cleanface coney
WENT LEGIT
Yeah when the decision is taken out of their hands
If not which is more than likely the case, they don't give 2 shyts
guess it depends on the dude
my ex moved on
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guess it depends on the dude
mcdivit85
Superstar
....the game has just been unfolded.Take some time for yourself to sulk, slum around....even shed some tears if you have to....in private though. If you can, take a day or two off from work just to let the reality sink in. But do NOT beg the woman to come back and definitely don't send any emails, texts or leave voicemail that could be held against you down the line. We all need some down time after a relationship, so take that time to decompress.
But here's the beauty of life: The next one is always better than the last one
The next chick will always be a step up from the ex, but you have to get your mind right, so you can receive your blessing. You don't want to be the dude who turns down the dime because you're still mad over that nickel not wanting to be with you anymore. This is truly pathetic when seen in real action and against the laws of nature.
Dust yourself off, start hitting the gym, get some new clothes, get a new look and get back out in the streets. Start meeting women, and then a magical thing will happen...you will start to think less and less about the ex because new women are giving you play. That's how it works...new women make old women disappear in your mind.
Oh, and the trillest part about this is your chick will probably start sniffing around once she sees you moving on....women seem to sense when a dude has other options and then that "hey how r u" starts hitting your phone. Happens every time
....the power of options is esoteric.Peace
Take some time for yourself to sulk, slum around....even shed some tears if you have to....in private though. If you can, take a day or two off from work just to let the reality sink in. But do NOT beg the woman to come back and definitely don't send any emails, texts or leave voicemail that could be held against you down the line. We all need some down time after a relationship, so take that time to decompress.
But here's the beauty of life: The next one is always better than the last one
The next chick will always be a step up from the ex, but you have to get your mind right, so you can receive your blessing. You don't want to be the dude who turns down the dime because you're still mad over that nickel not wanting to be with you anymore. This is truly pathetic when seen in real action and against the laws of nature.
Dust yourself off, start hitting the gym, get some new clothes, get a new look and get back out in the streets. Start meeting women, and then a magical thing will happen...you will start to think less and less about the ex because new women are giving you play. That's how it works...new women make old women disappear in your mind.
Oh, and the trillest part about this is your chick will probably start sniffing around once she sees you moving on....women seem to sense when a dude has other options and then that "hey how r u" starts hitting your phone. Happens every time
Peace
this is true
as a man the best thign you can do is cut all contact, not as a way to make her miss you etc., but because your just going to end up being in a hurt of pain.
Refreshing that fb page all the time, that instagram seeing her out out at a club with a random nugga hugging her up etc., then one day you will click and it will be in a relationship with someone new and your heart will drop to your legs, by deleting her out of your life now, you won't know anything you can think shes at home crying her eyes out, that shes in as much pain as you because you don't know.
especially as a man one of the main things in attracting a woman is confidence when you have been dumped/replaced / your ex moved on you have none, so its hard to attract a new woman, for your ex its so easy, sign up at a dating site and in half hour 100 suitors, can date hop into a new relationship right away and as long as she looks good guys dont care if she's hurting or in pain
i always say after breakups women win in the short term but not the long term especially if you are a great guy, work on yourself be patient, just dont hop into a new relationship as some coping mechanism be strong padawan
Refreshing that fb page all the time, that instagram seeing her out out at a club with a random nugga hugging her up etc., then one day you will click and it will be in a relationship with someone new and your heart will drop to your legs, by deleting her out of your life now, you won't know anything you can think shes at home crying her eyes out, that shes in as much pain as you because you don't know.
especially as a man one of the main things in attracting a woman is confidence when you have been dumped/replaced / your ex moved on you have none, so its hard to attract a new woman, for your ex its so easy, sign up at a dating site and in half hour 100 suitors, can date hop into a new relationship right away and as long as she looks good guys dont care if she's hurting or in pain
i always say after breakups women win in the short term but not the long term especially if you are a great guy, work on yourself be patient, just dont hop into a new relationship as some coping mechanism be strong padawan
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
someone better ALWAYS comes along. now you are free to do something about it....
The fukking truth!!!
Just make sure you're not still afflicted by oneitis when the next one strolls by. I have missed out on MANY experiences cause I didn't see what was right in front of me.
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
a lot of times it's not even the girl you miss (and not even the p*ssy either). it's just the idea that you had her. Almost like you miss the feeling of arrogance you had for the relationship. In other words you miss being able to take her for granted. You would have actually increased your odds of keeping her if you would have kept that attitude
Dropping GEMS. Jesus...
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Cat piss martini
Veteran
if your dikk bruised cervix she'll be back.
make me feel better about my ex.
and its true what others are saying about dont be bitter/angry you'll miss someone good. I'm proof of that, after a relationship ended awhile ago with the second girl I ever loved, like a few months later i was messing with this girl and she treated the best anyone has ever treated me in my life, bought me things, drove hours in the snow to come see me when I was sick, cooked for me, treated me with respect, but i was a bitter angry nucca who didn't care. final straw was when she went away on vacation and came back and was so sick had to be in the hospital for two weeks and i didn't even care :barney:
that was like 4 years ago and i still havent met a chick half as good since.
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
and its true what others are saying about dont be bitter/angry you'll miss someone good. I'm proof of that, after a relationship ended awhile ago with the second girl I ever loved, like a few months later i was messing with this girl and she treated the best anyone has ever treated me in my life, bought me things, drove hours in the snow to come see me when I was sick, cooked for me, treated me with respect, but i was a bitter angry nucca who didn't care. final straw was when she went away on vacation and came back and was so sick had to be in the hospital for two weeks and i didn't even care :barney:
that was like 4 years ago and i still havent met a chick half as good since.
Breh was she ugly or something?
Born2BKing
Veteran
Damn you gonna make this nikka off himself.
posted this in quick gems but f it, may help you
Almost every single woman I've been with has tried to come back at some point. Some I dumped, the others dumped me. Some of them have made multiple attempts of reuniting over the years. sometimes you just have to laugh.
One that stands out was my "second love" who dumped me. She was very hot
, great body, great in bed, but she had alot of emotional issues (broken home/was molested). She was early twenties when we first dated and had already been in so many relationships red flag i know.
Any ways I had a mutual friend but never let her know that I did, and after she dumped me, tabs on her were kept just for entertainment value. She had no clue. I'd monitor her facebook and be kept up to date her latest lovers. I'd watch all of her relationships start out, see teh honeymoon period, the new pictures, see the infatuation grow, hit their peak, and then see the abrupt decay exactly like ours did. It usually played out in about 3-4months ( i dated her for 9 months, but after 3 it was hell). After each relationship ended, she would be single for about a month and find a new victim and start all over again. It was predictable to a tee.
Every time she would break up with whatever guy she was with I would start to get emails/texts wondering how i was doing
. The first time I took the bait and we messed around for a little bit. The 3rd, 4th, and 5th time she tried to get back together I had finally smartened up. The more I rejected her, the harder she tried.
She was one of these types who always lived for the thrill of a new relationship and was constantly seeking self-validation to keep her fragile ego intact. She is now much older and allthough she is still hot, and a social media whore she is realizing that the fun days are drying up.
I checked the other day yeah i shouldnt have and saw her become infatuated with this new guy, funny she only messed and dated with black men before but now she's with some spanish dude for the first time ever. The new pictures are up the heart shaped messages, the whole same song and dance, t just like all the others.
Her mother went thru life much like she has. Imagine that. Now her mother lives a lonely life with her partner, the pervert partner who molested her daughter but she's to scared to leave. Her mother often mentions how she made some bad choices with men and has lived a life full of regrets. Her mom in pictures i have seen looked as well in her youth. sins of the mother
I hope any of you members or lukers that reead this can learn something about these types of women. This women was one of the hottest girl I had ever been with and I was pretty wrapped up in her. The good thing about her is I finally reached a point that an attractive girl is no more special to me than and ugly one. It gives you a lot of power in all your relationships when you truly Stop letting them get away with crap just because they are hot and you want to make them happy. I thank that selfish manipulating whore for teaching me that.
tldr: :screw exes, most are garbage, be thankful you dont have to deal with thier issues and problems anymore
Almost every single woman I've been with has tried to come back at some point. Some I dumped, the others dumped me. Some of them have made multiple attempts of reuniting over the years. sometimes you just have to laugh.
One that stands out was my "second love" who dumped me. She was very hot
, great body, great in bed, but she had alot of emotional issues (broken home/was molested). She was early twenties when we first dated and had already been in so many relationships red flag i know.Any ways I had a mutual friend but never let her know that I did, and after she dumped me, tabs on her were kept just for entertainment value. She had no clue. I'd monitor her facebook and be kept up to date her latest lovers. I'd watch all of her relationships start out, see teh honeymoon period, the new pictures, see the infatuation grow, hit their peak, and then see the abrupt decay exactly like ours did. It usually played out in about 3-4months ( i dated her for 9 months, but after 3 it was hell). After each relationship ended, she would be single for about a month and find a new victim and start all over again. It was predictable to a tee.
Every time she would break up with whatever guy she was with I would start to get emails/texts wondering how i was doing
. The first time I took the bait and we messed around for a little bit. The 3rd, 4th, and 5th time she tried to get back together I had finally smartened up. The more I rejected her, the harder she tried.She was one of these types who always lived for the thrill of a new relationship and was constantly seeking self-validation to keep her fragile ego intact. She is now much older and allthough she is still hot, and a social media whore she is realizing that the fun days are drying up.
I checked the other day yeah i shouldnt have and saw her become infatuated with this new guy, funny she only messed and dated with black men before but now she's with some spanish dude for the first time ever
. The new pictures are up the heart shaped messages, the whole same song and dance, t just like all the others.Her mother went thru life much like she has. Imagine that. Now her mother lives a lonely life with her partner, the pervert partner who molested her daughter but she's to scared to leave. Her mother often mentions how she made some bad choices with men and has lived a life full of regrets. Her mom in pictures i have seen looked
as well in her youth. sins of the motherI hope any of you members or lukers that reead this can learn something about these types of women. This women was one of the hottest girl I had ever been with and I was pretty wrapped up in her. The good thing about her is I finally reached a point that an attractive girl is no more special to me than and ugly one. It gives you a lot of power in all your relationships when you truly Stop letting them get away with crap just because they are hot and you want to make them happy. I thank that selfish manipulating whore for teaching me that.
tldr: :screw exes, most are garbage, be thankful you dont have to deal with thier issues and problems anymore
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
go get some cooch the very next day.
it will help,.....
it is what I used to do when I actually met females worthy of a committal, and it ended.
you are still gonna have a crash and burn, though.
especially when socially the next chick does stack up to your ex.
yet, fukk'n somebody else the next day completely helps.
art barr