It isn’t extreme, it happens ALL the time. You’re idealizing cheating thinking that people don’t get side pieces pregnant and bring home diseases to their wives. Like the side chicks don’t catch feelings and show up on doorsteps or even try to kill the wives.
It’s not a Disney fantasy to not want to be treated like shyt. Whats funny is YOU don’t want to be cheated on but when women don’t it’s just a fantasy.
Plenty of men respectfully cheat
No babies and diseases are part of the rules
Your woman shouldn’t even notice
Happens plenty of times when men are honest about their situations
Whether it’s a sex worker or regular women
Cheating with another cheater or stripper is usually the best scenario