My Ex's Best Friend Keeps Hitting On Me...

[The Devil's Advocate]

Hey, it's your favorite Bruhette again.



I need your advice about something....

I used to mess with this guy from my hood, and his friend always used to stare at me. Like this...

He even flirted with me occasionally.


Me and his friend don't mess around anymore, so now he's coming on to me really strong.



He's In my DM on Instagram.

He's Always try's to buy me drinks at the hood bar.

He even made a weird comment to me about having "shower sex", which I found really peculiar, because I had shower sex often with his friend! So I know he told him something!

He sees me and says stuff like...

"You know I want you baby..."

I always laugh him off, but he was really aggressive at the corner store this weekend.

I said....
"what about your friend?"

He said....
"What about him? Yall don't mess around no more, and he knew I always liked you anyways..."






I don't feel comfortable around him, and even though he's cute and has money, I don't trust him!








I think he's up to something.

What YALL think?

women CAN'T be this stupid

i mean i know we all warn you about your "brother", friend, random nikka trying to fukk... and yall never get it till he whips his dikk out



but come the fukk on... nikka trying to get that p*ssy... fukk you mean you THINK he's up to something

 

[Stay Seeking]

Your ex is sharing his old p*ssy with the fam

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Werd

It's the rise that should be celebrated no matter where its at not the starting point itself.

Yet she obviously wants to bring the hood with her.

I CAN'T STAND c00nS LIKE YOU!
What exactly does it mean to "make it out the hood"?


You preaching some of that c00n shyt that implys black people aren't successful until they get rich, and separate themselves from other black people.
When did I say I wanted to bring the hood with me?
What is wrong with the fact that I am not ashamed of where I come from, and not "too good" to go back patronize a black establishment from MY community?
Do Italians feel like that about the Italian neighborhoods they grew up in?
What about Jews? Do they think it's something wrong with their community, and always supporting and uplifting it?

I learned a lot from where I grew up and went to school at, and I will never be ashamed of it. I met my best friends who are also like my family to me there. Some are as successful as me, and some aren't. So?

To me, being "successful" does not mean making money, getting educated, and abandoning my community!
It does not mean being ashamed of what I come from!
I went to college, and I still can hang out with people in the neighborhood bar OWNED by black ppl.

It's good that I go back, and support their establishment!

To you, I am stupid cause I don't GLORIFY running away, and spend all my money with white people in the sticks?
To you, I am ignorant because I don't only celebrate my escape from MY COMMUNITY, but value the place I come from?


Every part of who you are should be celebrated! PERIOD!


You are TRYING to sound smart, but the shyt you talking is straight c00nery, and that's why our communities are owned by whites and don't have shyt.
Idiots like YOU don't have any pride in it or try to help save it.

You come up, run, and tell everyone else to do the same.

Meanwhile, you will probably get mad when white ppl appropriate black culture, but won't claim it at the same time because you scared of "looking hood".


PHUCK OUTTA HERE!

 

[Blackout]

I CAN'T STAND c00nS LIKE YOU!
What exactly does it mean to "make it out the hood"?


You preaching some of that c00n shyt that implys black people aren't successful until they get rich, and separate themselves from other black people.
When did I say I wanted to bring the hood with me?
What is wrong with the fact that I am not ashamed of where I come from, and not "too good" to go back patronize a black establishment from MY community?
Do Italians feel like that about the Italian neighborhoods they grew up in?
What about Jews? Do they think it's something wrong with their community, and always supporting and uplifting it?

I learned a lot from where I grew up and went to school at, and I will never be ashamed of it. I met my best friends who are also like my family to me there. Some are as successful as me, and some aren't. So?

To me, being "successful" does not mean making money, getting educated, and abandoning my community!
It does not mean being ashamed of what I come from!
I went to college, and I still can hang out with people in the neighborhood bar OWNED by black ppl.

It's good that I go back, and support their establishment!

To you, I am stupid cause I don't GLORIFY running away, and spend all my money with white people in the sticks?
To you, I am ignorant because I don't only celebrate my escape from MY COMMUNITY, but value the place I come from?


Every part of who you are should be celebrated! PERIOD!


You are TRYING to sound smart, but the shyt you talking is straight c00nery, and that's why our communities are owned by whites and don't have shyt.
Idiots like YOU don't have any pride in it or try to help save it.

You come up, run, and tell everyone else to do the same.

Meanwhile, you will probably get mad when white ppl appropriate black culture, but won't claim it at the same time because you scared of "looking hood".


PHUCK OUTTA HERE!

Wrong.

I'm for changing the hood to a nice black area.

People like you got these kids growing up poor and thinking that that's how it's supposed to be. Like its so cool to live in poor areas. This isn't how its supposed to be.

Many other communities uplifted their areas and turned their hood into Jewish areas and Chinatowns

You so lost its sad.

Let the hood mentality go and embrace progress miss.

 

[kevm3]

what are you looking for us to tell you? You're possibly getting shared with the crew if you mess with his boy.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Wrong.

I'm for changing the hood to a nice black areas.

People like you got these kids growing up poor and thinking that that's how it's supposed to be. Like its so cool to live in poor areas. This isn't how its supposed to be.

Many other communities uplifted their areas and turned their hood into Jewish areas and Chinatowns

You so lost its sad.

Let the hood mentality go and embrace progress miss.

How do you know what I embrace? Define progress?

I am educated, hard working and have my own.

What "hood mentality" do I need to let go of?
You can embrace progress without encouraging children to hate what they come from. If you do that then ultimately they will hate themself! I never felt like being from the hood made me inferior to any non black person in a college class with me. If anything, it made me feel superior because I knew a different kind of struggle. Its why I am good at selling things to people at my job. It's a big part of who I am, and I will never "run" from it or be ashamed. I embrace the good about it, and distance myself from the bad. That's what children should be taught.

When did I say it was okay to be poor?
When did I say kids should want to grow up that way?

I simply said I am not ashamed of where I come from. I'm not!

I am from a working class neighborhood on the east side of Cleveland, and my mother OWNED the house we lived in.

You are insecure, and picking fights just to sound smart. You sound silly.


Imma Hood Chick, Deal!

 

[Ashley Banks]

This has happened with every guy I've dated.

men need to choose better friends.

 

[Blackout]

How do you know what I embrace? Define progress?

I am educated, hard working and have my own.

What "hood mentality" do I need to let go of?
You can embrace progress without encouraging children to hate what they come from. If you do that then ultimately they will hate themself! I never felt like being from the hood made me inferior to any non black person in a college class with me. If anything, it made me feel superior because I knew a different kind of struggle. Its why I am good at selling things to people at my job. It's a big part of who I am, and I will never "run" from it or be ashamed. I embrace the good about it, and distance myself from the bad. That's what children should be taught.

When did I say it was okay to be poor?
When did I say kids should want to grow up that way?

I simply said I am not ashamed of where I come from. I'm not!

I am from a working class neighborhood on the east side of Cleveland, and my mother OWNED the house we lived in.

You are insecure, and picking fights just to sound smart. You sound silly.


Imma Hood Chick, Deal!

Miss kids hating being poor is a good thing Lol.

All the hood is about is poor conditions and people trying to survive.

Its one thing to remember where you came from but to hold onto the hood and define yourself as hood is silly.

Rarely do I see other races do this crap.

But hey keep on doing you and wonder why other races pass our ass all of the time

While you are doing that ill be working on turning our hoods into neighborhoods.

 

[Mwrex]

This has happened with every guy I've dated.

men need to choose better friends.

Would your choice in men be equal to their choice in friends?

What if their choice in females they get in relationships with mirror how they choose friends?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Would your choice in men be equal to their choice in friends?

What if their choice in females they get in relationships with mirror how they choose friends?

shut up

 

[Sk3ptical]

this cac troll aint ban yet

 

[Kitsch]

 

[Big Daddy]

He's In my DM on Instagram.

What YALL think?

Screenshot the DM or

 

[FemiO]

Older menz.


Smart. Caring.

Honestly, one that spends romantic time with me like my current boyfriend does. He doesn't have all the money in the world, but we are very close.


RJ friend is the kids guy who spends money, not time.

Make sense?

wait a second, you got a boyfriend and you're simultaneously letting another nikka flirt with you, while you flirt back and get drinks out of him?

 

[Scott Larock]

NO.


But I do love it when he compliments me & buys me drinks, so I never have to spend money at the bar.

But why you in the hood bar? You ain't past that hood shyt?