My girl is trying to change my COLI GMB Ideology.

[SheWantTheD]

That bond between a man and his wife is something special .

Not to be taken lightly breh .

There are somethings your girlfriend will probably never do that one day your wife will .

For richer and poorer for better and worst vowes are serious !!

Man my co worker is learning that right now .

He is sick and his wife is holding the family down .

As a man he feels so guilty breh .

He feels less Than because he can't work like he use to .

I told him this is what your wife is for breh . She's your partner in crime man .

You use to hold it down when she wasn't in this position she's in now .


@Juicy am I spot on or a little off ?

All those things are about feeeelings and emotions. They don't mean crap in the long run in being committed to and raising a family right.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

I'm 25 and a lot of my white homies have mortgages, engaged with a puppy and in their careers. A few of my African American home girls are engaged but the rest aren't. It's strange.

I understand a lot of white people (more than half) will divorce but it's just strange to see this unfold as I age.

Men should be up front with women and women should choose wisely that's all I can really say.

28. i know three couples my age already divorced and sold their houses. #gmb

 

[Ashley Banks]

That bond between a man and his wife is something special .

Not to be taken lightly breh .

There are somethings your girlfriend will probably never do that one day your wife will .

For richer and poorer for better and worst vowes are serious !!

Man my co worker is learning that right now .

He is sick and his wife is holding the family down .

As a man he feels so guilty breh .

He feels less Than because he can't work like he use to .

I told him this is what your wife is for breh . She's your partner in crime man .

You use to hold it down when she wasn't in this position she's in now .


@Juicy am I spot on or a little off ?

Spot on

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

ain't no demon alive can convince me #gmb is a bad philosophy this day and age

 

[Stuntone]

I'm married and I'm 23 and I've never dated a hood dude or a thug or whatever.

I just pay attention and not all women that end up bitter and scorned were with hood dudes or with dudes that had "swag" just dudes like you, that were too afraid to give them what they deserved. I don't know about you but being someone's girlfriend isn't a secure situation imo. Maybe you'll teach your daughter that it''s ok to only be someone's gf but I was taught differently. I guess that's why I'm married and your "perfect" gf is still just your gf and will be for the next 10 years.

Marriage isn't a secure situation either, just more complex when you decide to split. And it's usually the women that decide to split, go figure.

If a guy were to treat my daughter the way I treat my girl, I'm all for him and her. Smart people aren't concerned with titles as much as situations. She knows I got her back and we're a good team. Down for each other. Helping each other and doing it well.

Most women know when a guy isn't putting forth the right effort and time to get to know her. If she decides to stay and pursue him, that's her dumb azz. Now my girl can go crash at my parents house everyday if she likes. My house, my brothers houses and they'll look out for her. She's in, probably better than you are with your husband's family. My girl could go to my parents house right now and fix a sandwich and watch tv right now at 11:33pm on a Monday night. My parent would ask her if she's ok and she could be like I just don't want to stay at my house tonight. They'll give her a pillow and blanket and that'll be it. You can't do that. I could go to her people house. This is deep south, Louisiana family shyt. We breakup, we have to breakup with the whole damn family. We would have to have a sit down with our families to breakup. I'm sure our shyt is a lot deeper than your rushed social marriage.


So this aint no shaky shyt most women are involved in. This is a consistent and reliable, stable situation. If I feel that she and I can be keep this thing up and be happy for a long time, I'd consider marriage, but if we're happy and we're both straight what's the rush?

 

[Stuntone]

ain't no demon alive can convince me #gmb is a bad philosophy this day and age

All those things are about feeeelings and emotions. They don't mean crap in the long run in being committed to and raising a family right.

Exactly!

Black people love to feel good and substance-less symbolism. I told me girl, all of that chemistry and magical relationship shyt don't mean shyt. This is a partnership of 2 people trying to build a great situation to raise a family in.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Marriage isn't a secure situation either, just more complex when you decide to split. And it's usually the women that decide to split, go figure.

If a guy were to treat my daughter the way I treat my girl, I'm all for him and her. Smart people aren't concerned with titles as much as situations. She knows I got her back and we're a good team. Down for each other. Helping each other and doing it well.

Most women know when a guy isn't putting forth the right effort and time to get to know her. If she decides to stay and pursue him, that's her dumb azz. Now my girl can go crash at my parents house everyday if she likes. My house, my brothers houses and they'll look out for her. She's in, probably better than you are with your husband's family. My girl could go to my parents house right now and fix a sandwich and watch tv right now at 11:33pm on a Monday night. My parent would ask her if she's ok and she could be like I just don't want to stay at my house tonight. They'll give her a pillow and blanket and that'll be it. You can't do that. I could go to her people house. This is deep south, Louisiana family shyt. We breakup, we have to breakup with the whole damn family. We would have to have a sit down with our families to breakup. I'm sure our shyt is a lot deeper than your rushed social marriage.


So this aint no shaky shyt most women are involved in. This is a consistent and reliable, stable situation. If I feel that she and I can be keep this thing up and be happy for a long time, I'd consider marriage, but if we're happy and we're both straight what's the rush?

lol, you dont know anything about my relationship or my relationship with my in laws dont try to spin this on me. My husband and I are happy and our relationship is great and we know for a fact that we can keep this up long term, there's no questions or doubt. our marriage is stable, reliable, and consistent and I'm positive the bond I have with my husband is a lot deeper than the bond you have with your gf that you're afraid to put it all on the line for. & I can sleep at my husband's parents house whenever and we're all close as well, that's not something that only your gf can do lmao

My marriage wasn't rushed or social, it's something that we both wanted and we were both ready for it. Don't try and downplay my marriage just because you're afraid and don't love your girl enough do it. We're good, we wouldn't have done it if we didn't think we'd be successful. Just because my husband didn't need 10 years to realize that I'm the one doesn't mean anything.

For the record, I wasnt attacking your relationship, if you feel like it's fine the way it is then that's your business. I just think you using "gmb" as a reason to not marry a woman that's good to you that wants to get married is fukked up.

 

[Shadow King]

#gmb is a way of life, or so i hear, you can be committed to each other without that piece of paper. #GMB the army ZKG the navy. rep yo set till death nikka!

What is this?

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Kill the infidel
CSGMB (Coli State Of GetMarried &Brehs) akbar

 

[Dorian Breh]

Sounds like you got a good girl, breh

Idk how old you are but you prob don't need to worry about putting a ring on it for several yrs. Just don't get her pregnant breh

In a few yrs something will happen and you'll realize GMB has taken 0 losses

As long as you ain't putting ya baby batter in these women you can take a break from the #gmb lifestyle. But you'll be back.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

All those things are about feeeelings and emotions. They don't mean crap in the long run in being committed to and raising a family right.

you have no idea what you're talking about those are values and the foundation for building a family .

Man leave these good women alone if you don't want commitment .

Go find you thots

 

[Reginald Noble]

Social pressure and upbringing will be two biggest factors here.

Are her closest friends either past or present THOTS?

Was her momma a THOT? Was her daddy around? Did he spoil her rotten?

She hiding a slew of exes in her home town?

All shyt that needs to be verified in the Katfax background check...

Hire a PI, get a key logger, hack her phone and do what you gotta do in order to make your mind feel secure -

OR you could just get a non-American Woman with strong family values that knows how to treat a Man Yeah Southern Traditional Black American Women may seem that way on the surface - But due to the adversities we face as a people in general there is tons of scar tissue laying around being covered up by Botox, Ass Injections, Cornbread Chicken and Grits.

Not saying there couldn't be potential issues, but if you're gonna fish do it in a lake or stream known for having more good quality fish than bad...

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

What is this?

zero kids gang.

 

[SheWantTheD]

you have no idea what you're talking about those are values and the foundation for building a family .

Man leave these good women alone if you don't want commitment .

Go find you thots

Keep on simping breh . Like I said in my other post, all those things are about emotions and feeeeelings. Being married on paper, having an expensive wedding, and buying your wife an expensive ring is all about bragging rights to their friends and family. How is it a strong foundation for raising a family and committing to a woman? Tell me. Because you can leave, cheat, abuse emotionally, physically, mentally, etc whether you are legally married or not.

In 2016 many men no longer have an incentive to get married but women still do, even though it doesn't hold any true benefit and substance to it.

 

[MillionMills]

I'm married and I'm 23 and I've never dated a hood dude or a thug or whatever.

I just pay attention and not all women that end up bitter and scorned were with hood dudes or with dudes that had "swag" just dudes like you, that were too afraid to give them what they deserved. I don't know about you but being someone's girlfriend isn't a secure situation imo. Maybe you'll teach your daughter that it''s ok to only be someone's gf but I was taught differently. I guess that's why I'm married and your "perfect" gf is still just your gf and will be for the next 10 years.

You only married your nikka because he's rich