My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Good on u op
My nikka.u done good
Repped

 

[Sterling Archer]

Went through her phone, she has been talking to an old male friend who lives 100 miles awayfor the past two months, I dont know if they have a past together though. The breh just recently left his cheating baby mama (his got doubts the kid is his).

Maybe she planning to hook up with this breh, I don't know. She is out regardless, I'm helping her look for a room & hopefully she out of my place by the end of next week

Bro, fukk the next week shyt. Rent a $20 Uhaul TODAY. Pay 2 dudes on task rabbit or get a couple paisas in front of Home Depot to load it up for $100 and put her shyt in a $50 storage unit. First month always free. You out of $150-200 tops and you get peace of mind that’s worth way more. She got her shyt secured and 2 months of safe keeping to get her shyt together. She can take a bag and go crash with that dude she talking to. A friend. Or you can drop her ass off at Greyhound and send her back across the Great Plains whence she brought herself. You giving her too much time for her to try and pull a stunt.

This is my advice and it is sound.

 

[DapMeUp!]

I clearly must not understand what "confused about feelings" means. Is this universal code for I want to break up?

Yes.

You ever been confused about how you feel about your partner before? Not someone your seeing your actual GF?

 

[AceMan]

Went through her phone, she has been talking to an old male friend who lives 100 miles awayfor the past two months, I dont know if they have a past together though. The breh just recently left his cheating baby mama (his got doubts the kid is his).

Maybe she planning to hook up with this breh, I don't know. She is out regardless, I'm helping her look for a room & hopefully she out of my place by the end of next week

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

I clearly must not understand what "confused about feelings" means. Is this universal code for I want to break up?

I've had a good woman in the past that I pushed to the edge through my own neglect. And it was through conversation that I was able to identify the impact my behavior was having on her, and the relationship. I was able to salvage it as a result...

But that's just me... I just like to have a full understanding of shyt and ensure at the very least I'm doing my part

confused/ I need space means she already checked out but doesn't know how to straight up say that. maybe she feels bad or doesn't want to admit it but women are not great at communicating or explaining what is going on. its almost like we have to interpret what they really mean when they say shyt. Maybe not all women are like this but most of them are. plus if a women doesn't respect you or think you are that dude then it's over.

What she means is shes not feeling it anymore and maybe she doesn't exactly know why or doesn't want to admit it and shes confused/conflicted because maybe she still loves OP but she's not in love with him anymore because some of her needs are not being met.

So she is confusing herself when deep down she really knows what she wants she just doesn't realize it because women think emotionally and not logically like men do.

 

[Guess Who]

I clearly must not understand what "confused about feelings" means. Is this universal code for I want to break up?

I've had a good woman in the past that I pushed to the edge through my own neglect. And it was through conversation that I was able to identify the impact my behavior was having on her, and the relationship. I was able to salvage it as a result...

But that's just me... I just like to have a full understanding of shyt and ensure at the very least I'm doing my part

I think that you’re right but also the other brehs are right as well.

It’s not always black and white about why a woman is confused—often it’s another dude but sometimes it’s actual problems in the relationship.

Lord knows that my wife and I woulda divorced several times over if I didn’t have the patience to work through her often complicated feelings. At the same time those feelings were complicated by things that aren’t another man. If it IS another man then yeah it’s probably time to end it.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Sounds like she's distracted.

She probably didn't cook clean and obey anyway. It hurts when women waste your time with their rabid ass minds. Good luck.

It's hard to find a woman who can deal with the monotony of the day to day. That's when you know you've found wifey.

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Yea OP. She said she confused like she tryna solve for “x”

at “confused”. This ain’t Calculus dikkhead. Send her dumbass back to the streets. 3 years though? She’ll be back and claim she just needed a break (aka other dikk). Take her back at your own peril though

 

[analog]

Yes.

You ever been confused about how you feel about your partner before? Not someone your seeing your actual GF?

Plenty... And it mostly stemmed from me losing sight and dwelling too much on her shortcomings. Completely overlooking her positive qualities. I'd be thinking about, and even looking for a woman that can fill that 10% she lacks... and man would that have been foolish.

But either way, I understand where y'all coming from, and Op now that he's provided a little more context.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Why you think our grandparents marriages/relationships lasted so long?
Oh , grandma is confused about her feelings .....well, we might as well give up now.
nah , you talk about it and if you can't solve the problem , then you go separate ways.

Your grandmother had better sense than to be “confused” by some random nikka in a zoot suit. Stop trying to compare modern woman to your fukking grandparents. They move entirely different.

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Yeah, she's probably cheating.


Move on with your life there are a lot of women out there looking for a decent black man.

Sounds like she's about to and is looking for ways to rationalize it. Either way moving on is the right thing to do.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Plenty... And it mostly stemmed from me losing sight and dwelling too much on her shortcomings. Completely overlooking her positive qualities. I'd be thinking about, and even looking for a woman that can fill that 10% she lacks... and man would that have been foolish.

But either way, I understand where y'all coming from, and Op now that he's provided a little more context.

Then she should’ve left yo ass for doing just that. What’s there not to get?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Take it from someone that had to learn the hard way....

The second she tells you she's "not sure", throw her back to the streets.

 

[OaklandCertified]

She moved across the country to be with me, she don't know anyone in my city

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave

She met new dikk that has her confused you did the right thing

 

[DapMeUp!]

Plenty... And it mostly stemmed from me losing sight and dwelling too much on her shortcomings. Completely overlooking her positive qualities. I'd be thinking about, and even looking for a woman that can fill that 10% she lacks... and man would that have been foolish.

But either way, I understand where y'all coming from, and Op now that he's provided a little more context.

Was you actively thinking about leaving or was you just looking at the grass on the other side?

I think everyone looks outside from time to time, but not to the point that I want to leave if that's the case then I would just leave.
I can honestly say I have never been confused about the person I am seeing.

Either I want to be with them or I don't, but I guess everyone is different