my girl cheated on me a year and a half ago...and it still fukks with me

[BlvdBrawler]

u right,believe me...all feelings i did have been gone maybe the months after that..its like theres no use in trying anymore. i just want her to feel the pain i feel...i dont think its normal to think about this shyt for a year straight....nonstop

Nah what you're feeling is actually very normal. That persistent feeling of betrayal, shame in yourself for taking her back, constant fear that it's going to happen again, loss of control of your relationship, and a general feeling of helplessness about the situation. Completely 100% normal. What you need to do now is ask yourself what you're going to do about it, other than sit there and wallow in misery and wait for her to leave you.

easier said than done...we live together ,i cant just up and leave

I hear you man but you know you need to end it with her at some point. The relationship is dead, and it has been for a while. Not saying you need to drop her right now, but you need to start moving towards that direction. Trust me your happiness is MORE THAN worth the $xxxx number of dollars it will cost to break your lease.

 

[Silkk]

Unless Yall Have A Kid

Spoiler

And If Yall Do

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Then kick that bytch out

both our names are on the lease

It is if you stayed with her after she did it

Like

If you didn't have to see her every day... you wouldn't think about her cheating on you

Spoiler

There is only one appropriate course of action, friend

hate to sound like im making excuses but knowing me i would still think about it..hell it might be amplified somewhat

 

[NYChase718]

become a cuckold

 

[BantuKnotz99]

yeah, i know. but what are you going to do? just sit and bear it? it'll be harder to live like that for years than to make preparations to separate over the course of a shorter amount of time. plus, when you start making plans to better your situation, life normally has a way of aiding you. you might not get exactly what you want but things will get better.

respect, i feel this 100 percent

 

[Binary]

Once you cheat, I'm out. No taking you back or anything.

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

you shared that girl.

 

[Born2BKing]

TS, when you get in bed with her at night, do you think about how that dude was blowing her back out and prolly smacking her ass. Her screaming for him to go harder and harder and telling him she is about to cum all over his dikk. How she licked his ball sack and slobbed the shaft while he demanded that she deep throat it, which I'm sure she agreed to do. How he prolly busted on her face and made her leave right after he was done so she could hug and kiss up on you.

I hope this thought helps you to leave her TODAY. Get the hell out of there bro. Men aren't supposed to take a woman back after she has stepped out and let another dude marinate her sugar walls in love batter.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

respect, i feel this 100 percent

all i'm saying is don't wait for someone else to ease your pain, especially if she's the one that gave you the pain. sitting around and waiting for her is bullshyt. plus, she's probably in pain too that's probably why she got all fat and shyt, her self-esteem is shot. but, anyways, it's about your pain now. you can't help her and she can't help you...

 

[Liquid]

You know what you have to do

 

[LezJepzin]

Get out of it now and look for someone else. Being unmarried without kids is your advantage.

 

[Jparker]

I mean the only way someone else fukking my bytch is acceptable is if his name is Based God...other than that just leave bruh.

 

[kurt]

Ol cuckold ass nikka

 

[Gunshi]

its like i cant get the shyt off of my mind,she completly changed but i cant even look at her the same. it was with a dude she used to mess with...we been together almost 2 years and its crazy its like that shyt caused my whole attitude to change..i was a nice guy but now that phase of me is now gone. its like i emotionally invested sooo much in her its like i cant let go. the p*ssy aint even good no more..its like all i perfer is head now..shes gotten fat..and unattractive





i forgave her ...but still my soul stills feel ethered from that shyt.. i think she knows it too. just last night she was telling me how she still thinks about the shyt and how she wished it never happen...but im like a ex aint gon just hit u up to smoke and drink.. and not expect anything to happen. to be honest..im really not even i love with her no more. we live togetha..no kids . its like i want sum karma...but me cheating on her would only make things worse

shyt like dis will change you mayne....make you wanna choke a bytch

 

[j7thirty]

Don't fukk her no more it a be just yo luck she get popped off when u tryna leave

Start finding you some where to go lowkey

Wait for her to go to work or some shyt get all yo shyt and leave