my girl cheated on me a year and a half ago...and it still fukks with me

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its like i cant get the shyt off of my mind,she completly changed but i cant even look at her the same. it was with a dude she used to mess with...we been together almost 2 years and its crazy its like that shyt caused my whole attitude to change..i was a nice guy but now that phase of me is now gone. its like i emotionally invested sooo much in her its like i cant let go. the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive





i forgave her ...but still my soul stills feel ethered from that shyt.. i think she knows it too. just last night she was telling me how she still thinks about the shyt and how she wished it never happen...but im like a ex aint gon just hit u up to smoke and drink.. and not expect anything to happen. to be honest..im really not even i love with her no more. we live togetha..no kids . its like i want sum karma...but me cheating on her would only make things worse

You Didn't leave her after the fact, nikka you still a nice guy, stop being a fukking nice guy you spineless worm your embarrassing yourself

 

[Cat piss martini]

I dont understand how cats over 20 hurt over
a dame giving that p*ssy up...
sooner or later a broad is gonna cheat and the
worst kind is the mental shyt where shes on the phone
with that eddie haskell ass nikka who will sit up for hours
telling her how she could do better in hopes of getting some.
you gotta train yourself to not care about that square shyt.
a man should never trip off where a broad is or what shes doing.
that's a woman's job..
get rid of that hoe or put some miles and grey
hair on her damn head.

 

[FaTaL]

its like i cant get the shyt off of my mind,she completly changed but i cant even look at her the same. it was with a dude she used to mess with...we been together almost 2 years and its crazy its like that shyt caused my whole attitude to change..i was a nice guy but now that phase of me is now gone. its like i emotionally invested sooo much in her its like i cant let go. the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive





i forgave her ...but still my soul stills feel ethered from that shyt.. i think she knows it too. just last night she was telling me how she still thinks about the shyt and how she wished it never happen...but im like a ex aint gon just hit u up to smoke and drink.. and not expect anything to happen. to be honest..im really not even i love with her no more. we live togetha..no kids . its like i want sum karma...but me cheating on her would only make things worse

why are u even with her?


she gonna do it again, she looking at you like this

 

[H@LLOW]

At least you have no kids breh. I been there, it hurt like a mofo, but it also build your character. I took it as a learning experience, i was the best guy at the time. You have 2 choices: 1. Stay and make it work 2. Walk away now.

If you not happy walk now that there isn't a child in the middle.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

why are u even with her?


she gonna do it again, she looking at you like this

 

[Panther]

Breh get the fukk outta that relationship

Break that lease, find you a new place, and a new bytch... Plus you dont have kids. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN nikka

 

[young3000]

You're only 24, still in your prime. Dead that chick and go fukk a few girls and live it up until you figure out what you want. Just don't catch any feelings....

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

You deserve the pain you're feeling for staying with her.

You disgust me, you fukking chump.

OP doesn’t come off as the kind of guy who can really put himself out there like that (if he could have, he would have).

It’s not so much him having to change from the Great Gary personae to the Jaded Joey façade… that’s way too contrived and won’t give him a peace of mind.

What he needs to do is surround himself with good people that can influence him to make more sound decisions (and it seems like he doesn’t parle with those types of people, hence, why he’s seeking aid and validation on the webernet – nothing wrong with that).

Okay, IPODPLAYA, let me tell you something.

You’re fukkin’ up big time.

Not only is she an infidel – she’s getting complacent and eating everything in sight. Do you know why she’s doing that? Because she’s genuinely distraught at what happened and using Kid Kuisine to soak up her sorrows.

The best thang you can do –and this is applicable to bowf parties- is to exit this relationships premises as soon as possible.

This union you two have is not healthy and in the long run will spawn two miserable adults who wished they didn’t waste their lives with eachother when things starting to go downhill and snowball into treachery.

Now I feel like I’m talking to a plant. Look…

You have 4 weeks to get your shiit straight and move the fukk out. If you still have a lease with her that doesn’t expire, see if she is willing to adopt a roommate or craigslist one.

This is where the crap hits the knapsack; once you commit to this and follow through, you will realize how much of your sanity will be restored and now, can live the life YOU wanted to without the lingering thoughts of a woman’s historically 51/50 ratchet ass actions wearing on you – ultimately destroying you of your life force radio. Deeg?

Now get the fukk up and do something about it.



Like Evans… we got Faith in you.



.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Breh get the fukk outta that relationship

Break that lease, find you a new place, and a new bytch... Plus you dont have kids. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN nikka

thats my plan,ima talk to the landlord tommorow..its gon be hard

 

[kash10003]

there's a difference between being a nice guy and lacking self esteem and future direction

 

[Sad Bunny]

@DaIpod2012

let it go...its hard but do it.

my ex broke up with me, dated a girl, texted me about how she isnt good at eating p*ssy, tried to get me back after the girl broke her heart while the bytch was living with her

And she did a whole bunch of shyt leading up to that and after we broke up. god damn I hate that bish

I took her back and it NEVER LEFT MY MIND

2 years later, I'm free

I might miss her sometimes, but all I got to do is think of how dirty she did me and I know I made the right choice

 

[havoc00]

Start verbally abusing her everyday maker her feel like shyt degrade her

 

[kash10003]

Start verbally abusing her everyday maker her feel like shyt degrade her

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Ride out breh... before you end up like Jovan Belcher....Real Talk

 

[Banned Account12]

You deserve the pain you're feeling for staying with her.

You disgust me, you fukking chump.