my ex moved on

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it has :leon:

was dating a girl and then i could tell she was getting distant, even brought it up to her, of course got a kiss and I love you just been "busy". Usually she always had a picture of me and her by her bedside I noticed it wasn't there any more didn't say anything, then slowly got even more distant, phone calls and text messages got fewer, then finally got the I just don't like the way this relationship is going, its me not you :heh:

key is to pick up the signs

The key is to keep it fresh. I love spaghetti, mainly the noodles and the sauce. But I mix that shyt up, sometimes i'll add italian sausage, or beef, maybe proscuitto- sometimes a little of all three, maybe with mushrooms or not, fried peppers, maybe fresh bell peppers orange, yellow or green.

Its like people who like one type of ice cream, maybe put chocolate syrup, or strawberry syrup, maybe nuts, maybe almonds or pecans, add milk...

The same shyt all the time is boring...of course people are going to lose interest and fade away. You're 100% right, the key is to pick up the signs. The signs dont mean the inevitable. The signs are just that, signs. Its like if your roof is creaking, and you look at your house from the street and shingles are missing, and when it rains water drips to the floor. Doesnt mean throw your house in the bushes or that the house is done. Means fix the fukking roof or else....

Most people are seeing the signs, calls and texts becoming less frequent, sex less frequent, etc but they arent fixing the roof. Then they crying "she left me :wow:" Im not going to tell people how to do it, for the most part certain people dont belong together anyway. The way to fix it is not with words "Im gonna do better, or be better" or pleading, its not with gifts or even with actions....

My old boss used to say "I want to quit my job atleast 6 times a year" He worked there for 35 years. Relationships are the same theres going to be periods of doubt where you and her both think "I dont think I want to be with her anymore" if you dont have those periods A. You havent been together long enough or B. Your lying to yourself or C. (its better that it never comes to C) Your partner is lying to you!

I have a spaghetti dinner at least once or twice a month and I look forward to it because its a different dinner everytime. Sometimes im lazy and will throw some sauce on noodles and eat, but if thats all i did, i might have spaghetti once whenever and i wouldnt look forward to it.

You can learn to see the signs. The signs are always going to be there. Its like a kid riding in the car, they see the signs. They see Stop and Yield, but do they know what to do when they see those signs? (Its more than just stopping, look both ways, right of way etc.) You have to know what you want or need to do when you see the signs to get the outcome that you want. Either to A. Continue the relationship or B. Cancel or get Cancelled
 
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lol I remember when a chick made this same thread and got insulted and shytted on. I'm honestly not surprised the o/p didn't get the same treatment, a lot of you guys have a strong disliking for women any chance to shyt on women, y'all take it. :deadrose:

It's just hilarious.

Anyways, oh well o/p, you obviously didn't want her. Let her be happy.
 

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lol I remember when a chick made this same thread and got insulted and shytted on. I'm honestly not surprised the o/p didn't get the same treatment, a lot of you guys have a strong disliking for women any chance to shyt on women, y'all take it. :deadrose:

It's just hilarious.

Anyways, oh well o/p, you obviously didn't want her. Let her be happy.

Eh you ever heard the phrase "there's nothing new in the world?" well there's nothing new on the Coli.

Post on the wrong day, wrong time, wolves just don't or just won't care about what a person on the Coli is goin through :wow:
 

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lol I remember when a chick made this same thread and got insulted and shytted on. I'm honestly not surprised the o/p didn't get the same treatment, a lot of you guys have a strong disliking for women any chance to shyt on women, y'all take it. :deadrose:

It's just hilarious.

Anyways, oh well o/p, you obviously didn't want her. Let her be happy.

Women deserve to be shyt on.
 
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Always another nikka in the picture :wow:

They be movin on fast cause of that fact.

Makes me think that women are only able to move on fast because they have another guy already taking your place.

A woman always has a "friend" on standby.

You don't know about him because he's not "important" and he's like family.

Unless he's gay...he's thinking about fukking.

Never forget that.
 
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