all these negative stories about dudes going into depression or killing themselves over a woman can make you leery of getting emotionally involved with a woman. I sometimes feel as if I don't ever want to get serious with a chick emotionally or w/e but then I feel like I can't be happy because I'm constantly on guard. The worst part about these situations is even though you may get depressed or w/e, the chick usually won't care and will probably have detached emotionally from you a long time ago. I think some chicks need to let nikkas know in advance if they starting to feel detached or w/e and break it off sooner rather than later. They'll start to slowly drift away all the while putting up a charade whenever you ask them what's wrong with them and then after some more time they'll dump all the bad news on you or worse just cheat on you and you're left wondering :wtf:?
 

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I hate these stories. How low can a persons self esteem be that they commit suicide or drink themselves to death.

My homeboy is just like this :snoop: ive had to go pick him up from the river so many times with him balling his eyes out cos his girl threatened to leave. Saying his gonna end it all and jump. I had to pick him up at 4am once when she called me. :snoop:

This dude was FINE before he met her now he is a fuvking wreck.

Can someone with experience explain what causes some women to have this effect on men?! :dahell: @Malta

This dude has been getting chicks all our life and wasnt like this now he is a crying mess. Always a wreck if she threatens to leave.

I just don't get these dudes...just why??
Man that love thing aint no joke....it goes the other way around too....I lost a good friend who was murdered by another dude we went to school with. He was a corny dude but was always :demonic:so no one ever really messed with him....they dated for about a year but than she realized how strange he was and called it off but he just couldn't accept it and started stalking her than eventually strangled her to death when she was walking home one day....when you really love somebody its hard to accept certain things whether its cheating, the person leaving you, or the fact that the relationship is over. Men aren't built to be cheated on anyway. Some dudes have the ability to take it and become stronger and some can't and in this situation unfortunately he couldn't take his girl cheating....RIP:lawd:
 

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Man that love thing aint no joke....it goes the other way around too....I lost a good friend who was murdered by another dude we went to school with. He was a corny dude but was always :demonic:so no one ever really messed with him....they dated for about a year but than she realized how strange he was and called it off but he just couldn't accept it and started stalking her than eventually strangled her to death when she was walking home one day....when you really love somebody its hard to accept certain things whether its cheating, the person leaving you, or the fact that the relationship is over. Men aren't built to be cheated on anyway. Some dudes have the ability to take it and become stronger and some can't and in this situation unfortunately he couldn't take his girl cheating....RIP:lawd:

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RIP indeed
 

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It sucks these things happen. A friend of mines broke up with her son's father. Like 2 weeks later dude confronted after returning their son. He pulled out the gun, she ran. he chased her and ended up shooting a few times inside a mechanic shop that she ran into and killed her. Terrible situation.
 

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I just started this job a couple weeks ago and one of my coworkers just ended it..could have been an accident but i dont know.

He was looking mad crushed at work lately and everybody was trying to help since he was a genuinely good dude, but you could tell nothing we said mattered. he didnt seem like he was gonna murk himself tho

Apparently he died of alcohol poisoning. I know he had been going days without eating. Didnt know he was drinking tho. He didnt even seem like the type to drink..

All that shyt because his girl fukked his best friend....I love good women, but bytches truly aint shyt...of couse i'm not implying that its her fault he did that shyt.

Homie was the same age as me too :damn: I thought i had my down times, but shyt like that has never been an option.

It takes balls to murk yourself brehs..And all beefs aside i wouldnt want any of yall to go out like that or be in that position. Life sucks but live it out and enjoy the good :myman:
Betrayal is the worst feeling in the world next to physical pain but throwing away your life because someone doesnt care about you?

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:

 

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Emotions will have you make permanent choices to fix temporary circumstances.

This man is now dead all over a chick that wasn't even worth the effort of shedding one tear. Mind you, ANY chick that would sleep with her man's best friend is not worth a Monopoly dollar. She's not worth fighting over. She's not worth crying over. She's not worth drinking over. And she's damn sure not worth killing yourself over.

A woman like that is a scumbag and deserves no relationship to begin with. But even if you find yourself in one with said female and she ends up doing something like this, because she's a scumbag and that's what scumbags do, then you FIRE HER.....you don't bellyache and hurt yourself over her. Women like that don't deserve that level of emotional torment.

Dudes need to really scrutinize the women they get with in a real way. Stop thinking with their d#cks and stop choosing women based on middle school standards. Her being pretty is not enough. Her having a phat a## is not enough. Her being a freak is not enough. Her mind NEEDS to be all the way right.

And lastly, dudes need to scrutinize themselves. As is below, so will be above. If you are low quality or believe yourself to be low quality, then you date and accept low quality women and treatment. You are what you eat and if you consume punk a## b#tches, then that says something about your appetite for bullsh#t.

My condolences to that man and his family.

Peace
 
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