my girl cheated on me a year and a half ago...and it still fukks with me

[Pack2]

Your relationship is already over.....yall just going through the motions.

The longer you stay in this unhappy relationship, the harder it is going to be to end it.

Have the conversation and let her know the deal. Tell her the trust is gone and you are no longer happy and that one of yall should move out or look for another place.

Do not waste any more of your time...get out while you can.....dont make matters more complicated by fukkin her raw one night and getting her pregnant...then you really fukked up.

 

[Ohnoits]

its like i cant get the shyt off of my mind,she completly changed but i cant even look at her the same. it was with a dude she used to mess with...we been together almost 2 years and its crazy its like that shyt caused my whole attitude to change..i was a nice guy but now that phase of me is now gone. its like i emotionally invested sooo much in her its like i cant let go. the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive





i forgave her ...but still my soul stills feel ethered from that shyt.. i think she knows it too. just last night she was telling me how she still thinks about the shyt and how she wished it never happen...but im like a ex aint gon just hit u up to smoke and drink.. and not expect anything to happen. to be honest..im really not even i love with her no more. we live togetha..no kids . its like i want sum karma...but me cheating on her would only make things worse

I just now read this.

Don't go down that road friend.

http://www.the-coli.com/tsc/40070-ls-matt-hardy%AE.html#.UP9H6SfC2U0

Spoiler

 

[True Blue Moon]

do the constant staring at the phone,constant thoughts..good memories and bad memories last long,im the type of dude that when someone has wronged me i will marinate on the action for soooo long that it damn near becomes a second nature to me...in other words ...not think soooo much about her

It sounds like some corny shyt but time heals everything breh. A girl I thought I was supposed to marry broke up with me one time for like a week and we got back together. The second time she broke up with me a year or so later, I cried but then was like what the fukk am I crying for Never looked back. Felt sorry for myself for ONE day and then moved on. The only way I was able to move on is to cut her off completely so that I don't play myself.

If a chick lets you know you ain't shyt to her then you're not losing anything by moving on. You'll never get over it if you stay with her though. This is the male equivalent of a chick staying with a dude that beats her ass.

"B-b-but I looooove him "

 

[Anothergirl]

I don't know why people stay with cheaters. The trust between the pair is NEVER gonna be the same; cut your losses from jump and save yourself additional heartache.

pretty much.