my girl cheated on me a year and a half ago...and it still fukks with me

[Seea]

So... she's changed but because cheating is a dealbreaker you don't wanna be with her anymore... yet you obsess over the imagery of her cheating.

You gotta push through this. Start making the moves toward leaving. And stop going over the incident in your head. You have to move on mentally. Let go of it.

 

[iPod Raheem 2.0]

TS, when you get in bed with her at night, do you think about how that dude was blowing her back out and prolly smacking her ass. Her screaming for him to go harder and harder and telling him she is about to cum all over his dikk. How she licked his ball sack and slobbed the shaft while he demanded that she deep throat it, which I'm sure she agreed to do. How he prolly busted on her face and made her leave right after he was done so she could hug and kiss up on you.

I hope this thought helps you to leave her TODAY. Get the hell out of there bro. Men aren't supposed to take a woman back after she has stepped out and let another dude marinate her sugar walls in love batter.

all the inspiration he should need

 

[Dada]

she did change...she was sooooo childish in the beginning of our relationship but after that incident occured she did a turnaround..and i see it but im like its tooooooo fukn late

My mistake, I phrased it ambiguously I had remembered you saying that. I should written "..She changed AND you still coudn't get over it for whatever reason but really wanted to"...because you definitely seemed over it by your response. It sucks but if yall break up someone else will benefit from her having matured...we have to be that stepping stone sometimes.

Then again, you now have what you wanted in the beginning..you might want to take that blue pill and get some counseling. Letting the next one benefit from your emotional pain.

 

[KingHelga]

this is why i'd never admit to cheating when i want to stay with the guy. he could have me on tape and "it wasn't me."

 

[DigitalDopeman]

as impossible as it may seem bruh, u gon have to eventually make the decision to sever all ties. both of yall just wastin time waiting for things to crash which is inevitable. yall sittin round pretendin with each other like everything is ok like yall still wanna be together, when both of yall know its all fukked up now.each day that pass u gonna feel more and more like a weak chump for allowin yourself to tolerate that.u gonna be the awkward guy in the club when u go out bcse that shxt will be on ya mind everytime u try to have a good time, that thought gonna pop in ya head and fck ya mood all up.u gotta man up and be REAL WIT YASELF and just end it before she ends up embarassing you even worse. Im speakin from experience homie, the shxt aint easy by a long shot but its NECESSARY.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

TS, when you get in bed with her at night, do you think about how that dude was blowing her back out and prolly smacking her ass. Her screaming for him to go harder and harder and telling him she is about to cum all over his dikk. How she licked his ball sack and slobbed the shaft while he demanded that she deep throat it, which I'm sure she agreed to do. How he prolly busted on her face and made her leave right after he was done so she could hug and kiss up on you.

I hope this thought helps you to leave her TODAY. Get the hell out of there bro. Men aren't supposed to take a woman back after she has stepped out and let another dude marinate her sugar walls in love batter.

i honestly wish u didnt type that...my mood is all fukked up

 

[BantuKnotz99]

as impossible as it may seem bruh, u gon have to eventually make the decision to sever all ties. both of yall just wastin time waiting for things to crash which is inevitable. yall sittin round pretendin with each other like everything is ok like yall still wanna be together, when both of yall know its all fukked up now.each day that pass u gonna feel more and more like a weak chump for allowin yourself to tolerate that.u gonna be the awkward guy in the club when u go out bcse that shxt will be on ya mind everytime u try to have a good time, that thought gonna pop in ya head and fck ya mood all up.u gotta man up and be REAL WIT YASELF and just end it before she ends up embarassing you even worse. Im speakin from experience homie, the shxt aint easy by a long shot but its NECESSARY.

homie its like a everyday thing...its wild how she said she would never cheat on me. i kno its fukked up but when i asked her in detail what happen she said ..all she wanted to do was smoke n drink...they ended up smoking and drinking in his bedroom..she said they started making out and old feelings came back...this ether right here is what is forever etched in my mind...i asked her how long was they fukkn...she said "not long"...

 

[Kings County]

the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive

:cantsave: drop that bytch early go get u some nice tight new p*ssy that wont cheat

 

[DigitalDopeman]

homie its like a everyday thing...its wild how she said she would never cheat on me. i kno its fukked up but when i asked her in detail what happen she said ..all she wanted to do was smoke n drink...they ended up smoking and drinking in his bedroom..she said they started making out and old feelings came back...this ether right here is what is forever etched in my mind...i asked her how long was they fukkn...she said "not long"...

regardless if she said all she planned on doin was "smokin and drinkin"....she shldnt have even entertained that offer to smoke n drink wit the nicca....she knew what that was gonna lead too,s he already had it laid out in her head.every real nicca has got cheated on whether he knew it or not.u cant let that overcome ya thoughts and show the world that u weak over a woman when they look into ya eyes.my ex bish was a slut bruh....she fukked my best friend on valentines day my nicca.i aint think i wld ever get over that shyt...u just gotta wake up and LIVE YA LIFE bro..go fck sme new pXssy and take it day by day.why be miserable with that cheatin ass bihh when you could be miserable by ya d@mnself and in due time start bein happy.by stayin with her u just prolongin ya road to recovery and happiness. U got two choices 1. keep stayin with her and feeling shameful when you already know that u NEED to call it quits and end the misery 2. GO HEAD AND CALL IT QUITS. the longer u wait the longer its gon take to get back to bein YASELF and who knows its prolly a bad bihh choosin up on you right now but you too BLIND too see it cause ya vision is blurred by the slut u wit now.

Once Niccas learn that WE dont own that p*ssy and a bihh is free to do whatever she want wit it regardless if she say she love you, it will be easier to handle a scenario when a bish cheats.NEVER make a bish ya EVERYTHING, cause once its gone u gon be crumbled, be happy with a woman,just dont let her be EVERYTHING to ya homie.

 

[Stuntone]

OP, are you ugly?


Weren't you in that other thread? Isnt this you?

Maybe you should stay with her

 

[True Blue Moon]

i honestly wish u didnt type that...my mood is all fukked up

It's medicine bruh. It's painful but necessary. If you thought that thought every time you went to kiss her, would you still be with her? And I'm not clowning you, but God gave us balls for a reason. A man shouldn't be getting this trapped in a spell over someone that cuckholded him with not just some random dude, but a random dude she has (fukk "had") feelings for. And to top it all off, after catching a concussion and walking back to you with a limp from sucking and fukking this dude so hard, you took your boobie bear back with open arms like a sucker. And what do you get in reward for that? A chick who lets herself go to the point you're not even attracted to her anymore.

This is your LIFE nikka. You're wasting precious time stuck to a chick that let another nikka hit raw (it's an ex and "feelings" came back. You REALLY think they spent time fumbling around for condoms?). You love her and it's gonna hurt breh, but it's flat out unintelligent to stay with her just for the sake of comfort. Matter of fact, if I was your boy and I fukked this girl, you'd probably stop being friends with me but stay with her, wouldn't you? That shows she has you in a spell on some straight p*ssy boy sucker shyt.

She got your mind dog. You're better than this. Most of us have been there before, so I say this with love...

Stop being a bytch and get your life back

 

[BantuKnotz99]

It's medicine bruh. It's painful but necessary. If you thought that thought every time you went to kiss her, would you still be with her? And I'm not clowning you, but God gave us balls for a reason. A man shouldn't be getting this trapped in a spell over someone that cuckholded him with not just some random dude, but a random dude she has (fukk "had") feelings for. And to top it all off, after catching a concussion and walking back to you with a limp from sucking and fukking this dude so hard, you took your boobie bear back with open arms like a sucker. And what do you get in reward for that? A chick who lets herself go to the point you're not even attracted to her anymore.

This is your LIFE nikka. You're wasting precious time stuck to a chick that let another nikka hit raw (it's an ex and "feelings" came back. You REALLY think they spent time fumbling around for condoms?). You love her and it's gonna hurt breh, but it's flat out unintelligent to stay with her just for the sake of comfort. Matter of fact, if I was your boy and I fukked this girl, you'd probably stop being friends with me but stay with her, wouldn't you? That shows she has you in a spell on some straight p*ssy boy sucker shyt.

She got your mind dog. You're better than this. Most of us have been there before, so I say this with love...

Stop being a bytch and get your life back

thank u breh,shyt cray mane,its like she does have control over me...thanks for not pacifying the situation.. is it wrong that i think about physically hurting her at times

 

[True Blue Moon]

thank u breh,shyt cray mane,its like she does have control over me...thanks for not pacifying the situation.. is it wrong that i think about physically hurting her at times

I don't wanna lie to you breh because your life will be so much better after you clear this hurdle.

And no, that's not wrong. In fact, you should be embracing that side of your emotions more than the softer ones because it's more natural. Chick committed treason. You should be angry.

BUT, as much as you want to, don't choke her or do any kinda physical harm to her. Simply cut her out of your life with no emotion involved, as if it were a business decision. This will hurt her more than anything. Never forget this breh, you can never match the emotions of a woman. They feed off emotion and will always be able to one up you in that regard. That means if you don't give her any emotions, she has nothing to feed off.

Cut her off with no emotion and that shyt will fukk with her head for a looong time, because you didn't give her anything that she could spin into you being the a$$hole. She'll have to eat that L knowing that she was the scandalous bytch who fukked up, and even in the midst of that you were and are a better person than her because you tossed her aside like trash instead of letting her affect you to the point that you had to stoop to her level.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

I don't wanna lie to you breh because your life will be so much better after you clear this hurdle.

And no, that's not wrong. In fact, you should be embracing that side of your emotions more than the softer ones because it's more natural. Chick committed treason. You should be angry.

BUT, as much as you want to, don't choke her or do any kinda physical harm to her. Simply cut her out of your life with no emotion involved, as if it were a business decision. This will hurt her more than anything. Never forget this breh, you can never match the emotions of a woman. They feed off emotion and will always be able to one up you in that regard. That means if you don't give her any emotions, she has nothing to feed off.

Cut her off with no emotion and that shyt will fukk with her head for a looong time, because you didn't give her anything that she could spin into you being the a$$hole. She'll have to eat that L knowing that she was the scandalous bytch who fukked up, and even in the midst of that you were and are a better person than her because you tossed her aside like trash instead of letting her affect you to the point that you had to stoop to her level.

do the constant staring at the phone,constant thoughts..good memories and bad memories last long,im the type of dude that when someone has wronged me i will marinate on the action for soooo long that it damn near becomes a second nature to me...in other words ...not think soooo much about her

 

[god shamgod]

T/s is in the fetal position suckin his thumb right now with tears welling up expeditiously

Get your dignity in tact and bounce and stop acting like a p*ssy.