my girl cheated on me a year and a half ago...and it still fukks with me

[BantuKnotz99]

its like i cant get the shyt off of my mind,she completly changed but i cant even look at her the same. it was with a dude she used to mess with...we been together almost 2 years and its crazy its like that shyt caused my whole attitude to change..i was a nice guy but now that phase of me is now gone. its like i emotionally invested sooo much in her its like i cant let go. the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive





i forgave her ...but still my soul stills feel ethered from that shyt.. i think she knows it too. just last night she was telling me how she still thinks about the shyt and how she wished it never happen...but im like a ex aint gon just hit u up to smoke and drink.. and not expect anything to happen. to be honest..im really not even i love with her no more. we live togetha..no kids . its like i want sum karma...but me cheating on her would only make things worse

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Man once your girl gets some dikk on the side and you take her back, it's only a matter of time before that shyt blows up. Once a chick cheats, she's tainted in my eyes, and it'll never be the same again. You should dump her and start over w/ someone else.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

you should probably just leave...

 

[Blacsmiff]

You deserve the pain you're feeling for staying with her.

You disgust me, you fukking chump.

 

[MoneyTron]

Cut those ties breh. Nothing good is going to come of this.

 

[Chief]

You know the root to your pain and your are still with her, I can't feel sorry for you man.

 

[young3000]

its like i cant get the shyt off of my mind,she completly changed but i cant even look at her the same. it was with a dude she used to mess with...we been together almost 2 years and its crazy its like that shyt caused my whole attitude to change..i was a nice guy but now that phase of me is now gone. its like i emotionally invested sooo much in her its like i cant let go. the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive





i forgave her ...but still my soul stills feel ethered from that shyt.. i think she knows it too. just last night she was telling me how she still thinks about the shyt and how she wished it never happen...but im like a ex aint gon just hit u up to smoke and drink.. and not expect anything to happen. to be honest..im really not even i love with her no more. we live togetha..no kids . its like i want sum karma...but me cheating on her would only make things worse

That's 3 valid reasons to leave....also she cheated, so that's 4. How old are you?

no kids either

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I don't know why people stay with cheaters. The trust between the pair is NEVER gonna be the same; cut your losses from jump and save yourself additional heartache.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

You'll feel a lot better about yourself once you leave. Psychologically its what you know you need to do, but you cant because of attachment....the shame you feel internally is making you feel worse than the act itself. Just move on, it would be better for the both of you anyway.

 

[ThatKidBlackHippy]

end it now.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Man once your girl gets some dikk on the side and you take her back, it's only a matter of time before that shyt blows up. Once a chick cheats, she's tainted in my eyes, and it'll never be the same again. You should dump her and start over w/ someone else.

u right,believe me...all feelings i did have been gone maybe the months after that..its like theres no use in trying anymore. i just want her to feel the pain i feel...i dont think its normal to think about this shyt for a year straight....nonstop

you should probably just leave...

easier said than done...we live together ,i cant just up and leave

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

u right,believe me...all feelings i did have been gone maybe the months after that..its like theres no use in trying anymore. i just want her to feel the pain i feel...i dont think its normal to think about this shyt for a year straight....nonstop









easier said than done...we live together ,i cant just up and leave

It is if you stayed with her after she did it

Like

If you didn't have to see her every day... you wouldn't think about her cheating on you

Spoiler

There is only one appropriate course of action, friend

 

[61 Corpses]

u right,believe me...all feelings i did have been gone maybe the months after that..its like theres no use in trying anymore. i just want her to feel the pain i feel...i dont think its normal to think about this shyt for a year straight....nonstop









easier said than done...we live together ,i cant just up and leave

Then kick that bytch out

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Cut those ties breh. Nothing good is going to come of this.

You know the root to your pain and your are still with her, I can't feel sorry for you man.

dont want sympathy homie...just moral support,from ppl who have been thru this

That's 3 valid reasons to leave....also she cheated, so that's 4. How old are you?

no kids either

im 24

I don't know why people stay with cheaters. The trust between the pair is NEVER gonna be the same; cut your losses from jump and save yourself additional heartache.

You'll feel a lot better about yourself once you leave. Psychologically its what you know you need to do, but you cant because of attachment....the shame you feel internally is making you feel worse than the act itself. Just move on, it would be better for the both of you anyway.

that first step is what i ultimatlely need

u right,believe me...all feelings i did have been gone maybe the months after that..its like theres no use in trying anymore. i just want her to feel the pain i feel...i dont think its normal to think about this shyt for a year straight....nonstop









easier said than done...we live together ,i cant just up and leave

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

easier said than done...we live together ,i cant just up and leave

yeah, i know. but what are you going to do? just sit and bear it? it'll be harder to live like that for years than to make preparations to separate over the course of a shorter amount of time. plus, when you start making plans to better your situation, life normally has a way of aiding you. you might not get exactly what you want but things will get better.